Yes that is crazy
No that is how much it costs
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Let's be fair: this "recent poll" was taken by Fresh & Fit from about 10 Miami party girls, and only 5 or 6 of them were demanding $100k+, and only 1 of them demanded $400k. Of course, less than half of one percent of men make that much per year, and that girl was NOT even in the top 10% of women - which is why she's always single. Instead, she's going to keep going after those guys in Miami, some of whom will use her for sex and discard her, until she ages out and can no longer even attract them with free casual sex.
Most women are not this delusional - but Miami is a big-money party town, and girls who are in their 20s and reasonably hot and willing to have casual sex readily CAN get wealthy guys to "date" them for a few weeks at a time - and by "date" I mean let them hang out, share in their high lifestyle for a little while, and get banged silly when he's not busy doing something else. The problem is that these girls believe that because such guys will bang her, that she's on the same level as those guys. What they don't realize is that none of those guys take her seriously at all, or have any intention of being with her for more than a few weeks or months. She'll just be a distraction for him for a little while, until he gets tired of her or until she becomes a hassle, at which point, "things just aren't working out" and he'll dump her and find a new one.
This is not to say that there aren't a lot of girls who think that only men making 6 figures are "datable" - because there are, especially in "money towns" like NYC, Chicago, LA, SF, Miami, and Seattle. But look at the RESULTS: none of those girls ever end up with any of those guys - they are nothing but temporary entertainment.
It's the women who have realistic and reasonable demands that get husbands and families, with only rare exceptions.
I hear you man.
Fresh & Fit started asking their guests - and they are essentially bringing in Miami party girls, so, yes, it's heavily skewed - to describe their MINIMUM standards for a man, based on income, height, age, race, and relationship status - and then asked them to guess what percentage of men in the US meet those standards. They are always way, WAY off, grossly overestimating how many men meet these standards. The reason THESE girls think this way is because the ONLY men they deal with are wealthy Miami players who spend thousands a night at the club - but it does show how easy it is to be delusional.
This isn't the $400k video, it's a more recent one, but they have lots of these:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cSobWvO7UC4
Start at 46:00
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pBfvCuaOaso
Start at 1:28:20
The age probability shouldn't included if appropriate for their age. They are not going to marry a six year old nor an 80 year old. Therefore, the probabilities should be higher because a relevant age should be included in the population. The minimum height and income are relevant.
It IS important, though, as there are income demographics in their calculator. There are a lot more 45 year old making $100,000 a year than 25 year olds, so these girls who demand these high salaries can't also demand that the guy is within 3 years of her age (a common response among this particular segment of women).
I've seen them. Super entertaining lol
According to: https://bestlifeonline.com/money-people-your-age-make-news/
This is how much do people in average on USA:
- Ages 16-19: $22,620
- Ages 20-24: $29,962
- Ages 25-34: $41,236
- Ages 35-44: $51,272
- Ages 45-54: $52,308
- Ages 55-64: $50,440
- Ages 65+: $47,372
Now you are saying 400K... okay?
According to: https://alexaanswers.amazon.com/question/6Rq0Qx1yEtTAUM7cYoAJuH
That is 1.8% of people, and probably most of them after their late 40s. Now you shall ask if you are top 1.8% on any department, and if you want to be with a dude 20 years older.
Maybe doing better than average, or perhaps top 30%, would be a better standard.
But 400K, if you don't earn that much yourself shut the fuck up. Everyone wants everything for free, duh!
You are just a dummy. No real high quality man will take you seriously!
Out of touch? They out of their F’ing minds! And no doubt, still single, why it says “the man they marry must make at least 400k a year?” and doesn’t say “ the man they’re married to”😂
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I know I know
Money is more important than love in relationship...
@savagewolf22 no it’s not
Ma'am when poverty knock the door love fly away from window.
@savagewolf22 then it was never really love
Ma'am be realistic...
Go to grocery shop with hungry stomach & empty pocket and tell them hey I have so much love please give us good without money.
You will face the reality...
Love look good in quotes but in reality money is more important than love.
I wouldn't marry her if I made a trillion a week!
I'd like to see the research methods applied to come up with that trend. This seems very doubtful.
Yeah well you know we would never get that so it is what it is.. so all i can do is commentate on it.
All due respect, it's a little iffy to knowingly spread information that seems incorrect.
Everything is iffy in the dating world... I should know I am a head a million dollar empire that feeds it.
This website is a communications platform and not an advertisement page. It is unnecessary to knowingly spread false information.
Hmmmm Ha Ha Ha Ha
Me too.
@NerdInDenial yeah. It’s all girls in like…. Skimply outfits and stuff. What do you expect?
They’re gold diggers. They don’t want to make money themselves. Probably in college debt.
@NerdInDenial I was about to drop the video too @Whatthefluff yes it's true it's not misinformation this was said on a latest poll. a lot of woman have become this down right delusional. Lol
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Well, assuming the poll was taken properly, I think these women were trolling the pollsters. Or it was a solely poll of women who live in Manhattan.
Must be sampling California NYC Boston Chicago
Saw similar question like 2 weeks ago (this you?)
Do you think Modern women's expectation for men's salary to be realistic?
Apparently most women only consider men good enough for marriage if they make 6 figures a year (American currency).
The average salary that girls will tolerate for marriage is a man making 100k/year.
While a few girls will be ok with guys making 65k/year provided he improves and makes 6 figures in the not too distant future.
Keep in mind that the average American salary (54k).
That's not me I never go ANON.
I assume you are talking about that Courtney Ryan video? I don't know why dudes get so weird about women’s wishlists. Women want what they want, but it’s not like that’s all they’ll actually accept.
As long as you are emotionally satisfying man to interact with, women will throw themselves at you.
What video is that? Is that with the one dude sneak?
Oh okay.. sneako did one also where one avg woman said 4 or 5 hundred K
Is that the red head chick who is all over tik tok defending men?
Yes Pearl... you are on top of it for sure. Yeah Not a fan of Sneako either he's such a troll.
Well it sounds like you are smart and pay attention in GENERAL to whats happening. I am the expert and you had to inform me of who is who so... thanks.
I have been an online dating coach for over 20 years. I have spoken to the most influential people in the biz. secret story. GAG found me on twitter and interviewed me back in like 2015 or so... do a search on it it's still there here on GAG... back then on GAG I was considered an EXPERT... yeah that was a real badge before they eliminated that and made everyone who spent time on this app an INFLUENCER. Back in the day David Deangelo, me and a few others were the only experts on GAG.
Anyone who is about to use a dating app. I can help. I dont' claim to be a love coach relationship coach etc... I am on online dating expert... if people need help in other areas I will refer them to the qualified people.
no idea who they asked in their poll. it can hardly be a representative survey but these women who were asked clearly have very high expectations that they will struggle a lot to find in the real world.
my first guess is that this is a hit piece on women like so much of that bullshit that's going on with andrew tate and such idiots, where fucking basically they take some very dumb female opinions and portray themself as these "wise manly men" by bashing these idiotic opinions that no reasonable woman actually has.
Those women are just gold diggers. They’re responsible for how much money they make. They should be looking for love. Not a handout. That isn’t love.
If a woman wants a “sugar daddy” she should be clear and up front with what she wants. There are men who are into that stuff.
She should not be wasting the time of good men. I don’t know if 89 percent of women feel that way or not. There is also plenty of men who just want sex.
A lot of people as I guess the world gets darker. It’s getting harder to find good people in general.
But you can tell. 16 percent of women disagree with that. Most women on here.
I can understand not wanting to date someone who refuses to work. That I get. But.
I've seen a few videos with women saying they want a guy to make that much, but I wonder if some of them are staged for comedy or they're just saying that to ruffle guys' feathers.
If every woman got a man who made $400k a year then every man would be rich. If every man was rich the economy would collapse from no money being left for anybody else.
You gotta remember: any woman with a desperate need for a man like that is wanting something to help her make up for what she's severely lacking. When she's done draining that guy dry, she'll look for another.
That is just crazy. I guess if they poll 20 year olds who grew up in households where the parents owned a thriving business and earned a lot. They might grow up thinking this is the norm when in fact it is a pretty low percentage of the population that makes that much.
If they poll only women who are 30 plus and have been working a full time job for at least 5 years, I'm sure the results of the poll would be much different.
I read @genericname85 response and he's onto something about who they asked. But, I also wonder if it's truly a case of whether the people polled just don't understand what pay scales are and how much the average person earns. So, their answer wasn't necessarily gold digging as much as it was uninformed.
i'm sure you'll be able to make a poll where someone says they expect their partner to make 400k a year. and maybe they are gold digging. maybe they are stupid and uninformed. point being: this can't possibly be an opinion that is common or evenr epresentative. it's just an opinion that "as far as i see it" was intentionally chosen to show women in a bad light.
you most certainly can make the argument that women gravitate to men who make more money but that surely makes them entiteled idiots who will only go for a rich guy, even though there's most likely individuals out there that are.
surely doesn't make them entiteled idiots who will only go for a rich guy ***
@genericname85 +! to everything you said.
Of course not because that poll didn't ask ordinary people. Instead the poll asked women from very wealthy families, actresses, top models and singers, and other famous people. Clearly, 90 percent of women would say that.
*Clearly, 90 percent of women would NOTsay that.
Exactly. Maybe in some areas they might. The same as many men in some areas might say they only and sex.
If you asked women in clubs and bars and places like that or strippers and people of the like. Their answers would be different.
I mean. It’s like videos. Where all the women talk the same and say stufff like that on YouTube. Are women in clubs and bars who are drunks and are sluts.
Not women any man of value could ever want unless they repent
Read the reply from a J. P. Morgan CEO to woman seeking to marry a man earning $500K.
www.ndtv.com/.../pretty-girl-in-search-of-rich-husband-gets-reality-check-from-j-p-morgan-ceo-555195
The reply from the unverified CEO is to the point. An investor, or trader, will only think about the depreciation cost as it is a liability for the person. Not an asset.
He explained it accurately. If she had only her beauty as an anchor, then she was already a lost cause. No hopes for her.
I’m a JPMC employee and I make nearly that figure, still I can’t find a girl that’s wants a marriage and love. I met money for the money.
@The_Shadow_Dweller Her problem may be, she is 25 (only 5 years from 30); not 18 so she has already had 7 years of depreciation.
I did not mean to be mean. Honestly. As far as I can tell, a woman looks differently in various stages of life. My question is, why was she so much focused on the money part.
A guy of that salary or earnings is so sought after by women that he is already versed in looking past the looks and all, towards the actual woman.
I have seen millionaire couples break apart as either or neither of them were not okay with it. The person matters right?
She was wrong from the get go.
And why search for a wealthy husband. You do work and earn. That way, you are not even answerable to your spouse compulsorily regarding your spendings. Simple.
@Charlesbrandonf If they show their money, men with money attract women seeking money. Also, even if she doesn't place a high priority on money, a man will appear more desirable if he has money or has a very high or potential income. Furthermore, before they are out of their teens, beautiful young women have learned they can attract men with income in the top 5 to 10 percent and don't wish to settle for much less.
Provided you show your income, if you have above average looks, with your income, you can attract 9s which I define equal to the pretty and athletic college pom-pom girls. In my opinion, 9s are pretty enough for any man, including movie start that can attract 10s. However, if you don't show your income by your lifestyle, etc., you may lose out to other guys. Therefore, ask yourself, is finding a 9 or above extremely important to me or am I willing to settle a pretty 8?
I’m willing to settle at 6 and above. It’s funny to hear that word pom-Pom girl. What means Pom-pop girl. And yes sure these hot cute girls have mastered the skill to attract rich dudes and they don’t stay there for long. They want higher and higher and replace easily. And get over in a week. A week. The last time I got my heart broken, it took me a year and half.
@Charlesbrandonf I don’t think looks are all that matter. I don’t want women who only want money. Then they don’t love me. They love the money I have.
There are women who aren’t like that. But unfortunately good men who have money sometimes have shit women and it can be hard to tell sometimes. If she’s a good woman after his heart or wallet
90 percent of time I met girls who are after money. At least in sfo. Other places I met genuine woman.
@Charlesbrandonf yeah. That makes sense.
@Charlesbrandonf There are some of us that put a higher importance on marriage and family than money, but I will not be ready for another few years.
Looking at it from a man's viewpoint, the problem is, we excel at deception. We can pretend to be whatever it takes to get what we want. It might help if you don't show most of your money. Can you live a middle class lifestyle? Can you drive a common car; not a Ferrari and live in a middle class neighborhood? Because almost all women want security, I believe you should show, you have a good income but not an exceptionally high income.
I’m close to give up the idea of marriage and never wants to married. I don’t show off anything. I killed lover inside me. Because every time I reach out, it ends up in different way. I have other things that also need my attention, my dad, my passions my career. For sexual desires, So for that I’m getting laid though. Not troubling anyone nor troubling my body desires. I guess I’m empty inside.
@Charlesbrandonf It is no secret that for men in the USA, marriage can be risky. You could consider doing what Auther Liu, the father of Alysa Liu (2022 Olympic figure skater) did. Mr. Liu had Alysa and her siblings by in vitro fertilization, or IVF, with two different egg donors and two different surrogates. That way your children will always be your children. When a man in USA marries, if the marriage doesn't work out, usually, the man loses his children but has to pay anyway.
$400k? That’s it? These women have such low standards 😂.
the guys I’m with must have the brain to make over a million with me.
and that’s what I got!
so what do these women give in return?
sadly some men buy into that nonsense.
here is my friends story. married over 10 years. Hubby cheated. She wanted to leave…but the new guy must have a private jet to take her around for her to leave the cheated husband.
guess what, she didn’t leave because she can’t find that man.
these girls can want all they want.. most ended up alone /single or married down.
I know that women have gone nuts, but try to see from their perspective as well.
Inflation is moving at escape velocity of earth :D So to keep up with inflation 400K is necessary if she wants to be housewife or take her career easy.
Now add to that women today have incentive to be competitive (via social media). Now this is a catalyst for the high standards as well.
Finally, there is anti-natal sentiment which makes women despise childbirth, hence she might seem to factor it as well (this is just my hunch, I might be wrong here)
If you add it all up you have a woman who expects more but hate to pay back, that is you have a greedy merchant.
Also remember that western men are no saints, as "every man is born out of a mother"
Except most women make crappy housewives lol. Most modern women have no idea what it is to be traditional.
1. Most people do not participate in polls, and most polls do not reach outside of their own website, devalidating them twice over as opinion percentage meters.
2. Most people do not even come close to making a quarter of that a year, and this is widely known.
3. Women who take polls about income requirements in men, are going to be primarily gold diggers, because women who aren't gold diggers won't see a point to the poll.
4. Yes, anyone who thinks that way is out of touch with reality, and likely will not get a partner because of their greedy mentality.
Doesn't shock me at all. When the sexual marketplace is rigged in women favour their standards increase every year to the most astronomical heights. The same women will also tell you how dynamic and independent they are, yet they see men as nothing more than a pay check.
I would like to be making that 400k myself. How marriages work in my family is both work. They pay bills together, cover stuff for the kid together as well as dates the woman wants something she buys it herself and if the man buys it for her sure that's great too. The whole men pay for everything is stupid but it would be nice to have a finally stable partner of you are financially stable yourself if not you'd feel like ur burdening them. U wonder why guys weren't ask about this poll. How much money do you want your wife to make. Less, equal or more than you something like that.
Where was this poll taken - Beverly Hills? Palm Springs? LOL Ok, ok, according to indeed. com ----- Here's a look at "marrying ages". These numbers include men and women, so kick it up 20% if you wish to apply the unequal pay scale in the real world!
The average salary for ages 20–24
Median weekly salary: $684
The average salary for ages 25–34 Median weekly salary: $975
The average salary for ages 35–44 Median weekly salary: $1,155
The average salary for ages 45–54
Median weekly salary: $1,172
These are "median" salaries which means the most common. Even if you are on the exceptional end of any scale, you're nowhere close to $400k a year. The most marriages take place between the ages of 25 to 35.
A $400k salary puts you in the top 1.8% of wage earners in the USA. Good luck with that, ladies.
I make over a 100k. And im single income. If you can't survive on that, you have serious self control problems
Dude I hear ya.
The cost of living is rising daily. Those women are probably just realistic and want to be able to raise kids.
Yeah maybe. Could be.
There’s nothing realistic about expecting that type of income. I hope this comment was a joke.
@Kingofkings1992 LOLOLOL! You said it
These people are living in cloud cuckoo land!! You'd be lucky to reach 40k, in this climate!! If women expect this, then that's probably why they stay single.
I hear ya
Well, these women are foolish. Very few men make that kind of money, much less desire to with the responsibility that comes with it.
Probably are used to sugar baby lifestyle.
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