Am I in the wrong for doing this to my boyfriend?

Anonymous

Hi Guys!

I'm just seeking out advice, and I'm not looking for revenge. I plan on talking to my boyfriend about this, but I want to seek more advice from others. (:

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months. I'm very close with his family, and I have met just about everybody. My boyfriend and I went to his older brother's 30th birthday party on Friday. We (me, my boyfriend, his brothers, then their significant other, along couple friends) spent that day together, along the weekend. His birthday was on a Friday, and I was exhausted from work. Saturday, we attended a football game in person. Everybody was pre-gaming (aka. drinking excessively.) We got to the stadium. We were there for 8 hours straight. We never even watched the whole game. Just made it to half-time.

Over time, I was so tired from the whole day. I was bonding with my boyfriend's brother's girlfriend. We were in a RV, laying in bed, obviosuly on our phones. She was ready to go home, along myself. We were tired and cold. Everybody was drunk outside, along with our boyfriends. We told our boyfriends that we were going back to the house, to basically shower and such. Easy sailing from there. We drove off.

As I got back to the house, it's late. It's like 8:30 pm. I'm no night owl. I go to bed early due to waking up early for work. Everybody came back home that night. My boyfriend texted me while I was passed out tired, asking if we wanted to go to dinner. My boyfriend wakes me up. He's drunk, saying he doesn't want to go to dinner. That his older brother's wife is harrassing him to go to dinner. I still said No. Boyfriend went due to getting harrassed.

At dinner, his older brother's wife was literally embarrassing the crap out of my boyfriend (along brother) while drunk. Saying she paid for everything, when my boyfriend and I offered to pay for things. She'd deny us both. My boyfriend told me later on in the morning when I woke up, saying that she was bashing my name for not going to dinner.

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She was also bashing the other girlfriend for not going to dinner. When I found out, I obviously cried to my boyfriend. All because I'm trying to bond with his family. I feel so pressured now for staying the times I just want to be back home. My boyfriend pushes through everything the times he doesn't want to do things, while he tells me to hang in there. I'm not much of a social drinker, and my boyfriend knows that. My boyfriend was really pissed at everything.
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This girl is high materialistic. Has started drama with a lot of people. Wants things her way, due to how she grew up. I don't want to be hated on. She doesn't work at all, due to losing her parents and living off of their life insurance. My boyfriend, along everybody else works full time jobs.
Am I in the wrong for doing this to my boyfriend?
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