Could you be in a relationship with someone who goes out with friends of the opposite sex?

[Anonymous]

If they have days out and go for drinks, but you aren't invited and you don't get to meet his/her friends? Could you fully trust them?

[Finchie40]

No, if they valued me and respected the relationship they wouldn’t need to go out and party without me especially with opposite sex friends , which makes it even worse , vice versa , when someone loves and values you out of respect they eliminate that shit , you should never exclude your partner , when you start excluding a partner all that tells them is to start excluding you , when a partner tells you they need space tell them they can have all the space they want because you will not be waiting for their return. If they tell you that you are being controlling and that you don’t trust them tell them it has nothing to do with that , if you can’t respect the relationship like you expect me to , then you don’t respect me so how can I respect you , , so there is no point on even being in a relationship because all you care about is yourself , I am not saying you have to hold your partners hand at all times , but you should always consider them when making decisions, don’t do things that you wouldn’t want your partner to do to you , when 2 people want love to grow you remove selfishness for each other , if you canMt do that , then don’t be in a relationship plain and simple

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

If I'm with a woman then I trust her to do right by me otherwise I wouldn't be with her.

As far for your question that seems odd and I wouldn't like it. I'm her man, not a bunch of other dudes with her alone.

[coachTanthony]

Sounds like they are hiding them from you or them from you. Either way that's a little SUS in my opinion.

[CalmMind]

That "don't" in that question would be the dealbreaker for me. I have to meet them, get to know them, and see how you interact with them before I become comfortable with it. If that's an issue then that's a pretty big red flag. Not necessarily out cheating but maybe the person hangs out with their friends they become someone I don't want to be associated with.

No issues with S/O having time with their friends at all. Go have fun but not with deception. Same applies in reverse, if she hates my friends or who I am with my friends then we're not going to work because they were here before her, and they'll be here if she leaves me.

I don't blame the other people if my S/O cheats or acts like a moron when with her friends. I blame her and peace the hell out.

[DannyUk2017]

If you aren't invited, that means they could just Not like you in "their circle of friends", so is better to "make" you'r own friends.. like the saying..."friends are made, Not found"... Or another one..."lord keep me away from friends, as if the enemies i can take care myself"... so yeah!

[dustybiker]

I have male friends, but their girlfriends and now wives have never been excluded. That’s not right.

[UnknownPuppet]

I wouldn't bother if he had not shown me sign to not trust him.

[Shamalien]

Depends on their sexual history. Former sluts must be kept away from tempting situations

[LiamSawyer]

That is by no means normal in a relationship.

[MangoBob]

Not only No but HELL NO,

[Hanrej]

I could be in such a relationship.

[Wise4myage]

Sure, I don't see why not.

[RealDaveThomas]

nope

[In_Trance]

I wouldn't bother