Hi everyone was wondering can spooning in bed lose its interest over time in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend used to spoon me somtimes. Now he doesn’t wanna do it at all. Even when I have asked him. He seems not interested. We cuddle and hug and kiss in bed. Is this normal?

is there something wrong with me? How do I encourage him

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1 y

I asked to spoon other night we tried but he had stomach pains and it was hot so we would try another day

[Emiliamazing]

It happened with us, but I’m the one who didn’t feel like spooning anymore, purely because I can’t fall asleep being touched anymore.
Perhaps you can spoon him and remind him how nice it can be

[Asker]

I can try

[Asker]

I am smaller then him

[LazerBean]

I don't know, we've been doing it for 3 years and we still like it.

[Keepitreal007]

Is he not satisfied sexually? My wife doesn’t satisfy me and I e moved myself away more and more so that could be it.

[Asker]

He not bothered sexually lol

[Keepitreal007]

Could be bored.

[Asker]

He got depression

[GlassTop]

You start spooning him. Then ask for your turn. Simple.

[driven159]

If it's during the summer might be uncomfortable too hot

[DarkWinterNights]

Are you laying on his arm and making it go numb?

[Asker]

Not really sure probably

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Sounds like an unhealthy “relationship”