We had taken some stuff. It was my first time and we went to sleep in the morning. Slept till noon. Woke up freshenee up went to shopping (we were on a vacation). During the shopping he became irritated and angry. He bought everything he wanted for his family and I was looking for something for my mom and he acted annoyed that he felt feverish and he has to carry shopping bags. He didn't have to carry them. There wasn't a lot of bags and he never lets me carry them. He grabs bagsfrom me whenever I have any.
Seeing him standing in corner acting angry I told him fine I don't need anything for my mom we. We both for angry and he shouted and I went quiet. Because he always screms at me in public if he feels offended even if he's not high. I ran from him but I was in an unknown place. we got back I cried all the way. We fought aloy in the hotel. And I started panicking. he grabbed me from the floor and threw me in the bed. Then I came to my senses and saw him lying on floor with foams in corner of mouth. I rushed to call the emergency services and he suddenly became conscious and said he's gonna be okay.
My hand for some reason had a bruise mark from his grab and it pained me for a month. I couldn't move it.
He kept asking me to not tell anyone from my family because we were high and he didn't know what he was doing. But all other behavior of his were what he did every other day. It's not like insulting me in public is something he never does.
Later a month later he grabbed my same arm again and it hurt a lot.
He doesn't raise hand in me but in arguments he grabs my throat but he says he never hits a woman. But just says he will.
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Totally normal to have stupid fights on drugs, hungover from drugs and withdrawing from drugs. But anyone, male or female, that is acting abusive on more than an exceptional basis, is someone that needs to be dumped. No exceptions. Yes, this includes terminally ill people and people with mental disorders. Being someone's punching bag is never right. Verbal or physical. So, fuck this guy. Move on. Don't even wait to find a replacement guy first. Just go.
Sounds like a really good dude... NOT. Is this all you think you are worth?
No. I'm trying to separate from him. But I feel hesitant mentioning to anyone that specific incident in case it's unfair to him because he was under the influence. Again I don't know how long does this influence last.
I'm not clear what he was on?
Why mention it to anyone? You don't need to form an army against him, you need to break up. It should absolutely not involve anyone else.
You both need to be far away from each other.