Last year I had what many women are looking for. I had it all. I had him right there. All I had to do was be ready and tell him I want to have kids with him. He was waiting for my answer. If I had said I'm ready, he would have proceeded quickly. Instead I freaked out. I bailed out of the relationship. I felt it was too much for me. He ended up feeling I've wasted 2 years of his life and so it was over. I wasn't ready.
I really felt I wasn't ready for a major life changing event at just 22 years old. He was 28 years old. It's true that more women than men want commitment but I felt terrified. Is that reaction from a young woman normal?
I hope he found the woman he was looking for.