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Cheating is just a breaking of a contract with a partner and it depends on what a specific couple decides on what is and isn't considered cheating. So it depends on the couple.
Cheating isn't the same in every relationship. Cheating is an act performed with another person that your partner finds to be wrong.
yes. why are you even there in the first place?
I’m sure your partner can give a lap dance at home? Or you could even go to the strip club WITH THEM!
Why would she wanna see her man ogle other women?
sometimes
depends on how im feeling that day
Please explain
If your partner is not comfortable then you disrespect her then that's cheating 😌
If there's a happy ending then yes. Most strip clubs usually do that kind of thing but if you aren't there for that then no I don't see it as cheating. Either way your significant other may not be happy
I ask you back. If your girlfriend goes to a male stripper and he flaps her dick near her face - would you be ok with that? - Well there ya go.
Depends on your relationship. I’m married to someone who would consider that cheating. If your in a more open relationship or with someone who doesn’t care as long as it doesn’t go further then you’re fine. Every relationship is different.
100% of sane of straight women would consider that cheating unless they literally gave you a "hall pass" ahead of time to do it.
I don't think so, but these days you need the united nations for everything, where does one draw the line and say hell life is for living
Not sure how someone is fine with their boyfriend staring at another girls naked body
Exactly
A lap dance us rubbing the ass (butt) on the dick.
Is wearing a condom barrier to have sex cheating?
Of course it's not cheating, but that doesn't mean it's acceptable behavior.
Absolutely yes. That shit is nasty
As long as she don't touch him I don't see a problem. He has a dick and it gets hard.
If you’re getting a lap dance, she’s clearly touching you.
@Angie221994 touch his shoulders but she's not putting his dick her. I just didn't want to use profanity
Yes for me but you need to ask the girlfriend first not us!
That's up to the other partner. Seems a bit silly to me.
Honestly if I had a good or wife I'd only want dances from her just to start off. Now in reference to the question... I want to say no but I know I would be pissed if she went out and got one from a guy.
It is if he goes to the private zone with them. I don't know if that's an actual thing though?
100% regardless of their gender
Who do you think are more problematic: men or women?
What the hell is wrong with your conceptions about sexuality? Lap dances! Omg no it's not cheating at all... For God's sake. The west is out of joint!
The only woman my boyfriend is allowed to get a lap dance from is me!
Only if your partner makes it clear that she isn't down with you getting lap dances.
Nah, not if it is a one off like somebody's bachelor party or something.
Is it cheating if a woman get a massage from the attractive man nope. So let me get my dick up and go get a lap dance.
Yeah them strippers be telling you they wanna fuck and shit.
I don't think so. I had one for my bachelor party and I am still married. I don't go into these clubs.
According to the Necronomicon all lap dances are illusions.
Is there even something to think about? Yes it is.
i would say yes, depends on the couple. if she says yes than yes. but only if stated beforehand
I wouldn’t say it’s cheating but it’s still messed up to go let other girls dance on you if your in a relationship
Of course, just being there is cheating. Considering giving those places a visit shows something is obviously wrong
No... It's not like he's going to fuck her... She's doing the hard work and I'm going to real the rewards!
Yeah but maybe he's thinking of her and it's she that he really wants.
@LovingLoverReturned so, I think about Shemar Moore while we do it, but realistically it ain't gonna happen...
The only thing she wants in his pants is his money lol
I don't care what she thinks. Only what he does.
I guess your relationship is a sexual not loving one. I wouldn't think of some random stranger..
@LovingLoverReturned my relationship is very loving, but not controlling. My love for him is not connected to where he puts his penis, nor is it connected to what goes in my vagina... His love for me isn't connected to where he puts his penis or what goes into my vagina either. We love each other for who we are, we are simply able to separate sex from love.
Good for you.
Good for you. Love does mean accepting a person doing whatever they want and vice versa. So each person can do as they see fit.
Haha you do you
My wife and I used to go to strip clubs together. Some of the beat times. She bought me a lap dance one time and turned around and got mad as hell because I enjoyed it. So I don't know
That's why I have my conditions.
Yes obviously, lap dances should be for single guys only :p
Everyone and every couple has to decide for themselves.
No, but I would not some random doing that to me anyway.
If I was with someone I personally would not get a lap dance , if I was single I may think about it.
Let me rub my ass on all your homeboys when we’re dating and you can tell me
Ofcourse! I don't think a married man or even a man enaged or with a girlfriend should even consider steping inside a gentlemans club!
Just being in a strip club, no. Getting a lap dance, yes, like any other sexual thing.
Why there is cheating word in couple life 8 think most heat breaking cheating is about emotions
I would say that amounts to infidelity, breaking a boundary.
Depends. An SO may or may NOT consider it cheating.
For women yes but then again its women they even consider a hug cheating
Not if you go for research.
Only if you stick your tongue out or blow lightly on her whoha as it passes by your face.🤣
To me yes and it’s disrespectful
No but inappropriate for a relationship partner
How about if your partner offered to take you to a strip club?
Going to strip club in general is cheating.
I doubt that is amounts to anything.
Why?
@Guardian45 When a group of boys get together to so somewhere, they are going to show off. I'm sure it's the same with men.
So if your boyfriend confessed that he got a lapdance from a stripper, you would not be bothered?
@Guardian45 That's impossible.
Umm. Why?
@Guardian45 My boyfriends are under age 16.
A committed man isn’t found in a strip club.
In my opinion, yes!
Ell oh ell! Obviously not.
It's emotional cheating at the very least.
I wouldn't call it 'emotional' cheating. Emotional cheating would be a guy having a female friend that he talks intimately with and has a relationship with that his spouse is unaware of.
Lust is also an emotion.
Especially if married!
That would be a fetch.
Yes! That is cheating.
Not cheating!!!
If it's a strip club or Bachelorette party no.