How do I convince my girlfriend to go to Taiwan 🇹🇼 with me for Chinese New Year 🧧 ?

[JustiReno]

Fireworks, great food, good flight with exceptional service on EVA airlines, ok weather in January, night markets, jovial atmosphere, and she doing K1 visa 🇺🇸 I think it’s good luck 🇹🇼

She not hearing me out so stubborn she picked our last trip how do I get her to compromise she won’t give an inch

[Apraxia]

“ I’m kinda bored, and don’t wanna go to Japan tbh. I wanna change it up this year and go to Taiwan. I get if you don’t wanna go and that’s okay, you can go where you want, I’m going to go to Taiwan. I’d prefer we went together, but I just wanna visit this place even if it’s just for the one year”

she should have respect to your wishes same as yours to hers. If you absolutely want to go Taiwan go Taiwan. If not with her do it with friends family or someone else if she’s stubborn enough. Where you go shouldn’t matter it’s who it’s with. Yeah the political climate is iffy but like it’s been like that for a couple years now. If your both citizens of a foreign country your within safety considering it would cause political upset across the world if foreigners were hurt whilst holidaying. What’s more romantic then being a martyr

[JustiReno]

Naw she’s convinced she gonna go

[Apraxia]

To Japan? Then cool go to Taiwan if she’s convinced of going there then she should. Go to where you want, go with some friends if ya want.

[JustiReno]

I not gonna miss chance to see her just is what it is, but Taiwan just gotta happen, we going to Japan in spring see blossom, better weather then

We both want to go to India but it’s a long flight for me n I have limited PTO

[Apraxia]

Well if that’s the case that’s the case. If your not willing to go alone you shouldn’t be trying to convince someone else to go with you.

[JustiReno]

Jesus, who’s side are you on?

[Apraxia]

No one’s side, there’s no sides to this mate that’s just fucked behaviour. If you wanna go Taiwan go to ducking Taiwan, if she wants to go Japan let her go Japan. Don’t be controlling, don’t be dependent Jesus.

[RavVid]

There is a lot more than Japan in asia. I guess she might be worried at China's threats to invade Taiwan but if she is saying she only wants to go to Japan that doesn't seem it.

Vietnam, Thailand are great for a holiday. If she chose the last destination I think she should be gracious enough to go with your pick.

[JustiReno]

She’s from Thailand n she’d rather me see her there than go to Taiwan but I think I tell her good for her

[RavVid]

Are you from Taiwan? I'm just thinking that as she is from Thailand then she would be seeing friends and family which is great but it tends to take over the holiday. Ditto in reverse if you are from Taiwan.

In that case one of you will be the side chick so to speak and a bit out of it. Could very easily be a family reunion rather than a holiday exploring a new country.

If so I am swinging to her side now :). Sorry! If not I am still in your corner.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

She might be worried about the hostilities between Taiwan and mainland China.

If yes, you might want to consider her concerns.

[JustiReno]

She never say it once never explain no Korea Vietnam Indonesia or China only Japan and Singapore maybe she do Lao?

[Anonymous]

If she wants to go to Japan just take her, DO NOT FIGHT WITH A BIG BOSS😂


maybe just cancel the trip if she won’t go

[JustiReno]

Japan is too cold that time we have a plan to go to japan for her birthday next spring but for winter trip it’s see her in Thailand or go experience something new

[BigschlongEnergy]

Put your arm around her Neck if you do it right she will Go to sleep from lack of oxygen in her brain 🧠 and take her to a plane And when she wakes up You and her with be in Taiwan or hours on your way to Taiwan here’s the tutorial how to do it

https://youtu.be/LppnEfRoFIM

[DrBanana]

You could maybe ask her about it and not try to convince her but let her know you have your heart set on it and would love to share the experience with her.


Ask her to go but don’t use guilt trips and mention about her picking the last trip she might get more defensive as a reflex and not want to go even more.

[ArtemisSilver]

Say that the other destination you had in mind was Kiev?

Seriously dude, oblivious much?

[JustiReno]

she says japan only place she wanna go in asia but I think she needs open her eyes to new things 🇹🇼

I am oblivious tho watchu mean?

[ArtemisSilver]

Taiwan is on the brink of war you Dingus lol where else you wanna go next?

[JustiReno]

It’s Chinese New Year against the rules to invade then plus China carrier not done until 2025 we have few America class carrier built before then w/ F35, Taiwan it’s own country China gov. just being stubborn

[Fuentes]

Lol well that could end up with a prize of black body bags, I don't know if you should take chances

[JustiReno]

You think China bout to ruin my vacation fuck them

[Fuentes]

It could jump off at anytime lol

[JustiReno]

Naw man it’s all public IPO shit their air craft carrier ain’t done big loss what they got we whoop japan ass in pacific

[BlueScorpio]

Ask her why she doesn't want to go?

[BlueScorpio]

Sounds like a good time, I'm curious why she wouldn't want to go? If the location is bad I would pick different area.

[JustiReno]

You know this is a good point I don’t even k is why she don’t wanna go, she get mad when I bring it up

[LemiaOfThunder]

Give her the pros and cons

[Anonymous]

Tie her up and put her on the flight

[JustiReno]

She refuse, I try tell her new things 👌