We've been dating for 6 months now. We already knew each other since our senior year of HS (we're both now 23). I knew he liked me for the longest.
Prior to dating me, my 2 friends and I made a dare for $100 about making him fall for me. I used to make fun of people falling in love and called so mushy, corny and ridiculous. Our last conversation slightly over a week ago was one of my friends asking if I felt something for him at least. My reply ''Me falling for him, with HIM? You're joking right? (Laughing) This is for the dare. Besides why would I love some romantic idiot with corny, overused phrases. Please. I'm only saying I love him for joke. He continues falling it it, lol.''
I had my own private moment after that. I don't want to admit it but yeah, I said this to mainly appear cool in front of them and everyone; plus that was part of the dare. I'm supposely a tough girl incapable of feeling those emotions. I used to make fun of romantic films too. So I wanted to appear strong, not let myself govern by emotions.
However, he's been acting cold and different just recently. He stood me up yesterday, had been giving me an attitude lately and wrote on his fb page ''It's sad that some people can't love.'' Then for some reason he asked me twice ''Do you really even love me? Some of your words are so corny after all''?
It's like he's talking just like me. Is it likely he accidentally stopped by to surprise me and overheard me? The thing is I what was suppose to be originally a dare has backfired but I had to appear tough in front of friend. Did he overheard me?
Well originally I was playing the game but as time went by, things become real and I didn't mean to say all that.
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Words spread like fire, so it’s possible he either overheard or one of your friends somehow let word of that bet make it to the grapevine.
Or, he could be upset about something entirely unrelated.
Ask him why he’s acting upset if you want to find out the truth.
Yes we'll meet on Sunday but I do suppose he knows it by now and I'm going to lose him. I've never felt like that over a guy before. I'm shocked.
I would not be surprised if he's figured it out for himself, but he may have heard about the 'dare' your and the 2 friends and made about making him fall for you.
If he has it will be a waste of time trying to talk your way out of it, you've played stupid games and now you are going to receive the out come, and do not be surprised when the truth is revealed to the whole of your friends group and wider.
I was used to playing games and being the girl that never falls in love, that never catches feelings. This backfired.. I've realized I caught feelings and he likely won't believe me anymore. If he overheard me, for sure he's not going to get over what he heard. I'm likely gonna lose him. I've never felt that way over a guy before. I wasn't suppose to catch feelings and now it's happening.
You are incredibly cruel and insensitive for doing this. Too bad you are anonymous or I would tell you what I really think,
He was part of the game in the beginning but I wasn't suppose to catch feeling for him. The thing is now this backfired. On these the past recent moment, when I expressed him my feelings this time it was for real.
The thing is he likely doesn't believe by now. He's acting more cold and distant now (hasn't returned my call) and just said we'll meet on Sunday. Now it's like I don't want to play anymore.
I would never play stupid games with people.
So I likely lost him for good? Is there a way to make it up to him or none?