How do I deal with the reality that I may be alone forever?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Okay a couple things first of all you are not going to be single the rest of your life second of all when you feel old at that age just smile because when you turn 50 when you turn 60 in your mind you are still going to be 21 years old your body's going to be a little bit older but that's about it your mind stays the same except for you have more wisdom or knowledge and you're better at everything

Ok so let me try it this once again we are all energy a magnet is an energy positive and negative if you were to take a magnet put wheels on it and run it over the top of the dirt anything that is metal Magnus would just pick it up right now you and your click click click click click is it positive energy

Now you take that same magnet and flip it over to the negative side and you roll it over the same dirt and they would just bypass the metal it would move it for a second but then it bypasses it it's still a magnet that is the same magnet but it has two different types of energy so do people when you figure this out in a couple other things you're good to go I know you are but just trying to get you change your mindset on the way that you feel and you thinking you see yourself and others you need to become one with yourself and when you become one with somebody else it'll be the most beautiful thing in the world because then you become one with his plan this Earth which is a big ball of energy

DenizLikesTennis · Accepted Answer

I will promise you, that by the following week, you'll meet a guy that's going to be your potential partner. Yes that's true I am not joking.

I am 26 and still single but I do have few women by my side... I keep them as friends because I am not ready for a relationship. I like to talk, have a chat about the deepest and most meaningful conversations. Which are one of these. And I can reassure you, you will meet a guy like this. Keep your head up and stay strong. I do also feel like I am 43 actually.

There is thus one guy very jealous about my attitude and keeps hating me in my posts. I kept him visible. I don't care about haters. He can do that regularly.

Well Paula, the world is full of haters and misery. I wish to be in heaven already sometimes but it is what it is. I love my pet.

hIopinionated_ · Accepted Answer

Better to be alone than hurt or being with the wrong guy. Trust me, I’ve read too many questions, comments, and posts of women expressing painfully their doomed relationships and marriages. They have men who emotionally or physically abuse them. They have men whom they are stuck with because they have kids by him. They are unhappy and
not sexually satisfied. Etc. As a none religious person I can totally say count your blessings

You are young. You have time. Time to date around and choose the right guy for you. Don’t take chances and get any guy. The first sign of a red flag and you run because it can either make or break your relationship.

You should sit down and really think about what you truly need in a guy and look for those qualities first: communication, trust, mutual respect, kindness, passion, etc because wasting your time on a pos will only hurt you in the future

AddylynnNightingale · Accepted Answer

By being able to see the future and acting accordingly so you can make sure that you'll be alone forever. Because really that's what you must do to fulfill that prophecy. And being alone does not equal unhappiness by the way. You can live life and have a great time on your own.

lucas262 · Answer

This is a moot point. But even an ugly. Overweight girl. With emotional issues can sleep with a guy.

There are solid 10s out there who can sleep with anyone but can't lock down a relationship.

And there are men out there lonely and deprived enough that it's not hard. It's not

You'd have to have some crazy shit going on for it not to be.

I feel like I'm gonna be alone because all of that goes for women. Dating as a man? Is a whollle other game and women have NO idea what that's like. NONE

Justneedtokno · Answer

Wow I think I posted this the other day you still have time there are no time limits to love. I learn to Calm

Also there are way more things to do. Adopt ( kid/ pet) foster travel, try different food restaurants recipes. Self care mental care. Explore more of yourself interests

You will be fine

IveGotNoName · Answer

Okay relax... tons of people don't have partners by 25. My brother met his wife (and first relationship EVER) when he was 30. My sister also didn't meet anyone until the age of 27, where she met her now husband.

NamerOfStars · Answer

By taking the time to learn how to enjoy your own company. Loneliness sucks, it's true, but desperation doesn't appeal to ANYONE, except the kind of person you really don't WANT to appeal to. So learn to enjoy the parts of life that you can do alone, or with your friends and family. That way, you'll be in a better frame of mind if you *do* meet someone, and will probably have more interesting things to talk about, too. And if you don't, well, you won't feel quite so bad about it.

Lionman95 · Answer

In a way that you settle your goals new, you´re 25 and saying that how do you know?
First of all look for a passion/a hobby find yourself something you would love doing and something you see a benefit for yourself or society in and than it´s also easier to find a partner.
Try to see the positive sides of life and then see it more negative than necessary.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

Oh ffs! You have time to find someone. You're not old, you're in the prime of your life. Right now you should be working & having fun on your days off & be happy you're not tied down! Plenty of people your (our) age aren't in relationships & are having the best time because of it!

Bricealan · Answer

Americans, for some reason, seem to focus on some magical age to be married or engaged to be married, or in a committed relationship. At 24, you are making too much out of your being single and unattached.

What kind of social relationships do you have, what activities do you engage in?

Look at what you do to become socially active and engaged with others your age.

Don't worry about it so much, relax and enjoy your youth.

UnknownSwede · Answer

I have a hard time dealing with this myself at times.
It's a struggle to find a balance between being comfortable being alone and also being open to meeting someone.

I definitely have the days when I feel like I will be alone forever and never find that true love, that we all desire. But you also hear stories of people that will get your hopes up.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

In person, a 23-year-old telling me how old she feels would be worthy of the middle finger!

I’ve never been married. Seeing how many friends my age are in miserable, unhappy marriages, the way I deal with being alone is to thank God for it!

Havthrills · Answer

Lol. You're silly. You're not too old. Love will come along. Who knows where and when. Just don't close all your doors or you will miss it. You won't be alone forever. Plus, you have us here at G@G.

Shamalien · Answer

You find other things in life to make you happy. Only when you are willing to be alone forever will the right person come along. You need to make space for this person. Stop flirting, sexting, hooking up, etc, focus on yourself but keep an eye open

Twalli · Answer

You probably won't be alone forever. Start worrying when you are about 40 and still alone. My girlfirend didn't feel like she'd be alone forever when her boyfriend of 10 years broke up with her at 28. She also didn't since she met me, even though it took me close to a year to ask her out.

MCheetah · Answer

You're a 23 year old woman, not a short/unattractive male. Stop being so over-dramatic and lower your standards to less than 10/10 men. You're probably not even bad looking, either.

Sour-rose · Answer

Have fun. Simply put. Forget this "forever alooooone cheee" just... have some fun with your life regardless what life SEEMS to be going. :)

Anonymous · Answer

It’s a bit rude to say you are old at 23…… don’t expect too much sympathy 😅 - signed a 30 years old woman

jshm2 · Answer

By realising that it's just your stupidity and/or arrogance which has made you undatable to this point.  Stay the same, and you'll be asking this question when you're 50 as well.

Onlyonceatime · Answer

You are not going to be alone. You are very kind, and any man would love you.

bowenw · Answer

You are young and don't need to worry about being alone.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol damn I feel sorry for you if you think k that’s old. Imagine when you hit 40 you’re going to be in a world of hurt. Why no man this whole time? Too focused on your career? School?

Jacobbbb · Answer

It's not a reality unless you think that. Have faith that the right one will come along eventually. Just be your best self

ballweevil · Answer

Same as me, face reality, if we find someone amazing , if not , lets to everything in our power to make us happy

mobiusforniner · Answer

You got a long life ahead of you. I know a woman who is single into her late 30s. she's crazy. So you have at 15 years to go

Googlemyahoo · Answer

I’ll donate some tissues

MysticDevice · Answer

When you figure out how, let me know. Cause I want to know 🤣😅😭 Relationships prospects are pretty slim for me as well

Hydrogen · Answer

I'm 25 and solo it's nothing to be ashamed or scared of

exitseven · Answer

Do not think of it as a reality. Just live your life and be positive and hopeful.

Anonymous · Answer

Well don’t go chasing “ideal” relationships just because some guy told you what you wanted to hear.

Nobachey · Answer

You're only 23. That's still very young. 24 is still quite young too. My grandmother is 64 and she's got her a new boyfriend. You're not too old for a relationship till you're dead.

genericname85 · Answer

well how about thinking of it as a "it can only get better" situation? :D

OlderAndWiser · Answer

What makes you suspect that?

Adogdog · Answer

I understand how feel. I feel like that sometimes too!

Fuentes · Answer

Lol I don't rmrbr feeling old at 23 or 24 I still felt younger hahaha

Debbie14217 · Answer

change your attitude first... i think there is someone for everyone

Anonymous · Answer

When you're single but too lazy and or selfish to do anything about it. 🤣🤣🤣

Anonymous · Answer

Less likely since you're a woman because you're not expected to pursue

Jennz6 · Answer

Wait till you are 30, over the hill lol

NathanDavis · Answer

the future is not real...

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

"old" is 60s, not mid 20s.

BTCMoon · Answer

give me a break lol

Reddy4it · Answer

You’re still so young…don’t give up

Still-alive · Answer

thats not reality

IHateBeingaMan · Answer

how long you been single now?

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Never alone word full of people

msc545 · Answer

Preferably you deal with it with alacrity.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Sounds like you already made your mind up.

Guardian45 · Answer

You're STILL VERY ELIGIBLE!

BLP11520 · Answer

You won't be, relax dry spells happen

Anonymous · Answer

better to be alone then be hurt by anyone

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