The year 2022 is about to end. Could you find the love of your life this year?

[gayesblog]

There is only a month and a half left until the new year. Do you think you still have a chance to fall in love?

[SecretsofKB]

Nope. Last year I found her. But I did get engaged to her this year!

[SecretsofKB]

@PainusNdeeAnus

Oh but we definitely can.

[musicbrain5]

@PainusNdeeAnus Obergefell v Hodges. Look it up.

[musicbrain5]

Congratulations!

[PainusNdeeAnus]

@musicbrain5 so it’s like a pretend marriage? Or like playing house?

[SecretsofKB]

@musicbrain5 Thank you!!

[katestar]

Congratulations.

[SecretsofKB]

@katestar Thank you!

[katestar]

How did you manage this?

[SecretsofKB]

@katestar Manage what?

[katestar]

How did you get her to fall in love with you?

[SecretsofKB]

@katestar haha I'll let you know as soon as I do

[katestar]

You're a lucky

[QuadDamage]

Niet, No, Nej.

That's a negatory to the utmost affirmation. Too much in love with my family to try anything this year.

Finally gotten some decent bounding done with my father who's been absent my whole life. Forgiving can be hard but.

Living with a big hole in you is even harder. And no matter what you do, you never quite love yourself like you should.

Sometimes closure is important is my self lesson here, no matter what kind of closure 🌹 my sister can never forgive him, I understand her... she has her "own" family

He might have caused himself severe schizophrenia and dimensia from damage of alcohol over time.

But I look at him and I see part of me and I get the feeling he sees himself in me aswell. We're oddly bound togheter in this world, as two strangers at times. Sometimes he just looks at me and smiles and nods, then I known somewhere deep in my soul, that we're the one and same and this time we're in. Was meant to be!

[JamesDiaz11]

I'm in love enough... I lost the one who I was meant to be with, and my hearts so fked up from squandering every good relationship I've had, along with sex addiction.

Currently, I have a really sweet girl who I'm pretty sure has fallen in love with me. She's very pretty, petite/ athletic, from a good family, and a virgin to top it off. She checks the boxes of what I want, but I won't be able to love her like I loved the last girl (or my first love).

[Ninania]

Sorry to say, but if it ended, it wasn't meant to be. Hope you get closure in the future and move on to more healthy, mutual relations in the future, though your current one doesn't sound fair to the girl falling in love with you. Please consider her wellbeing moving forward as you'd want others to consider yours.

[JamesDiaz11]

@Ninania I don't believe in "meant to be." I think we have chances to have the best we can have in life, and there are choices that stop us from having those things.
As far as the girl I'm with now, I try to follow the saying, "if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with."

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Can I get her? She sounds perfect and if you can't appropriate her, I will! Hope this wakes you up till it's too late...

[JamesDiaz11]

@YourFavoriteFriend She's pretty perfect on paper, but I have a high sex drive, and she literally will not let me fk her...

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Not at all or not as much as you like?

[JamesDiaz11]

@YourFavoriteFriend Saving herself for marriage... I've at least Jew'd her down to engagement, but that's at least another year.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Oh, no!!! Do you want to marry her? Shit, now I understand this "she's perfect in paper BUT" you said before...

[JamesDiaz11]

@YourFavoriteFriend I want to get married and have a family- she's the best candidate. That doesn't mean I'm in love with her, but the clock waits for no man.

[Naruto_Uzumaki]

To be honest I don't even want a boyfriend anymore. I've been longing for having my first relationship but now I'm so done with men. All men want is Sex and nothing else. I'm not interested in finding a boyfriend because in the end they'll hurt me either way and my life is just too precious to me to let myself get hurt ever again. So I decided to stay alone and never let anyone in my life again. I'll never give a man a chance. I've been hurt way too many times to let any new person in my life. I've realized I'm better off on my own

[QuadDamage]

I'm sorry your meetings with people has lead to these conclusions. You should let yourself thrive alone, love yourself. Love will come to you, no worries 👍🙏

I've had your exact thoughts aswell. Then I realised I was part of the problem. I could never get that girl I wanted the most to accept me for who I simply am.

Then I started realising that, damn you old dog. Why do you need people's approval if I don't even know them?
The second i stopped being shallow and was just being myself. It made a huge difference.

And the funny part about this is, the people who suddenly started noticing me for how truly awesome I can be. I didn't care about them 😂 so they got pissed off and showed their true colors. And they were never good people to begin with.

Anyway I'm going off the radar here, my point is. Don't waste your energy on people who do not deserve you. There are genuin people out there 😁👍

[NeverknowNeverTell]

don't worry sister, you're not alone. the best thing to do is focus on other sectors of your life. chase that dream job. save for that vacation you want, exercise if you're physically able, journal and learn more about yourself. I find that when romance isn't working out for you, it's best to work internally instead of seeking outside validation.

[Naruto_Uzumaki]

@QuadDamage dude I'm not the issue. Men are the issue. All of you think it's funny to treat women like toys and throw them away when you get bored of them. Women aren't the issue men are

[Naruto_Uzumaki]

@NeverknowNeverTell I'm not even looking for validation. In fact I'm not looking for anything right now other than to be left alone by men

[QuadDamage]

Well, my telling was a bit out of the red line following yours. I made a statement too long of how I got past these issues myself because I can relate to this feeling.

And it was not really meant for you to understand it per say, that you are to be blamed for other peoples choices.

My sole point was and still is: There will always be asshats. Deal with it any way you like, just do things that make you happy 🌹

[Naruto_Uzumaki]

Dude all men are jerks. There's no point in denying the truth

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Sorry for what you've been trough. But don't think all men are jerks. I'm a man and you can call me a lot of things but not a jerk that only wants sex and that would hurt a girl. I think you are in your "redpill" phase. Good luck, wish you the best!

[Naruto_Uzumaki]

It's not my problem that you're denying the truth. All men are jerks. There's no way to deny that

[NeverknowNeverTell]

@Naruto_Uzumaki gosh your so mean. I was trying to be empathic and encouraging but you nitpicked the one thing you didn't like. regardless my point still stands. there other things to pay attention to.

[Naruto_Uzumaki]

@NeverknowNeverTell it's not my problem that you don't like the truth and that you feel the need to insult others when you don't get your way or when people are being honest with you

[YourFavoriteFriend]

So I'm telling you that I'm not a jerk and you say that I "deny" your "fact". So you're calling me a jerk in my face right? You call out @NeverknowNeverTell for offending you (which she didn't) but you do the same to me. We call that DELUSION in my place...

Anyway, I also tried to be empathetic but you make it really hard. Someone will cringe A LOT in the future when thinking about her past self...

[Naruto_Uzumaki]

Go on. As if I care about a person's opinion who's forcing me to agree with them. Get lost dude. No woman interested in a pushy guy

[Heolurt]

Your view that all guys are jerks is the same as me saying "All females are useless gold diggers and you can't deny that because it's a fact." It's a generalization and it's just not true either way.

[JamesDiaz11]

Sounds like you didn't have good taste in men, and now you want to blame all men for this. This is as ridiculous as a guy getting cheated on by his girlfriend and saying all women aren't worth shi...

[Naruto_Uzumaki]

The only ridiculous thing here is people trying to fight and argue with me just for being honest

[OlderAndWiser]

Not necessary, not looking. I found the love of my life in December 2020 and will probably get engaged between Christmas and Valentine's Day.

[Bethany22]

Lots of chances to fall in love, but not many chances to find a relationship

[Guardian45]

SO TRUE!

[BlueScorpio]

As long as your alive, you have a chance to still find love any year ♥️

[coachTanthony]

Sure if you put your mind to it. It's all about putting yourself out there to be found.

[Avicenna]

It wasn’t a goal this year

[Estaroze]

Love of my life..

I beg you, please please let me meet him, and let us fall in love.

I need him desperately.

I pray almost every day that I can have a chance to fall in love with that guy.

Even when it's cruel, I know that the guy I'm dating right now isn't love of my life, and I haven't felt romantic love about him because he is selfish. It was just some mix of lust, imaginative mind, friendship, desire.

Help me please, I need him more than ever. I wonder how the world can be this cruel to me..

[Levin]

But is there space for him, if you continue with these negative patterns?

[NeverknowNeverTell]

No,
but not partially because I think it's impossible, more because I'm not ready for love right now. I'm going through a lot trying to build my adult life and most of my recent mistakes have been romance related. seeking romance has only be a distraction from my real goals. seeking romantic attention has made me ignore my goals and disregard my morals time and time again. even if I do find someone genuine, I still don't trust myself to handle it properly. I'm just nor mature enough for love right now.

[Jess_D]

I started to really like this guy friend as something more this year. We had a great time out last Saturday night and are planning on going out again this week where we both admitted that we wanted more than friendship. I do really like him and I’m really exciting about our relationship moving forward.

[ArrowheadSW]

I think it is a lot harder to do as you get more into middle age. I do know a guy who I grew up with who has no trouble finding girlfriends though. He is very marriage oriented and he is looking to get married as his last marriage didn't work out.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

The love of my life given only a month and a half doesn't seem so tough because our remaining life is so short. That's not marriage and kids and family material. That's the best sex and fun and fleeting but deep connection material. I just find a hot girl at the nightclub twerking upside down and if we can relate to each other and she's into me, that should be awesome enough for 6 weeks.

[FunkyMonkee]

I very seriously doubt it!! I thought I had her 31 years ago but, I found that I was wrong!! The fucking mini-bitch ended up cheating on me after 10 years of my loyalty!!
And, it doesn't look like anyone else is the slightest bit interested. Well, MAYBE one girl still is but, she's 1/4 of the planet away from me and we haven't been able to talk to each other in about 10 years.

[JHNS98]

Not with my avoidant attitude towards romantic feelings. I do want to meet someone, but only in this specific way that doesn't even reflet my social behaviour. I am super shy, so I barely talk to new people. I'm also tired of being rejected, so this hypothetical girl has to approach me rather than the other way around.

I've only had this happen once, and that also ended quickly and badly, so I'm not really "on the market" so to speak.

[JDAC092299]

Nope not this year, I haven’t met her yet and tbh that’s probably a good thing. I’ve got some maturing to do in the sense that I need to get my priorities straight. Start my driving lessons and stop procrastinating and skipping my exercise/dinner routine. Then when I have some savings behind me once more I’ll be ready, fit and dependable that and I’ll have the means to do the things I want to with the one I love asap instead of treating it as a future dream 👌

[vduong1988]

yes he was my best friend he told me his feeling for me and i had feeling for him we been going out a lot i know him for 9 years now he told me he love me I love him too he treat me very well and he is really sweet to me i feel bad for him he had mental depression i support him.

[Anonymous]

There’s always a chance… but it’s not likely to happen.


I’m moving to a small town where I don’t know many people. I probably won’t be going out much - it’s too cold. I’ll be at my place and trying to survive. There’s not much going on, and trying to make friends is going to be tough. I’ll be studying, working from home, and staying in most of the time. There won’t be many chances to go and introduce myself to people, let alone try to make lasting friendships and then start dating.

[menina]

Nope. I didn't find love this year and I'm 100% sure that I won't find it anytime soon. And I'm not being a pessimist, I'm being realistic.

So no, I'm pretty sure that I don't have a chance to find love in 2022.

[Guardian45]

Join The Club! Line up starts at the back of the line down there!

[menina]

@Guardian45 I'm already there and I'll be there for at least 3 or 4 years.

[katestar]

Um. Menina?

[katestar]

Are you her?

[menina]

@katestar What?

[katestar]

Are you Melina?

[menina]

@katestar Yes, my username is menina. Why?

[katestar]

A guy named William sent me to you.

[menina]

@katestar What? I don't know what you're talking about.

[katestar]

You blocked him. Why did you do that to him?

[menina]

@katestar I still don't know what you're talking about.

[katestar]

Don't deny it. You blocked him. Tell me why.

[menina]

@katestar I told you that I don't know what you're talking about.

[katestar]

Tell me the truth. All of it. Why did you block him?

[menina]

@katestar There's no truth to tell you because I don't know what you're talking about.

[katestar]

Because of William?

[menina]

@katestar I don't know who William is and I have nothing to tell you. I'm not going to reply you again.

[katestar]

Fine. If you don't tell me. Well. I'm sorry about that. You won't be able to. You mean girl.

[boredgal]

I doubt that. I’m a mess right now so I don’t wanna go and mess anyone’s life too. Working on fixing myself first emotionally, mentally and physically so I can love myself and give the love someone deserves ❤️

[Noahzaid]

Not this year or the year after,

maybe someday and that day may never come.

I have a lot of shit going on in my life, that’s hard for me to fall in love or someone falling in love with me.

[rachel776]

i sat down with a guy one night who was endlessly complaining about this and the next day by complete coincidence he met the girl he is now married to at the LA Flower Market

[lightbulb27]

yea we were married this year... hard to believe as seems like 10 years we've been so ative:) Really lucky to have my GAG girl!

@midnightmoon05