"What do guys/girls unintentionally do or say that hurts your ego or feelings?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Most girls I been with Were selfish, only thinking of themselves they expect you to remove selfishness for them but they can’t remove it for you , when it came down to decision making or doing things they don’t want you to do but it’s ok for them to do , criticizing and comparing you to others , making you feel you aren’t good enough for them , putting you down and being disrespectful , by telling you that you are being insecure when really they are in the wrong and disrespectful, , most girl’s can’t admit to themselves that they are wrong. You are always the bad one , I am not saying Guys are perfect , but when a guy loves a girl he becomes her punching bag , and she expects him to tolerate it , if he doesn’t then he is weak and a coward , Girl’s act like men don’t have feelings. A girl will say she wants a guy that loves and adores her, when she finally gets that guy , she treats him like shit and starts pushing him away and expects him to be a mind reader , She puts him through games , if he can play her game he will more than likely get laid but if he fails she will latch on to another guy , Most girl’s don’t realize they are the reason guys leave or end up cheating on her , when she uses sex as a weapon, meaning sex can only be initiated by her and not by him, she is in for a rude awakening , Guys that cheat mainly cheat because his sex life sucks when he feels he is giving more than receiving , her with holding sex is damaging their relationship , Most guys express their love for her through sex and most girls will just assume he is thinking with his dick and make him feel bad for wanting sex , which in most cases that isn’t true at all , he wants sex with his partner if it was only sex he wanted then he be buying a prostitute , A guy that loves his girl will eliminate everything that can damage the relationship with her only if she can eliminate everything that will damage the relationship with him. If you want love to grow remove selfishness for each other

ethanallen · Accepted Answer

Guys : Tell a woman or imply that a woman is not pretty.  Women: Tell a guy or suggest a guy is not successful Men view women as beauty objects. Women view men as success objects.

Rose_84 · Accepted Answer

Make me feel like I'm the only girl they talk to but have wandering eyes behind my back.

They put less efforts on me once I start reciprocating them aka take me for

Me investing my time and energy because I was mistaken about him being a decent guy but found out that he is a loose and damaged goods.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Narcissistic people know how to intentionally hurt people’s feelings and act like they’re the victim …

Lionman95 · Answer

Generally speaking I think generally speaking guys often talk without about the questions because guys trash talk with the buddies quite often knowing they won´t think bad each other.

Personally it was mainly false compliments. Like a girl telling me that she thinks skinny guys can be the best partners for a woman and three weeks later she goes out with an athletic muscular guy.

The worst thing though if a woman makes me feel like I´m unnecessary or useless to her. Like girls in anything, why do I need a guy for that? Because that kills for me everything there´s no motivation in that.

Stevepro68 · Answer

I think a perfect example of how guys hurt girls feelings with the opposite intention.
You tell your girl how beautiful she looks without makeup.
What you mean is that she is incredible beautiful she doesn't need make up to look good to you.
What she hears... He thinks I look like a freak with makeup
or all that work and he doesn't even think it makes me look good.
Guy vs girl differences can result in pain when non is intended.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I’m not a snowflake. My feelings can’t be hurt unintentionally. Some of the “meanest” stuff i’ve ever heard about myself just made me laugh because i knew the other person either wasn’t trying to hurt my feelings or they meant nothing to me in the first place, so whatever they might say was completely meaningless to me. Too many people are too easily offended these days.

Anonymous · Answer

If a girl made said something negative about my physical appearance, be it saying that I’m skinny or fat, looking weird, my hair looking bad, etc. even if it is a joke.

Tbf i would get self conscious even if a guy said it but it would hurt way more if a girl would say that.

i dont have confidence to begin with and saying stuff like that would make things worse. Thankfully no girl has said that to me at any point in my life.

JustADudePlayinADude · Answer

Accuse me lying, even jokingly. Lying, even white lies, is something avoid like the plague. So it bothers me quite a bit when someone accuses me of it. I usually won't make a deal of it, but it still gets in my head.

RedStiletto88 · Answer

Making me feel guilty about doing something or not doing something implying I’m an awful person when really they are just being manipulative

jshm2 · Answer

They don't Either you're too sensitive and are picking up on it. Or they are trying to get a rise out of you.

Anonymous · Answer

I get pissed and hurt when women make comments/slights over things I have little or no control over.

A woman should NEVER throw out slights on the following: a man’s D size, his height, his career, his past failures, his voice pitch, how other women (negatively) think about him, etc.

BlueScorpio · Answer

I don't know, if they are just being rude for no reason.

20yearsolder · Answer

It's pretty tough to hurt my feelings. I can't think of anything

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Unintentional? it wouldn't hurt my feelings.  Intentionally? still wouldn't hurt my feelings.  I have very very thick skin

hahahmm · Answer

Oh, we're going to play this game where you say you only accidentally hurt a guy's ego. I see.

Anonymous · Answer

Using me as a step to climb... a lot of girls do that to guys and vice versa probably.

IndyZee · Answer

Not comment or respond... especially during a meaningful conversation. I hate being ignored or made to feel insignificant

fred_durst · Answer

i honestly dont remember it , so it was surely long long and long time ago

Zolly99999 · Answer

Make comments behind my back

Guy13 · Answer

GHOSTING...

annabananna · Answer

Make a comment about my attention span.

Anonymous · Answer

word of advice to any women do not make us men jealous

Iron_Man · Answer

When they’re angry they come at you hard

FilmGuy93 · Answer

"you're cute for a ____"

maximumpower · Answer

Body shaming.

EaterPeter · Answer

Many things

Anonymous · Answer

Cheat on me when we're engaged.

ElementoP · Answer

Fuck my best friend

Anonymous · Answer

cheat

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