I went out to lunch with an old friend of mine. We rode in his car, parked and ate there. My inner child comes out and we started comparing who had thicker thighs and measured each other using our hands. Then we compared hand sizes and ended up holding hands. I don’t feel guilty but wondering if this is something necessary to tell my boyfriend. It’s honestly nothing to me but I’m worried if I tell him our relationship might get hurt.
To me... It is!, but as long as i don't know about it the better. U know what they say "the less you know, the longer u'll live".
On the other hand the "chemistry u2 have", the touchy-touchy feeling, that would start to eat u from the inside and finally u'll let it out. And from touchy-touchy to kisses, and maybe more is just a "step", so u have to be careful, u might kill 2 birds with one stone, and end up being single... so i sugest u, make up ur mind, either stick with ur boyfriend, and forget about "touchy friend", or just leave both of them, as u'll hurt both of them, and is not gonna be pretty...
My advice is to not say anything to your boyfriend. It could have been worse and though you don’t feel it was anything your boyfriend might not be happy about it. If you love your boyfriend or think he could possibly be your husband you probably shouldn’t have lunch with this other guy again. If you can’t see yourself spending the rest of your life with your boyfriend maybe you should end the relationship before anyone gets hurt
Would you have done all that if your boyfriend was sitting in the back seat of that car. Yes or no? The answer you give will determine if it’s considered cheating or not
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Yes, it is. It is more about where the heart is than what you did. You are in a relationship and are flirting and teasing another man. This is a violation of trust and demonstrates that you are not serious in current relationship. This is wrong and considered cheating. Are you going to confess to your current boyfriend?
If it were reversed and it was him with another woman, how would you feel about it? While you haven't "cheated" yet, it won't likely make him feel good or think "it's nothing". Even if it truly is for you, who knows if the guy feels the same way as you (?). You assume he does, but guys often aren't like that. To him, it could "mean" more.
Whenever you feel guilty about something (as you apparently do here), the question to ask is: Is it better I tell him or better he finds out on his own? The answer will tell you what you should do.
u If your boyfriend had done the same would it have bothered you or would u have done it with him there
I consider any form of intimate interaction cheating. Having a "moment" that gives you the jitters with another guy would be cheating in my book
so... don't tell him. if he finds out, then you will need to explain that it was NOTHING, like to old friends goofing around, he might understand, but... he may not
If your boyfriend was doing what you did with another girl, what would you think? How would you feel?
Cheating intent is cheating no matter what you do or do not do.
Yes. At least you don't feel guilty and didn't fuck him. Well yet..
If you're asking on her, yes, it is
What you didn’t play just the tip?
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