You walk into the room and your boyfriend/girlfriend is in the bed with another man/woman. What's your next move?

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Rania05 · Accepted Answer

I don't mind letting them get dressed before beating my boyfriend then question gently (as much as humanly possible) asking the mistress about everything (how they met, does she know about me, who seduced or was interested the other first, since when was the affair going on and her situation) before judging or considering the severity of violence I should use on either of the two, before they wear their closes I'll tell my older sister and friends to come for a visit.

After all there's a possibility of rape, affair on both side and threats. If my boy is cheating I don't think I can trust him that he can't do anything of the above because his image in my heart is completely turning upsidedown.

Marushka · Accepted Answer

Assuming we both agreed on a closed monogamous relationship: I'd join, make them both feel save and secure so I can tie them up and leave them like that for... some time. Whoever my partner cheated with prob for a shorter amount of time. I don't care if they're thirsty or have to use the bathroom or anything. I'm very open to the idea of casual sex and open relationships. I actually prefer them but I'll respect it if my partner is not down for it. If they still feel the need to cheat on me after basically breaking what they themselves demand from me I'm mad.

Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

Leave, it isn't worth it.
I found my exwife with the landlord.
Came home unexpectedly.
She asked what are you doing here?
I replied I used to live here, turned around and left.
He was married as well.
I just sat back and watch their worlds go to crap.
They never ended up together.
She got remarried to some guy that was really lazy and got divorced from him, and struggled to make ends meet.
Me, I have a great life, I can afford whatever I want.
Karma is a bitch.

HighValue · Accepted Answer

What if the husband walks in and the other guy is on top so he thinks she is being raped? Then he shoots the guy with a powerful handgun that goes through and kills his wife in the process?

Then the husband has no choice but to collect life insurance from her death.

SecretsofKB · Answer

That is the end of the relationship. There is no coming back from this for me. I would never be able to trust my partner again.

I have been cheated on before. I didn't catch them in the act, but I was told by someone I trusted that my partner was cheating. I then asked my partner about it and they admitted it. That instant it was over. Done.

If you cheat, you show me that you don't respect me enough to stay out of bed with someone else.

God_of_Thunder · Answer

If I own the place, then they're both getting thrown outside butt naked.

If it's not my place, then I take my stuff and leave.

Either way, I'm done. No conversation, no explanation, no apologies, no forgiveness. Done.

Anonymous · Answer

There was a guy who I somewhat knew over 20 years ago. I heard that he shot a guy who was having sex with his wife, and got 18 years in prison. I was talking to an old friend who I knew way back then, and he kept in touch with the guy the entire time that he was in prison, and the guy is out now.

I don't know if he knew about it ahead of time, or he walked in on them without knowing. The guy didn't die apparently because he was convicted of attempted murder.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Snatch her by the hair, throw her out the room then take the nearest piece of furniture and throw it upside his head

ElvenMr · Answer

Voted E, but it would depend on a lot of things.. I'd kick out the dude/girl (she might be bi, you never know nowadays) Then i wouldn't talk to her for a while at all so she doesn't know whats going on and what i think of the situation. She can make her own mind up, if she leaves she leaves.
If it happens again tho, showing both of them the door.

MostlyConfused68 · Answer

Kick them both out. If I caught her cheating the big question I'd have is was this the first time or just the one I happened to catch? Why let her stay if there is the probability of it happening again? I'd tell him he can have her. She'd probably would eventually cheat on him too. As the saying goes, Once a cheater always a cheater.

YollyM · Answer

Leave the room and my excuse of a partners life without looking back. Clearly they have no respect for me and don't prioritise my feelings.
Nobody deserves someone like that. It's better to be alone than with someone who doesn't value you.

EmmaMary · Answer

I would simply inform my husband that divorce papers will be immediately drawn up and issued... Period.

wittymilf · Answer

I’d just head out to the pub, go get me some too 😉👍🏼

TrueConfection · Answer

I would hope I went unnoticed and quietly back out. I'd tear his world down from the foundation upward.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

If that happens, I will have seen it coming for a while in some way. I'll just set his vehicle on fire, and pack up my things. No reason for aggression... 😁

Dinklex3 · Answer

Finish with whatever it is you're doing.  Bye. 👌🏾

jshm2 · Answer

Ask why they didn't wait for me again?  Wouldn't be the first time I was late to a gang bang or orgy!

AviatorTom · Answer

I'd walk out and let them finish. Do you think I'd be arrested if I locked them in and burned the house down?

Screenwriter · Answer

Tell them both to hit the road jack and don't cha come back no mo, no mo, no mo! So, B!

sheikalana · Answer

I would not say anything. I would just look at both of them get the gun and scare them for life.

JenniferBiArizona · Answer

I would throw them both out with no clothes on. With a bat in hand. They might get keys to one of their vehicles.

dustybiker · Answer

I’d be using the sheets to wrap their bodies. 😎

Emilyis · Answer

pick my shit up and leave and throw the ring that he gave me out the window.

genericname85 · Answer

depends on who owns the place. if it's mine, i'll throw both of them out for good. if it's not mine, i'll take my stuff and leave forever.

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