We’ve only been dating 2 days and he already has me meet his mom, should I be worried?

[Sarahloveskorn420]

So before I actually agreed to go out with him he had already hinted to his mom that we were dating when we weren’t, he told me about this and I agreed to actually date him, yk cause I like him and wanted to. Anyways, after just two days he took me back to his place and called his mom and talked with her a bit in the other room, then he took me to his moms to meet her. His mom told me about a Halloween party they’re having and she wants me to go, she also mentioned that a lot of people want to meet me. This kinda overwhelmed me and I declined on going, I told her it sounded fun but I wouldn’t be able to make it, she was nice about it and didn’t push it any further. All of it felt so soon, was it? Or am I just crazy? Is there something wrong with him? Is there something wrong with me?

[spankedbnywife101]

Um yea he is a manipulater and she is a nerotic mess, I know i know how can i make such commenbtgs given all the info i have to go on. Well can you taker the chance im wrong, go on long term date him and his mom and then mary and waist your best years on him and mom and then recall my post here to you. Just bounce out and dont take anymore calls, NONe no calls if you do it says to him you are still into him no matter what words you use he won't here those words not ever, if you dont take the calls and then he starts coming around call the authorities and tell them you wish to be left alone, But i am telling you that he has been living the lie life of a dating relationship with you for a long time now, and if this helps you He has been masturbating to images of you giving him oral sex and traditional him on top sex,
Since before you even knew who he was, yes he has been jerking off and spreading his man goo all over him self in imagining you laying under him. every time you shake his hand he has been vigorously pumping away on his man meat just before you shook his hand and no he does not wash his hands after, washing his hands would remove that in his mind he knows you have been just that close to touching his penis when you shake the hand that was holding it oh so tight but OH so just right only moments before.
Now look i was animated in my description here to try and wake you up, BUT what i just said is all 100% true and i have no reason to lie to you, Im taking far more time here than i ever do in these responses, Good luck, And be careful. After a certain age of og like 50 i guess i can tell you i know this guy and can spot them a mile away everytime, And i don't fear for one second that im steering you away from a worldwind romance that will last forever and bring long-lasting harmony and unity to your life.. NO you will absolutely regret not taking this advice. So you can take it and live a happy life with someone who will grow with you and you alongside him. BUT only if you stop dating or looking at guys that need fixing, leave them to their mothers.
Any other Guys wish to chime in as to my summarization of this boy and his alone time and his mother and this gal who is very close to getting sucked into a long term mess that she will come to regret in years to come? Please follow up and tell her. Please be nice and not crude but be honest.

[Chill_Thoughts]

Nah it's definitely soon and you're young for things to be moving this far. But it really should only be about what you want from this relationship. If you want something serious, the bright side is that he is obviously very committed about you. So I'd bear with his over eagerness for a while and I'm sure you'd grow comfortable with it, if he's right for you.
If you're not sure what you want, tell him things are moving too fast and you want to slow down a bit. That you like to take things at a steady pace to really get to know each other.
If you want something casual, be honest with him about it and how you felt uncomfortable with all the jumps he was making. I'd probably also leave, but depending how he reacts to it, maybe he could still be ok for you

[xColinx]

Is his mom divorced/on her own? Sounds like your guy is very close with her, and obviously excited to have his mom get to know you (which is also a strong sign of his interest & feelings towards you).

I agree with you it's coming on really strong, really quickly... I don't blame you for declining the Halloween party invite, and maybe just keep pumping the brakes a little bit on your end like that to see if it helps calm things down, so that you and him can just chill and get to know each other better. How long had you known him before you started dating?

[mickmrly]

He does seem to be a moving a little fast, just tell him you’d like to slow down a little and see how it goes. He might be trying to date just to please his Mum or something. Just talk it out and see how it goes.

I do have a funny story about Mums and their sons dating though. When my brother in law first started dating my sister, when he told his Mum she didn’t believe him and was surprised to actually meet her a couple of weeks later.

[slatyb]

Could be a red flag, maybe not. What else is going on?

[Sarahloveskorn420]

Well this afternoon he talked about possibly moving in together in the nearish future, mind you we’ve only been dating 2 days, I mean I guess he could just be over excited and just like planning ahead yk bc he’s excited but like I don't know

[slatyb]

That's quite premature. He sounds like a man who is in love with the idea of having a girlfriend, and it doesn't much matter who. He thinks he's in love with you but he doesn't even know you. When he realizes that you are a real person, not his fantasy girlfriend, he's likely to ghost you. How old is he? Did he have a previous relationship that lasted more than a month?

[slatyb]

How old is he?

[Sarahloveskorn420]

Yeah he has, he just turned 21

[darrenishere]

for me this isn't weird

[Anonymous]

i assume he was the one who asked you out

[In_Trance]

worried about what?

[Sarahloveskorn420]

Certain things can be red flags in men