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I know what I'm looking for. I believe in being celibate toll marriage And most people don't do relationships that way anymore.
That said
Idon't want to feel I can't get a date or female companionship.
Not chasing sex actually makes it way harder to meet people. Because no one believes you, and when they do they shame you for it.
All of my friends have girls or go out and bag in me to no end.
And I partly wanted to date just to shut them up and to boost my confidence saying yes I can also go on dates and have a good time.
But it's not been good for me. Cold approaching women and or using dating apps was pretty bad.
So I thought ok. I must look bad. No iv seen worse looking guys with women. So I said iv not got a Lotta money. But no some guys have less.
They said just be confident. Just be confident. How can you be confident when you feel like there is something about you that repels women like a middle finger tattooed on your head.
That's why I'd want dates. Don't want relationships I got enough problems as it is.
Not really looking for a serious relationship at the moment, but I'm always willing to make both new friends and good friends
Currently not looking as I'm pretty content single at the moment.
But if I was to pursue a relationship again, it would be for my own happiness- or rather said guy makes me happy and I feel like he compliments me. Not for attention, loneliness, security, money, or fear of being alone or judged. But because it feels right.
I used to fall into practically every one of those categories from my late teens, up until my late 20s. I finally outgrew it when I realized trying to find for those reasons only made me even more miserable than I was being single.
In other words, if you're pursuing a relationship for any of the above reasons, more than likely you're doing it wrong and it's going to cost you in the long run.
Doing it for love and because I want something long-term, no bs
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If I have some sort of bond with someone, I want to cement that bond. It helps to have her as a friend, if not something more. Especially in this day, it's a treasure to make and have friends / true love, when psychopaths have staged successful coups, and governments are obsessed with divide and conquer as a result.
Nothing good comes from not having friends and lovers. You need it to learn love, cultivate, and grow.
Far too easy to make enemies instead. But there's little true growth in it. And it's exhausting having to constantly fight. Especially with nowhere to run.
I think everyone wants a relationship for love obviously but I have a feeling a lot of relationships are started for fear of being alone. People settle to easily and then they become unhappy later on in the relationship. I think people should take their time and really get to know each other first.
I've done and accomplished a lot of things on my own up to this point and at this point it's fun to share life with someone. Like, do life together. Get to know them, feel supported and support them, go through fun patches, go through rough patches and try to figure them out..
In my opinion I'm was a rock star in my school and college life, many girls and even teachers look me very carefully like real love but you know there is a fear and shame thats will keep distance from me them.
I seem to do it the opposite way.
get into a relationship then end it
then destroy what is a potential relationship.
This puts me now in the not looking camp.
Multiple reasons, but mainly for love, to have kids, and to have a partner to share life experiences with. Also board games. I want a partner to play board games with. :)
Of course for love. Relationships are too much effort for it to be anything else. If I just wanted attention I get a frigging dog lol. Having said that, relationships are a 2 way street. So many women today define a relationship as a man is just supposed to cater to her. I'm not going to invest in ANY women unwilling to invest in me. I'd rather stay single.
Currently single and while am aware there are a ton of reasons for getting in one. I can't see my self being in one unless am In love
For love, compassion and having a companion to laugh at my weirdness 😆
I would do it for love and that's probably why I'm gonna stay single for a few more years haha
Love! Luv! Wuv! To share my life with someone else! To enjoy life together.
Getting into relationships should be for love or sex, but it has been known to be for other reasons, like security.
As for me, I would say primarily Love; secondarily for sex. At this time, I'm open to Kismet.
I voted “Other reasons” - I love connecting w women and feeling strong chemistry w them
You can have multiple relationships, then you'll really have the attention of many people.
Love and don't wanna be alone.
Then sex.
For love. But that's the same reason I'm NOT getting into relationships. Because I see red flags, so I evacuate.
Mostly love, although sexual gratification plays a role.
I want kids. Kids can only be gotten from women. Women are a necessary evil. For kids and company I’ll confirm a little to make her happy but it’s all for the kids.
I hate that and i get tired of relationship
But looking just yet but likely will next year. I would want someone i love definitely.
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