If you were both high the night before does it make it okay for him to hurt u in a state of hangover?

We had taken some stuff. It was my first time and we went to sleep in the morning. Slept till noon. Woke up freshenee up went to shopping (we were on a vacation). During the shopping he became irritated and angry. He bought everything he wanted for his family and I was looking for something for my mom and he acted annoyed that he felt feverish and he has to carry shopping bags. He didn't have to carry them. There wasn't a lot of bags and he never lets me carry them. He grabs bagsfrom me whenever I have any.

Seeing him standing in corner acting angry I told him fine I don't need anything for my mom we. We both for angry and he shouted and I went quiet. Because he always screms at me in public if he feels offended even if he's not high. I ran from him but I was in an unknown place. we got back I cried all the way. We fought aloy in the hotel. And I started panicking. he grabbed me from the floor and threw me in the bed. Then I came to my senses and saw him lying on floor with foams in corner of mouth. I rushed to call the emergency services and he suddenly became conscious and said he's gonna be okay.

My hand for some reason had a bruise mark from his grab and it pained me for a month. I couldn't move it.

He kept asking me to not tell anyone from my family because we were high and he didn't know what he was doing. But all other behavior of his were what he did every other day. It's not like insulting me in public is something he never does.

Later a month later he grabbed my same arm again and it hurt a lot.

He doesn't raise hand in me but in arguments he grabs my throat but he says he never hits a woman. But just says he will.

If you were both high the night before does it make it okay for him to hurt u in a state of hangover?
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