Guys, guy says he's looking for something permeant (a potential long term partner) but first night-time conversation turned sexual is he lying?

[Anonymous]

via phone, phone chatting. He says slow by the way -

He started the sexual undertone & I think he may have been playing with himself (just pauses, sighs, change in voice).

Yes Lying - Only Wants into your Pants

Maybe Lying

No Not Lying - Wanted to know if sexual connection rather than waste time

[Guy13]

Does not sound like things are off to a committed relationship although long-term friends with benefits seem to be ahead...

[Asker]

How do you think I should address not being "easy" - as I'm not, only dated one person - without being offensive or giving the wrong impression.

[Guy13]

I think that you should be straightforward. I woukd find it irresistibly attractive. I woukd ask you out on the spot.-You do these kinds of things eye 👁-to-eye 👁 IF you want to be taken seriously. 💪. Really, a “good man” woukd be so turned on that it might be the first kiss. Maybe I’m such an oddball…🙃

[Asker]

He has commented I should be forthcoming. So I'll send a text about how the conversation rather deviated with an lol (childish yes) at the end to make it seem like not too serious. See how he responds.

[Guy13]

I like the eye-eye approach. I would not be worried about offending him. From your explanation, he’s not going to quit easily. Overthinking this with a Loss worldview is not to your benefit. My instincts tell me you have the Value of Lady. I woukd engage him in all things with a personal knowledge of Lady. He leans little more towards dog in my book. Let me know how it works out please…you are damn rare at 30 these days‼️

[Asker]

Lol. Thanks. I think he is sort of a dog, when I said only had one relationship he was a bit perturbed at the idea may be innocent. ... But at the same time when he said he's had 4 serious relationships (with an indication a number of causals mind you) he commented he wish he'd had less.

He's... different... so I think someone who can keep up is quite interesting for him.

[Guy13]

Got it... this is going to be a fun one... "I'm not stupid" verse "let me see if I can wear her down"

[Iron_Man]

Don’t give it up and see if he sticks around

[Asker]

How do you think I should address not being "easy" - as I'm not, only dated one person - without being offensive or giving the wrong impression.

[Iron_Man]

You don’t need to make announcements just show that you’re a proper good girl and don’t talk about his sexual conversations and just don’t give it up and see if he likes you still and hangs around

[Asker]

True, thanks

[Iron_Man]

You are very welcome