Do you think finding love right now would solve some of your problems?

[moonpie89]

Yes

No

[NathanDavis]

nope, I definitely do not like to see it that way

if I were to look for love and see love as a solution to a problem I have myself

I would just be setting myself for all kinds of failure, lol

when I do fall in love with someone else, it is for the right and the good reasons only, not out negatives

[purpledrops]

Haha oh boy, many people would say that yes, having someone to care and love for would solve problems and make their life all jolly. Its something i would've agreed on before i got into a relationship but truthfully, it will NOT. If you can't solve your own problems, how are you going to be able to handle your partner's problems too? Yes. Your partners insecurities, wishes, fears, anger, thoughts, beliefs also become yours to handle as it would affect the relationship if not. If you can't handle yourself alone, dont even think about a relationship. Most people think its all nice as in movies relationships are potrayed that way, just a bunch of kisses, sex and fights here and there. But it's not as simple and lovely as you think it is, only those who have been in a relationship know how complex it is.

[Alwayreckles93]

I am a divorce 29 year old. Yes I do have a boyfriend now I feel more happier then I ever was with my ex. Sometimes love blind folds us and we get with the wrong people.

[DaveJord]

No it would not solve all my problems, but it would solve one of my problems! ;)

Honestly I do not have a lot of problems other than finding the right women, and settling down.

[HighValue]

If I found someone that was good for a long term relationship sometime before June 2023, and she was willing to move to Idaho with me next summer, that would be good. Otherwise I will be totally on my own, knowing nobody when I go there. But I'm not going to settle for someone that is unacceptable to me as a partner. Having nobody is better than having the wrong person.

[Dennisnky]

I'm a horrible judge of character, and can't read people. So love usually just wastes a lot of my time and money and spins my emotions out for a while.

[motownplayer2000]

No. It would probably compound them. With the shit you got to put up with being with another person verses the pleasures you may receive from them and the satisfaction they bring, it’s usually not even worth it

[dustybiker]

If someone needs love to solve their problems they should stop looking.

[Zolly99999]

No I don't think so. . Unfortunately love doesn't pay the bills or cure cancer. But love is nice to have.

[moonpie89]

Haha so true 👍 😆 🤣

[TheSpaceGnome]

It would solve about 80% of them immediately, and 100% of them long term.

[Avatar74]

It might make them feel better, but I don't think it would solve any problems a person may have

[EaterPeter]

Finding loves adds to problems and makes us blind towards problems for time being

[dustybiker]

Truth

[EaterPeter]

Love adds *

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for likes!

[roy_ricky09]

Nope but it makes you mature enough to handle the problems

[magiusX26]

have found it would only imcrease problems

[Guardian45]

It would solve SOME of my problems, but NOT ALL.

[TallAnon]

Having a reason to care helps in a lot of ways

[Chthou95]

Fuck no. I don't need more bullshit to my life

[Beerluvr]

How does that solve any problems

[TacosRAwesome]

Not really.

[LavLavLuv]

definitely not

[Debbie14217]

nope... ugh