Not as long as you keep your dick out of the stripper. I don't know where all this stuff about no touch comes from... all the strip clubs I've been to, the girls will grab your hands and run them all over themselves if you aren't doing so already, lol.
Physically no I don't think so.. but it will destroy your partners confidence ! She will feel as though she's not enough for you or that she's not pleasing to the eye anymore or pleasing you in the bedroom or not sexy enough.. that's just common sense really if your not stupid ! It's selfish !!
Some people wouldn't consider it cheating, others may. You gotta talk about this sorta thing with your partner to figure out what is considered cheating.
Some insecure men think texting a guy is cheating, even if that guy is a blood relative (not dating, ofc). Some insecure women think liking a social media post is cheating.
So I feel like it depends. Because some people are ok with it and some are not. That's where communication comes in. I mean I'm cool with going to the strip club together. Hell we can both get lapdances lol. My person would also probably never be interested in going to a strip club when they know they have their own personal stripper at home 🤷🏾♀️
Personally I don’t see it as cheating, but if I imagine my partner going to a male strip club and getting a lap dance, it would take a lot of trust for me to not worry they went farther.
tbh if I love the girl I’ve no interest in it, but I will say that when I have gone, it was just to have some drinks with my boys and shoot the shit while having background entertainment. I got a lappy as a right of passage when I turned 19 and it was fun but I was also single and have never shelled out for one since. I’m just so me, I tried to talk the stripper into respecting herself 😂😂😂
If they are; so many men are in deep shit! If my husband went to a strip club and received a lap dance I would be alright with that. I might have different thoughts if he just went to a strip club and purchased a lap dance when he knows that he gets it for free at home.
From experience, guys don't always go into strip clubs to get a one on one dance from a girl. They can get their kicks from just sitting, drinking and watching half naked girls walking about trying to tempt guys into private booths. However, in my opinion, your man would only be going into these places to take the fantasy home, to maybe imagine the sexy girls whilst having sex with his partner. That to me is horrible. If your partner is keeping you happy enough, you shouldn't have the desire to go to a strip club. If you can't communicate with your partner that you are not satisfied, then deal with it, not snoop behind their back. Unless you're happy with your wife/girlfriend going to male strip clubs to get her fill. Put the shoe on the other foot
If he's my man, hell yes! Having another woman strip for him or give him a lap dance is completely out of the question. If he wants a lap dance he needs to come to me, not some other woman (and I'm totally willing to giving him one).
depends on the relationship and agreement. in general no, but it could cause problems in the relationship just like cheating.
I have never had interest in being teased by some woman that doesn't care about me in effort to manipulate me to make money. That's like the ultimate offense isn't it..."you aren't worth it to me, so give me money". Very lame. makes no sense to me. but if that's where the guy is emotionally, and his wife/girlfriend is ok with it, then whatever.
Cheating has to be defined by the person who would holler "Cheater!"
Seriously, to some people it would be cheating, a sin, or a waste of hard-earned money. However, if there is no one claiming it's cheating, it's recreational activity.
Going to the strip club without your partner’s knowledge is cheating to some level. It isn’t like sex with someone or going out on a date with somebody else but it is on the chart. A little higher up on that chart is a lap dance at a club. Now these things are acceptable in some relationships. However, they know about it and both agree that it isn’t anything bad. That is fine if it works. Just keep in mind that even if it works, it probably won’t work lol. So the answer isn’t clear cut. For me it is cheating unless both of us were there or like at a bachelors party she knew of what will go on. Respect each other.
Depends: 1.) Did you establish clear rules for the relationship AT THE START that allow for this & to which your woman agreed by staying with you? 2.) If you did not do #1, does your woman approve of this & is she the type who doesn't change her mind every day/week/month.
What is hot? What is cold? What is your favorite pizza topping? Do you like Pepsi or Coke? How fast is too fast? I could ask these kinds of questions all day. Are lap dances considered cheating? Cheating is in the eyes of the beholder. So yes a lap dance is cheating, but then again a lap dance is not cheating. One more thing. Anybody that is attempting to answer this question? What source are you using?
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Not as long as you keep your dick out of the stripper. I don't know where all this stuff about no touch comes from... all the strip clubs I've been to, the girls will grab your hands and run them all over themselves if you aren't doing so already, lol.
Physically no I don't think so.. but it will destroy your partners confidence ! She will feel as though she's not enough for you or that she's not pleasing to the eye anymore or pleasing you in the bedroom or not sexy enough.. that's just common sense really if your not stupid ! It's selfish !!
For sure agree
Depends on your relationship.
Some people wouldn't consider it cheating, others may. You gotta talk about this sorta thing with your partner to figure out what is considered cheating.
Some insecure men think texting a guy is cheating, even if that guy is a blood relative (not dating, ofc). Some insecure women think liking a social media post is cheating.
It all depends. Communication and trust are key.
So I feel like it depends. Because some people are ok with it and some are not. That's where communication comes in. I mean I'm cool with going to the strip club together. Hell we can both get lapdances lol. My person would also probably never be interested in going to a strip club when they know they have their own personal stripper at home 🤷🏾♀️
No, it would be unfair and petty to class anything with a stripper as cheating in my opinion.
So you would not mind if your SO said they had done it, while you are in a relationship?
@Guardian45 nope it wouldn't bother me.
May I ask why not?
Personally I don’t see it as cheating, but if I imagine my partner going to a male strip club and getting a lap dance, it would take a lot of trust for me to not worry they went farther.
tbh if I love the girl I’ve no interest in it, but I will say that when I have gone, it was just to have some drinks with my boys and shoot the shit while having background entertainment. I got a lappy as a right of passage when I turned 19 and it was fun but I was also single and have never shelled out for one since. I’m just so me, I tried to talk the stripper into respecting herself 😂😂😂
If they are; so many men are in deep shit! If my husband went to a strip club and received a lap dance I would be alright with that. I might have different thoughts if he just went to a strip club and purchased a lap dance when he knows that he gets it for free at home.
The fact that a married man goes to strip club is already weird to me not to talk about a lap dance.
Going to strip club is same as watching pornography ,
He’s just watch girl strip!
@Kelly6 except they can actually touch them.
True
But is their partner don’t mind then I see nothing wrong.
Some guys even come with their wives
Would you go to a strip club with your husband?
@Guardian45 that's not the type of place me and my husband would go.
What if he asked you to go with him?
@Guardian45 I would not go I have no interest in going to a strip club and my husband knows it.
From experience, guys don't always go into strip clubs to get a one on one dance from a girl. They can get their kicks from just sitting, drinking and watching half naked girls walking about trying to tempt guys into private booths. However, in my opinion, your man would only be going into these places to take the fantasy home, to maybe imagine the sexy girls whilst having sex with his partner. That to me is horrible. If your partner is keeping you happy enough, you shouldn't have the desire to go to a strip club. If you can't communicate with your partner that you are not satisfied, then deal with it, not snoop behind their back. Unless you're happy with your wife/girlfriend going to male strip clubs to get her fill. Put the shoe on the other foot
Different kinds ode.
Well-said!
If he's my man, hell yes! Having another woman strip for him or give him a lap dance is completely out of the question. If he wants a lap dance he needs to come to me, not some other woman (and I'm totally willing to giving him one).
depends on the relationship and agreement. in general no, but it could cause problems in the relationship just like cheating.
I have never had interest in being teased by some woman that doesn't care about me in effort to manipulate me to make money. That's like the ultimate offense isn't it..."you aren't worth it to me, so give me money". Very lame. makes no sense to me. but if that's where the guy is emotionally, and his wife/girlfriend is ok with it, then whatever.
Cheating has to be defined by the person who would holler "Cheater!"
Seriously, to some people it would be cheating, a sin, or a waste of hard-earned money. However, if there is no one claiming it's cheating, it's recreational activity.
Going to the strip club without your partner’s knowledge is cheating to some level. It isn’t like sex with someone or going out on a date with somebody else but it is on the chart. A little higher up on that chart is a lap dance at a club. Now these things are acceptable in some relationships. However, they know about it and both agree that it isn’t anything bad. That is fine if it works. Just keep in mind that even if it works, it probably won’t work lol. So the answer isn’t clear cut. For me it is cheating unless both of us were there or like at a bachelors party she knew of what will go on. Respect each other.
Depends: 1.) Did you establish clear rules for the relationship AT THE START that allow for this & to which your woman agreed by staying with you? 2.) If you did not do #1, does your woman approve of this & is she the type who doesn't change her mind every day/week/month.
Uh yes y tf he at a stripe club in the first place. That's like saying u vegetarian but getting a burger at Burger King.
Huh?
@Guardian45 Lol
Burgers can also be vegetarian?😭
@WonderBell99 one with meat then
What is hot? What is cold? What is your favorite pizza topping? Do you like Pepsi or Coke? How fast is too fast? I could ask these kinds of questions all day. Are lap dances considered cheating? Cheating is in the eyes of the beholder. So yes a lap dance is cheating, but then again a lap dance is not cheating. One more thing. Anybody that is attempting to answer this question? What source are you using?
I think it is up to each couple. I personally would not care. She is just there to do her job. He isn't getting anything other than a dance.
Not in my opinion, but I'd at least like to know you're going to the strip club.
If your partner is uncomfortable with it then it is cheating.
The partner doesn’t own the other person they can do what they want it’s there body there choice.
@Light909090 Then don't be in the relationship if you can't respect boundaries.
I don’t wanna be in a relationship.
@Light909090 I'm not actually talking about you specifically. I use "you" when I'm talking in general.
Oh so you Think you can just Use me huh
@Light909090 Lmao it's the term "you".
I’ve had lap dances where the girl practically fucked me with only a towel between my dick and her where I could feel her vagina through it.
So yes. Cheating.
If your girlfriend went to a male strip club and grabbed a strippers dick is that cheating?