Boyfriend found a hickey on my neck...that he didn't give!

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I were in the shower and he found a hickey on my neck. It is from my ex boyfriend, who I occasionally sleep with from time time. It takes us a long time to really break up every time we do.

Anyways- my current boyfriend found the evidence on my neck and kicked my out of the shower. Now he won't talk to me, what can I do?

[rigevo]

Go back to your ex and the next time you want to break up with him either do it completely or not at all. If I was your current boyfriend it would be over and there wouldn't be a thing you could say or do that would change my mind. I would have treated you with great respect and I deserve to be treated fairly back and since you obviously don't treat relationships that way I don't see what grounds you have to stand on.

[brkadv]

Well that depends what you want. Do you want to keep seeing the ex and have him to? Or do you want to change and stop seeing the ex, tell him the truth and be a committed honest person? Or do you want to break up with him and go back to the ex?

[Asker]

My ex and I are broken up. I want my boyfriend back.

[brkadv]

Your ex and you are apparently only partly broken up in practice. So what you want is to be committed and monogamous with your boyfriend and not see the ex anymore?

[paigems]

I think you sort of deserved to be kicked out of the shower...cheating is extremely unfair to the other person in the relationship. He deserves better. Move on and take this as a learning experience not to cheat in the future.

[Anonymous]

That is pretty bad. I feel bad for the bfriend. I'm not sure it is fair to try and keep him. Let him find a nice girl that won't cheat on him! Tell him to call me :)

[WovenEclipse]

I have to agree with Paigems :( Cheating is baaaaaaad >:[

[Anonymous]

You can tell him he has the right to f*** another girl time to time

[Jaleel]

noc comment...tisk tisk :(

[Jaleel]

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