I’m going to do my best to make a long story short.. I’ve been seeing this guy who is also my boss. We started seeing each other years ago and we’ve been on and off but we’ve been together consistently for a year and a half. Since I’ve been here, I’m ALWAYS hearing a rumor about him either being involved with another girl, liking another girl, flirting, checking them out. I’ve seen him checking out girls a lot and when I ask he just denies it and says it my “perspective”. Well over the last year I became really good friends with a guy a work. He did like me but I didn’t feel the same way and I told him that but we stayed good close friends. Well my boss has been a jerk to him since day one basically. When I would ask my boss/boyfriend about weather or not he disliked my friend or our friendship, he would always deny it. But recently my friend found out about our relationship and confronted me with some extreme anger. While confronting me, I owned up to the relationship and apologized. But once I owned up, my friend told me 2 other rumors about my guy that I didn’t even know about. I told my boyfriend about one of the rumors and of course he denied it and now wants my friend gone from our company because he’s “affecting the work environment and our relationship” so I believe he plans to make life hard on him until he quits or something. But after talking to my friend, I just got fed up with the latest rumor I was told about him and another girl. I’m not even sure what to do, I want to confront him but I already know he’s going to deny all of it. I’m so tired of dealing with this and I highly doubt that EVERY rumor I’ve heard about him is a lie, as much as it hurts to say that. Please give me advice and are the rumors worth listening to? I have no proof, just what others are saying and some things I’ve seen of him checking out girls and what appears to be flirting.
“I have to distance myself from everything that I feel like is the reason of him doing me like this. Sorry I wanna believe you but I can’t truly believe anything rn I feel like he’s trying to get me out and I have to protect myself. Hope you understand.”
