So now I’m scared and feel so worried about my future with him. I worry about what kind of life that will be if we get super serious. He did apologize this morning and said he hated himself for yelling like that, that he wants my support when he is financially stressed. And proceeded to list off all the expenses he has to pay for. And how his mom asking for money for years makes him get triggered.
I need guidance. I don’t know what to do. I never saw my father talk to my mother that way. So it just scares me. I don’t feel like he wants to provide if need be.