Basically I told him that I think women would just add unnecessary stress to my life while I’m already burdened by school and having trouble with my current state. I said that I just don’t feel ready in the current moment. I told him I’ve decided to not put any effort towards women and focus on becoming my own best man.
We’re both Christian and virgin, so I shared his vision of feeling called by God to raise a family in the future.
I explained that it just felt improper to try and set out for God’s plan before I was in a position where I could actually provide that.
But he said there is valuable experience that comes with it.
But I just feel that culturally we’re just not focused enough on the core values of faith, family and tradition.
I mean if dating women made me out to be a better man that’d be one thing but we’re a culture of high divorce rates, hookup culture and out of wedlock births because of liberal ideology.
I would gladly date someone of more traditional thought, but I just have absolutely nothing to gain, and everything to lose by associating with people who don’t share my core values.
So in this sense I’ve genuinely felt more attracted to foreign women.
But is it wrong to feel that way instead of making a more honest effort at home as my friend is insisting I do?
What I didn’t tell him is that my current plans are to focus on chasing wealth and success so I can travel in the future and meet foreign girls.
I could videochat them online enough to get to know them before traveling to their country, maybe stay a couple weeks and if it works out, bring them home to my place.
And I’m not thinking of Asian women specifically either. I find traditionalist white women the most attractive.
