Does it make sense to fight for her?

[Genius38]

In the first week of dating, I made some mistakes like dismissing her from my home, I lied to her about not taking alcohol and so on. She said she can't trust me and can't go on.

She had a 20-day marriage and divorced, she has trust problems and said she tried to believe me but she couldn't. The problem is that she wants to end it but seems like expecting from me something because she doesn't give clear answers. Last day we had our so-called talk. I was washing the dishes so I said,''okay nothing to say anymore sorry for letting you down, hang up the phone," and she says,"my hands are under the blanket, you do it!,"

When I asked,"then you wanna talk?," She says,"no". We were on the phone about 1 hour, I played a music for her and she fell asleep since we can't both hang up the phone🙂

I don't really know what we are going through but not sure about her intention. She can satify her ego or she just needs care. although it seems to be the last talk yesterday, I know she left an open door and not sure whether I struggle or stop writing her?

[Guy13]

Nope, you chose the flesh over her and relationship.

[Genius38]

What do you mean?

[Guy13]

Women expect Preference, Loyalty, and Backbone to deal with their insecurities, emotionality, and general craziness 😎. Lose one of those and it is a long and patient road of “wrath” to return to starting point…. yes, experience speaking 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Sixgunsound]

Bro you’re simping for someone who turned the last guy into a lifelong cash machine after only 20 days. Calling it something else to spare your feelings is just wasting both of our time. Snap out of it and save yourself!

[Genius38]

Yeah, that can be but maybe she had terrible things. She told me the guy lied to her after marriage.

[Sixgunsound]

Is there any reason that you believe her over him other than she has compatible anatomy and a pretty face?

[Genius38]

I think you are right

[msc545]

Is the fucking you are getting really worth the fucking you are getting?

[Sixgunsound]

It never is and it never will be

[msc545]

@Sixgunsound Exactly right brother.

[Genius38]

What do you mean?

[msc545]

Read what I said again, and think about it

[Sixgunsound]

My chief on the boat said it as “is the fucking you’re getting worth the fucking you’re going to get?”