Should you tell your partner everything?

[apa4488]

Yes

No

[caring__1]

Only share what is relevant to your relationship. How would you be improving your relationship by telling your new partner your ex-partner had a 12" cock? If you feel it is important to share specific information, share it before your potential partner invests in the relationship. Never withhold it till he is invested and then say "If you loved me, you'd accept me as I am." If you're not willing to share relevant information in a relationship, you're probably not ready to be in a relationship.

Insecure people often want to know all the details about their partner's past. Sharing details will only limit your present relationship. Comparisons will always be made, and you may not be allowed to experience anything you previously experienced with someone else. What works better is to ask people what they've learned from past experiences and how those experiences have impacted them. Acquiring knowledge and discovering what changes have been made will be more meaningful than learning they used to wear diapers. Distant past doesn't necessarily repeat itself. Present patterns (consistently shown with both with you and others) are more likely to predict what you can expect than what happened long ago.

[SnowedIn]

Not everything but never ever lie or conceal. Sometimes what goes on in our mind doesn't need to be spoken, written, or acted on. And sometimes there are things they don't need to know.

[melanieeeB]

Nope, you don't have to tell your partner, family or close friends everything.

[TrueConfection]

Nope. They really don't want to know everything.

[Guy13]

One should be honest with partner.