Would initially say "No;" however, it really depends upon the asker's determination of what constitutes "cheating." Although at least one may get "excited," both are clothed and no fluids are exchanged. Furthermore, there is no intimate thought/emotions/feelings between them.
No it’s just a paid service If going to A spa and the women there gives the men a massage front and back is that cheating.. she touched him right? Same as strip club.. unless he has sex that’s cheating
Probably not, haven’t been to the strip club in over 10 years. When I went to vip as a young adult the things she were doing prob would be considered cheating. That ass was huge, she literally told me “ All you wanna do is slap my ass”? She previously told me there’s no sex in this club. 😂
The intention isn't cheating generally but it is wholly disrespectful and would be a cause for the dissolution of my relationship.
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Depends on your partner. Some women I know it's a horrible betrayal to. To other women I know, they'd rather thir SO pester a stripper than her with thier horiness.. 🤣
As long as it's just fun to you. And she doesn't feel hurt or disrespected by it I think it's OK.
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geez. I really don't know. but if you love your girl so much she will never find that out lol
I guess it's not if you're going to a normie strip club. I usually end up fucking though. Most of those places are just brothels under the guise of "just stripping." Makes it legal... sort of.
Honestly, would you do anything to harm your partner? Cheating is an understatement. Might ask would you cause harm, cheat, partner swapping.. (hypergamy), do anything to break a connection? Anything that harms...
I think that is up to each couple to decide. Personally I don't see why a person with a partner should be in a strip club in the first place. So it shouldn't even be a question.
I think it´s dangerous territory to say the least because it makes a guy aroused and get turned by a woman he´s not in a relationship with. So it´s something to avoid as a taken or married guy.
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Not at all
i give lap dance daily as my job
I’m Too afraid of Getting Lap dance.
@Light909090 why?
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Oh nice.
Not At All. I Don’t Think Anything Is Cheating Tbh.
Please explain
pretty much. I've done a lot of things with strippers during lapdances that can fairly be considered cheating.
I confess I'm guilty of this
Going to a strip club, no. Lap dance, maybe. Depends on your relationship and what you both agree is acceptable.
I rarely ever go…and if I do I prefer to take my SO/girlfriend with me. It can be kinda fun to get some drinks and people watch.
If he goes regularly yes, if it’s like a one time thing for a bachelor party I don’t think I’d care much
I think probably yes because it’s being physically sexual with another person. You can ask your bae how they feel about it though.
I’m the one my husband comes to for lap dances among other fun activities. ❤️
Such as?
This is between my husband and I lol
Ok. Thank you
Would initially say "No;" however, it really depends upon the asker's determination of what constitutes "cheating."
Although at least one may get "excited," both are clothed and no fluids are exchanged. Furthermore, there is no intimate thought/emotions/feelings between them.
In my opinion yes bc it’s like you know what you’re thinking about when you’re getting rubbed on and stuff during a lap dance 😂
Maybe he's thinking of you!
Mmm nah he’s thinking about getting ass from someone else
Exactly. Fck i look like
How about if your partner offered to take you to a strip club?
Yeah no thanks
No it’s just a paid service
If going to A spa and the women there gives the men a massage front and back is that cheating.. she touched him right?
Same as strip club..
unless he has sex that’s cheating
Probably not, haven’t been to the strip club in over 10 years. When I went to vip as a young adult the things she were doing prob would be considered cheating. That ass was huge, she literally told me “ All you wanna do is slap my ass”? She previously told me there’s no sex in this club. 😂
The intention isn't cheating generally but it is wholly disrespectful and would be a cause for the dissolution of my relationship.
Depends on your partner. Some women I know it's a horrible betrayal to. To other women I know, they'd rather thir SO pester a stripper than her with thier horiness.. 🤣
As long as it's just fun to you. And she doesn't feel hurt or disrespected by it I think it's OK.
geez. I really don't know. but if you love your girl so much she will never find that out lol
I guess it's not if you're going to a normie strip club. I usually end up fucking though. Most of those places are just brothels under the guise of "just stripping." Makes it legal... sort of.
Honestly, would you do anything to harm your partner? Cheating is an understatement. Might ask would you cause harm, cheat, partner swapping.. (hypergamy), do anything to break a connection? Anything that harms...
I think that is up to each couple to decide. Personally I don't see why a person with a partner should be in a strip club in the first place. So it shouldn't even be a question.
I think it´s dangerous territory to say the least because it makes a guy aroused and get turned by a woman he´s not in a relationship with. So it´s something to avoid as a taken or married guy.
It'd actually repulse me to have some cosmetic surgery addict covered in 5 pounds of makeup try and touch me.
I don’t think so. But I wouldn’t date a man that is into that type of stuff…
Its the uttermost disrespect and i would not keep dating him
How about if he offered to take you to a strip club?
@Guardian45 i’d be even more offended that he’d think i want to see naked women. He knows im not gay