Repost because I guess it didn't showup in feed?

[Anonymous]

A few months ago my now ex girlfriend brokeup with me after a bit of a discussion on how the relationship was going, Since then we had been messaging on and off nothing more than just a checkup, during that time I got pretty close with someone not sure if they have feelings for me or anything though, Anyways recently my ex and I have started talking more and expressed how we wish things could have worked out etc, We both still have some feelings there and I guess I just want some advice or opinions, My head feels so clouded as Id feel like an asshole if after expressing I still have feelings I go to some new girl, and then the same goes for this other girl if she had feelings for me and I just suddenly go "Oh well I am back with my ex now " I really dont know, there's a lot of stress on me at the moment from final school year exams so maybe a relationship in general isn't something I even should be concerned with. Thank you to anyone who responds with genuine helpful advice, Much love and hope whoever is reading this has a wonderful day/afternoon/evening and night. ❤

[Guy13]

I can not follow your rambling. Maybe talk to university counselor for half hour?

[Asker]

Yeah sorry I wrote this out at a very late time for me, I probably will do that thank you

[Selene1600000]

You’re not an asshole for having feelings in two directions at once, that’s just unresolved attachment mixed with timing and stress.
Right now, both situations are emotionally “open,” so committing to either person would likely feel messy and unfair until things are clearer and stable.
Given your exams and mental load, the most grounded option is to slow everything down, be honest with both about not being ready to decide, and only choose when you’re calm and not reacting from pressure or guilt.