Is it wrong to see another woman if your wife has become totally incapacitated and I'm now her caregiver? She can't live on her own I still love her?

[spabd100]

There is no good solution to this issue. I have chosen to just hurt myself for the last several years rather than hurt my wife. It really sucks. Do I live the life of a monk for the rest of my life? Am I being selfish. I love my wife in every other way. But we can no longer have sex due to her disability. What do I do?

[WonderBell99]

Well, before making any judgment, I'd suggest you ask yourself this question: Would you like your wife seeing other men behind your back if you were completely incapacitated?

Assuming you've been married to your wife for at least 20 years, I'm sure you know that communication is the power key to all relationships. Have you considered talking to her about your needs? I will tell you this, you ARE being selfish by sleeping with other women behind her back. That is cheating, regardless of any reason or excuse you might have. You cannot ever justify cheating. You knew you would have to take care of her if she ever was to get sick when you first married her. Honestly, if your sex drive is high and you feel like you cannot control the urge, just tell your wife the exact same thing, but in a more compassionate way. If she is okay with it, then you can continue seeing other women, but in the meantime, just stop all of this.. and just be faithful to your wife and focus on her.

[sheenagwapa]

if i die i want my (hypothetically) spouse to marry, if i get sick i don't want to be a burden and want him to find someone else. if he choose to be eith me i will not ask about that i will pretend


but if the situation is reverse i think i will just buy dildo and will choose to be with him till the end

[Guy13]

Give your life for your wife as Jesus gave His life for you and the Church. These places in life demonstrates quite clearly one’s morality and understanding of how a life is to be lived. Absolute Truth or whatever Morally Relativeness that fits what I want or perceive to be truth and good for me 🤷🏻‍♂️

[genericname85]

i guess it needs some clarification. so it's really physically absolutely impossible for you and/or her to get any enjoyment from any sort of sexual interaction? i'm asking you this, cause i heard there is some ways to make that work even for quadriplegics. also what is her cognitive state?

[MzAsh]

I believe this is where “for better or for worse” comes into play.

[Avicenna]

No, you should be focused on your wife, especially if she is in that condition.

[boggboss]

Would u want her to fuck other men if u lost the ability to have sex

[In_Trance]

Is your wife aware of what you're doing before you do it? Does she approve?