Why is it such a requirement for so many men to have a partner who wants kids?

[Anonymous]

I'm 27. I'm someone who doesn't want to have kids. I have no maternal feelings. It's just not the life I want. That being said, I do very much want a long term partner. I have a good job, I'm loyal. I'm a good partner. But I'm learning at my age there's SO many men who want kids or are on the fence. Which either ends the relationship or is going to leave me with someone I'm afraid is just going to leave me in 5 years when they decide they do actually want someone to have their babies.

I'm not saying wanting a family isn't valid. It is. I'm just struggling with the fact I may not find someone that wants ME as a person. And not just me as their future baby incubator. It's wearing me down.

[DaveJord]

Yeah, dating is hard. Everyone thinks they know what they want, but what they want isn't always what they need.

I have two kids, can't say I ever wanted or didn't want kids. I guess I was an on the fence type guy. I had kids because my wife wanted kids. But if she didn't want kids that would of been fine to with me.

I love my kids, so I don't regret having kids... but I am just saying it was never an aspiration of mine. I just figured that at some point in life I would meet someone special. And marrying someone that made me happy was priority one to me. Then I just assumed she'd probably want kids, because that's what men and women do. But if she didn't want kids, then I probably still would if been good with it.

The thing about wanting or not wanting kids, is very, very, very few people have them and then regret, or are willing to admit that it was mistake. Or say that they wish they didn't have kids, later. But when you don't have kids, there's always an unanswered what if? At some point you get to an age where you look back and at least have to wonder.

With that said, do NOT have kids unless you're 100% certain you want them, and are completely committed to it. If you are not then it's a mistake you never want to make.

In end I picked the wrong women, I had my children with wrong person. I don't regret having kids, but I do regret having them with the person I chose to do it with.

[Datboi65]

It's selfish to tell your partner to not have an offspring of their own just so they can be with you. The best thing you can do is find you someone who doesn't want to have kids, so at least the two of you are on the same page.

The reason why most men want to have kids is because men care about lineage and legacy more than women do. Everything that we do, why we sacrifice ourselves in war to save the women and children. It makes sense. See, that gives us a purpose to live because without that, life is absolutely meaningless. I may be too young to talk about this, but I do think a lot about the responsibilities that I will have to take care of when I become a father, and I try to plan everything down to the finest of details. I believe that having children of your own is your gift to humanity, and it's also my way of making the world better by raising decent and competent children that want to make an impact.

Of course, I understand that not everyone thinks the same way, but you should know that if your parents had made that decision, you wouldn't be here today. To me, it's a blessing and a gift and kids are the only people that one can love unconditionally. I have cousins that are young enough to be my neices and nephews and I do absolutely anything to protect them, and to me I always knew that one day I wanted to have a family of my own. At the end of the day, to each their own and as long as you're happy, there's no problem but please make sure that you are not pressure anyone to give up having kids for you instead of finding someone who thinks exactly the same way.

[midnightmoon05]

Well said!!
Wish you meet a lovely woman to have a beautiful family with. Keep up that tradition/value. I wish more people like you continue to have big families.
Us 4 siblings gave my parents 8 grand kids so far. My sister wants one more…I kinda asked if she would consider 2…so we can have 10 ;)
We are losing out slowly to so many who are selfish and live in fear.

[Berethor]

If most people didn't keep up that tradition/value then humanity was cease to exist.

[midnightmoon05]

@Berethor it’s slowly happening in the western society

[Berethor]

@midnightmoon05 yea it also happen in japan, feminism is ruining many countries.

www.washingtonpost.com/.../

[Datboi65]

@midnightmoon05 Thanks a lot for your kind reply. Yes, I also have 4 siblings as well, but so far none of my siblings have kids (my oldest brother just turned 25). Unfortunately for me, I'm currently studying medicine which will mean that for the next few years I will need to focus on passing my board exams, but if everything goes to plan I will start looking by my late 20s/early 30s.

Glad to hear about your neices and nephews, make sure you spoil them well haha.

[midnightmoon05]

Good for you. You are on the right path to success. My doctor has 5 kids hehehe…. never too late when you are ready in you 30s. Good luck!! Keep us posted…in 15 years. I’ll be here…a little old lady by then.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Ugh, I understand what you're going through anon; I do. I don't like or want kids either, and make that clear upfront to any man interested in me- that way if the feeling isn't mutual, we're not wasting each other's time.

I suggest you do the same: when dating or looking for potential partners, make that known upfront: yes, it might seem early for some, and some people might disagree that discussing kids in the early stages of getting to know someone is WAY too early and unnecessary. But I rather tell them sooner than you start connecting with someone, only for him to want kids and you don't... then you're both disappointed.

There are men out there that feel the same and don't want kids- the hard part is just finding said guys.

[Haha456]

because you need to realize that men cannot have kids according to their own free will. Women control reproduction. Single women can have kids if she desires. A man cannot just have kids because he wants them.

So this is why its so important for them to find a woman who wants kids or is able to have kids. It's likely the same reason why men refer to "women who do not want children" with such contempt and disgust. Because they know they need a woman to make their wishes come true.

[Vegasrunner]

@haha456 what's she's learning the hard way is that men control relationships. Her not being able to have kids doesn't prohibit men from wanting to have sex w/ her ot prohibits them from committing to her bevause the only value women have is their ability to reproduce for men.

[Berethor]

@Vegasrunner main purpose of sex is to have kids, and why commit to a woman like that?

[Vegasrunner]

@Berethor Lol, that is certainly not the main purpose. Perhaps back in 1500's but if that was the case birth control and porn wouldn't be popular

[Berethor]

@Vegasrunner biologically it still is, and it why most men prefer to be with fertile women.

[Haha456]

@Berethor

[main purpose of sex is to have kids, and why commit to a woman like that?]

if the main purpose of sex is to have kids, wouldn't every non virgin on earth be parent?

nobody would be using birth control if the main purpose of sex is to have kids.

[Haha456]

@Vegasrunner

why would a woman base her worth on her ability to reproduce if she already has 3 kids?

Being able to reproduce as a single woman is better than hoping you can eventually reproduce one day as a single man.

[Berethor]

@Haha456 nowadays it subconscious, that's why most men prefer young women.

[Haha456]

@Berethor

most young women prefer young men too. Don't think we are more attracted to you when you start getting fat, wrinkly and losing your hair. Your dick starts to slowly malfunction as you enter your 40s too. Younger guys tend to have more stamina and better in bed. Not to mention better sperm too.

why do you think marriage data shows vast majority of young women are marrying men less than 10 years older?

[Haha456]

@Berethor

young guys tend to be more handsome and are stronger and faster than old guys. I like my guys strong and fast. Not some old man with hair loss and a bad knee.

[Berethor]

@Haha456 it fine that you like young men but a man can be a father at any age, women don't. Never said that men are immune to aging, but aging affect women more than men.

www.urbandictionary.com/define.php

[Haha456]

@Berethor

[Never said that men are immune to aging, but aging affect women more than men.]

A man's prime is in his late 20s to early 30s. Then it starts going downhill after 34. By 40, you've officially hit the wall. Some men hit the wall even earlier at 33. Just like women have a prime. Men have a prime too. So don't go around saying that your attractiveness will never affect you.

[it fine that you like young men but a man can be a father at any age, women don't.]

why would she care about having kids at any age when she can just pop out kids? if a woman can have kids by 30, why would she need to care about having kids at any age? SHE ALREADY HAS KIDS!!!

[Haha456]

@Berethor

Only men wait and wish they can become a father one day. If a woman truly wanted kids, SHE CAN HAVE KIDS!!! She does not need a husband or to wait or to wish or to hope. She would already have kids. She doesn't need the rest of her life to have kids.

[Berethor]

@Haha456 being single mom is not easy, and being with old woman is giving up on kids.

[Vegasrunner]

@Berethor I see what you're saying. Biologically I agree, howeverI believe you are incorrect w/ the second part. If that was true men would stop having sex w/ all women once they reached the age of 35. No man goes to a nightclub pays 10's of thousands spends 10's of thousands of dollars all in the hopes of getting a woman pregnant. In fact I've set in on the Rookie symposium where they tell NBA players about the risk of getting women pregnant so I think your assumption is factually wrong.

[Vegasrunner]

@Haga456 I'm not sure I understand the question. Who said anything about a women basing her worth on having 3 kids? Men can reproduce till the day they die, women have a short shelf life to so that doesn't make any logical sense.

[Berethor]

@Vegasrunner those NBA players don't go for old women, don't they? it's subconscious.

[Vegasrunner]

@Berethor They're NBA players the dont "go" for anyone but they dont select women based on their fertility. Not to be rude but are you from America?

[Berethor]

@Vegasrunner no I am not from America, and young women are fertile, it's how it is.

[Vegasrunner]

@Berethor Ok, now I understand the confusion. We have a cultural difference. Im America dont care about how fertile a women is in fact powerful men pay for abortioms all the time. Literally our Senate majority is going to come down to how much people care about the canidate paying for one of his mistresses to have an abortion. I can understand why you think this because in many countries outside of the western world fertility is valued, just not so much in America

[Berethor]

@Vegasrunner and not in japan, that's why japan is dying out, thanks to feminism.

www.washingtonpost.com/.../

[Haha456]

@Berethor

[being single mom is not easy, and being with old woman is giving up on kids.]

Being a single mom is better than a lonely single old man who never had kids because he could never find a wife. Only single men die alone. Single women dont have to die alone

[Haha456]

@Berethor

[those NBA players don't go for old women, don't they? it's subconscious.]

Young 18 yr old girls aren't all dating and marrying 40 yr old men right?

Well there ya go...

[Haha456]

@Vegasrunner

[If that was true men would stop having sex w/ all women once they reached the age of 35. ]

Men will always be more desperate than women at any age. Studies have shown that women are happier being single than men. Men are desperate. Why do you think there are significantly more men than women in online dating? Even at speed dating events, bars and clubs, there are more men than women. I can garuantee you a 45 yr old woman will always be in greater demand than a 45 yr old man any day.

Men need women but women do not need men.

[Haha456]

@Berethor

[no I am not from America, and young women are fertile, it's how it is]

You want fertile women because you can't have kids on your own.

A 50 yr old happy mother of 3 kids wouldn't care if you want a fertile woman. Why would she need ro be fertile? SHE ALREADY HAS A LOT OF KIDS!!! She doesn't need any more

[Berethor]

@Haha456 most men don't want anything to do with a 50 years old mother of 3.

[Haha456]

@Berethor

At some point in life when you can no longer get a sexy 21 yr old babe. When even a 35 yr old woman doesn't want you, you will need to go for a 50 yr old mother of 3.

[Haha456]

@Berethor

Its quite funny how you keep repeating to me how you only want a fertile woman.

Im having 3 kids by 40. If i already have 3 kids, i wouldn't care if you want a fertile woman or not. Cuz i already have my hands full with a lot of kids.

I dont need to sit there and hope i won't have to die alone like you. I already have a family

[Vegasrunner]

@Berethor Two different discussions. You speaking of obligations, what I'm saying is that in Western countries most men have sex for recreational purposes.

[Vegasrunner]

@Haha456 I think you are confusing need w/ want. If every women on earth disappeared tomorrow men would live out their existence just fine, because they built the world and control the infustructure. If men disappeared the world may last a day or two at the most. For dating purposes 20% of the guys get about 90% of the women which forces the other 80% to search for scraps on dating apps. Speed dating actually has more women they just had the clip a couple months were 0 men showed up to the speed dating event. TBH men probably have most value around 35 - 45 while nobody wants a 45yr old women. TBH if guys do the work then from age 35-50 is probably the easiest time to get women. My roster includes several late 20 and early 30 yr old women, while most single 40 yr old women I know are miserable. Not sure how old you are but if you're under 40 and believe you're going to have the same options once you reach that age you're going to be really disappointed.

[BlueScorpio]

Because they want a family in the future? Plus it's an internal instinct/ drive in most humans to procreate like any other species. It's survival response to keep your species and bloodline going. But anyway, just look for men who don't want children, there's plenty of them out there. You have to make it known and be upfront about it. If you're doing online dating, ibthink there are sites just for people like you and it will make it easier.

[Guy13]

Something here is not making sense. Where does this girl live? I’m here with the maledom holiday committee and the verdict is, “she ain’t right”. Only one ☝️ of five, that are Daddy age, want children. And, “can’t find a girl who doesn’t want to have a Baby since the Abortion bomb dropped.’
I got a question from the single Dad of the group, “No birthing pains…I come already prepared like an MRE…what’s your calendar like?”

[Telekinetic-Potato]

You're looking for someone incredibly rare. From meeting so many people, life has lead me to believe there are two types of people who don't want kids.

There's people who actually have great jobs, travel the world, have literally hundreds of friends and they spend all of their free time... I guess doing stuff, usually outside the house. They just want to squeeze as much out of life as possible.

And then there's the people who are just afraid, they have been lying to themselves, sometimes literally since they were small children. They hate the idea of dieing from childbirth, they are afraid of the idea of seeing a living person as more important then themselves. These people are usually depressed, low energy and have their entire world view built around convincing themselves that they don't want kids.

I'm not saying everyone or you are like this. But I am saying that I can't think of a guy who doesn't want kids that isn't either in the first category or is just a loser you probably wouldn't want to date.

The reason guys want families is because we don't want a wishy-washy lifestyle. We want to create stability. That's what marriage is for, that's what kids are for.

The problem with society now is that we all think we ere the most important person in the world. We think that being respectful, sacrificeing for others and putting the past behind us is for gullible fools. It's no longer seen as something that makes you a greater person.

[Berethor]

Yea people who don't want kids tend to be selfish, and it's also going against nature.

[SpokenTruth]

Wanting children was a HUGE part of my life. And as can be seen here by all despite the reputation given men by evil feminism and evil a evil society that follows evil, MEN LOVE CHILDREN you have acknowledged this fact.

Children were to be a HUGE part of life I missed out on due to feminism and the push to vilify men. Now men can't even go near the children due to a evil backwards society that has promoted the men are dangerous to children propaganda. I had so much to teach children, I can't either, I couldn't have my own, I can't adopt them, and I can't go near anybody else's children either, I deeply resent that too.

It's off topic bringing it up however a great opportunity, haven't you noticed child predators are always presented as men? It's because they have a agenda to separate men women and children the same ones that brought you feminism. And feminism has done a huge portion of their work aiding and abetting them well and I deeply resent them for all they have done.

But as you probably now know feminism is a lie it's brainwashing and it has brought society down to its knees. Feminism teaches women lies it teaches women the very opposite of how things actually work in life. Feminism has done serious damage to society even convincing women murdering children is good and having children is bad.

[Berethor]

Yea feminism is insane, childless women are ruining whole countries, like in japan.

www.washingtonpost.com/.../

[sassy_receptor]

well men are the #1 predators and abusers of straight, gay, and trans youth. the world is right to question men around children. men made it that way, not women.

[SpokenTruth]

@sassy_receptor Wrong. Women are just as bad as men at abusing children only better at not getting caught and nearly always get away with it even when they are caught. You are talking to a single men that took care of children during the 80's and 90's. You are also talking to someone who's close friend who was (a 14-15 year old male) got involved with a woman in her mid 30's. The authorities in town knew about them and so did everyone else him driving her vehicle with her under his arm. She got pregnant they had a child and split of soon after. What was her punishment for getting with him under age? She wasn't punished he was. He ended up having to pay child support as soon as he turned 18 years old not getting to see his child I'm sure. The moral of the story is your feminist teaching has lied to you vilified men and lied to you about the prevalence of male predators vs female predators. You will have to decipher the link, but go watch that video. youtube DOT com/watch? v=0H1EkSAmbHk

[sassy_receptor]

go on youtube and search up “predator catchers” and watch a couple videos and look through the videos dude. MEN are the ones constantly trying to meet up to rape and abuse kids. and you’re doing it to STRAIGHT GAY AND TRANS YOUTH at record high numbers. men are also the number viewers of loli age play and ddlg porn which are all kinks and fetishes that sexualize children. men should not be trusted around children at all without someone monitoring them extremely closely to make sure he does not harm the child. men are too dangerous to risk an innocent’s life like that.

[SpokenTruth]

@sassy_receptor Go watch the video I just gave you the link to dude. Just as MSNBC'S To Catch A Predator AKA To Catch Men Only, everything behind those videos you recommended are scripted with a agenda toward vilifying men. The video I just shared the link to has no scrip to it. Go watch it and get the truth or accept the brainwashing you have for forget about men just as men are forgetting about you.

[sassy_receptor]

ah so you’re choosing to be in denial because it doesn’t fit your narrative so you’re calling it propaganda? typical.

keep men away from children.

[SpokenTruth]

@sassy_receptor And women are the biggest murders of children millions of dead children since roe v wade. Keep women away from children.

And you and your feminism with your refusal of truth are the very reason men are turning away from women in masses world wide and will continue to do so, Well deserved.

Isaiah 4:1 In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!”

[sassy_receptor]

women are turning away from men and that’s why your gender is so angry and going to shit because women are better off without them. men are offing themselves at an all time high rate, not women. if anyone values children they know they need to keep said child away from men.

[SpokenTruth]

@sassy_receptor Of course women are turning away from men because men are telling them to go away and they have no choice but to turn themselves away from men that don't want them anymore. And I will say it again what you can't refute, WOMEN have murder literally millions of children in the US alone since roe v wade and the deaths are still mounting up now due to women willing to inject them. There is no bigger danger to children than women. But keep your propaganda going. You will be hated in the end, good job!

[sassy_receptor]

tell men to stop being the #1 predators of children and to stop molesting and raping straight gay and trans youth. if 96% of child abuse cases are by men why neglect the issue?

[SpokenTruth]

@sassy_receptor You refuse hearing the truth and the truth is men are the no 1 predators BECAUSE WOMEN get off scot free 99.9 percent of the time. And if women get off scot free then WOMEN are not accounted for as predators are they? And if there are as many women child sex offenders as there are men AND THERE ARE, then how is it that men made the no 1 spot on the child abuse cases. Start asking yourself that question and work your way toward the truth. The system only goes after MEN when it comes to child sexual abuse, NOT WOMEN. Do you get that? And men made that list too due to all the false allegations that are made against men in order to steal custody from men with the lawyers of women even advising women to make those claims to false accuse men, that's even on video too. Decipher those links.

bitchute (DOT) com/video/M-Dtcvqcjc8/

bitchute (DOT) com/video/8f28SfDMst0/

bitchute (DOT) com/video/qSEe--yGkq4/

[sassy_receptor]

imagine being 58 and still choosing to be delusional about common knowledge stuff. how embarrassing.

[SpokenTruth]

@sassy_receptor Oh you think I'm the one that's delusional? Imagine being 20 thinking you know more or better than someone who's 58. Now that, is delusional.

[sassy_receptor]

you’re a 58 year old loser lol. literally no one wants to be you. you’re the perfect example of what people shouldn’t be.

[Anonymous]

To the asker you are free to feel this way and not have kids. But you exist in this world because your parents wanted kids. I understand you might say, well my parents want A, B, C but I want X, Y, Z. Guys and men naturally want to start a family. You want the cold hard truth. Guys who sleep around do it to fill a void in their life. Many women nowadays want to sleep around as well or have an OnlyFans account. Many women just want the money from her career, the attention on her beauty and that's it. The family structure was something that many people (guys and girls) thought about as part of their future goals in life this can go back to the 80s, 90s, to mid 2000s. Now, people just want to be recognized through different outlets by strangers. Having a family is special. Girls say guys are assholes and cheaters. I know plenty of guys who are loyal but they will sleep around because girls aren't loyal these days either. These guys will tell me, "bro, I just want to find one girl and be happy with".

To any women reading this, if you say fuck marriage and fuck kids and that is 100% oppression. Mark my words, 20 years from now, 50 years from now, 100 years from now. I do believe women will want to be more modest and go back to wanting to have children and loving and nurturing. She can hold down a job. But the roots of this world today is to be narcissistic, worry about yourself, make money and that's it. This political/social/economic structure is a joke. Governments don't want people to be well-informed of the bullshit they produce and create, they want families to be broken and for traditional values to be eliminated. I get annoyed when girls lose their shit when guys like a girl with traditional values. To ladies reading this, us dudes don't mean just cook/clean, while some guys are like that, not all. Just like there are girls who want to be with a guy that commits acts of chivalry.

[Pegases]

The fact that you refer to a woman that wants to have kids as nothing more than a baby incubator is incredible. You have some healing to do. That's the real issue here. Once youve taken the time to heal from whatever truama you've experienced in the past, you'll find a partner that aligns with who you are, and what you want. You can not want something without devaluing those that do want it. That's the problem with feminism today. Women who do want to have kids, are constantly degraded by other women for it, as if reproduction isn't the genesis of the life you and I have today. Smh. Heal please, don't date until you have.

[Sasha0426]

Hold up. She not ONCE said anything about that. All she said was she just wants someone who also doesn’t want kids. She is not at all against women wanting kids nor did she say they were nothing but incubators. I have no idea where you got that from.

[Pegases]

@Sasha0426 "I'm just struggling with the fact I may not find someone that wants ME as a person. And not just me as their future baby incubator."

[Zayina]

Still don’t see where she said that you are putting words in her mouth

[Anonymous]

They might want YOU but if you don’t want kids and they do you’re just not an option no matter how much they’d like you. You really expect people to give up their dream and desire to have children to be with you? That’s delusional. People may fall for you but that’s such a deep dealbreaker they’d just have to get over you. You’re not that special that you’re worth giving up their life dream and goals for. Nobody is. Get over it. And them deciding not to be with you is not because they’re looking for ”an incubator” (wtf, your worldvoew is messed up as f) it’s because they’re looking for a compatible partner who they love for WHO SHE IS and want to share their life with, but who ALSO shares their dreams and longterm goals. It’s so messed up that you don’t get this. It’s like you deciding to be with a guy who wants to have 15 kids and give up your plans to be childfree for him and have said 15 kids because you love him for him. Sound reasonable?

[Berethor]

Yea, why he should prove his love and not she? she is the one who is not normal, not him.

[BlueScorpio]

Woah, back up and calm down. Read what she said cause you're jumping to conclusions. No where did she say she feels like people should stay with her even if she doesn't want kids. She's not demanding it she's just asking why it's a requirement and probably wants to how to meet a partner who is on the same path as her.

[Berethor]

Calling women incubators, and saying that he should love her without kids, yea sure.

[ThinkFitness23]

My partner wasn’t keen on children when we got together, it took about 7-8 years into our relationship for her to want kids.


This was less about our relationship and more about her changing/getting older. Now been together 10 years and and want for kids started about 2 years ago, we are 38 now no kids together I have 2 boys from a previous relationship.


Moral of the story you stance may change.


Men also naturally want to reproduce, this is why we are drawn boobs, bums, hips etc.


When I was younger hearing a woman didn’t want kids was a bit of a green flag lol

[Berethor]

Stance may change when she too old for that, well at least you already have 2 kids.

[ThinkFitness23]

She’s not too old at 38 nor is the asker?

[Berethor]

It hard to get pregnant and give birth at 38, why she is still not pregnant if she want kids?

[ThinkFitness23]

Women now days are having kids in their 40’s and 50’s, not ideal but possible…

Their are many reasons, I’m often away working in a different city, we would need a bigger home, the cost of childcare in London is ridiculous.

Having kids has many implications

[ManOnFire]

I get where you're coming from. I don't think I really want kids anymore either, but still open to a lifelong partner. I like kids and kids always like me, but I just feel like I don’t want to raise any in the kind of world we're living in now.

I honestly had no idea that so many men expect a woman to want kids. It always seems to be the other way around, that women want to settle down and have a family while a lot of guys just want to go around and sow their wild oats. But I definitely get where you’re coming from.

[Berethor]

Men who only want casual sex usually don't want kids, while men who want a relationship do.

[TonyMetal___86]

Oh really! And why did you chose not to have a baby? How can you love someone or want to have a family if you don't want to have any baby?
Anyways i understand what you're saying and it's your choice, at least your honest but be sure that a man who truly loves you will always love you with or without babies!
In the end, even if you have babies, you will end up both with each other again without kids, because only a husband and wife are together forever, kids will grow to have their own lives and families!

If a man wants a baby, it doesn't mean that he won't love you as a person!

[Berethor]

Husband and wife are together forever? not in most relationships nowadays.

[TonyMetal___86]

@Berethor true but i'm talking in general, she thinks that if a man wants a baby, it means he loves her because of the baby and she's just an incubator...

[Berethor]

@TonyMetal___86 it's feminist mindset, and children bind people more than marriage.

[Sour-rose]

It's what society wants and always have been. Man and woman must have children. MUST. :)

And if you don't... well you're a selfish bastard who doesn't want to share the pains of having a child and not engaging in the the pain of other parents. That makes you a bad person... in their eyes.

[DoctorSex]

It starts with our biology,

Men look after many sentient sperm, all independent. He literally sits on an empire.

Ye are all kings of an empire.

Im order to develop his empire, he needs an oven. That's the female.

For a man to not want kids is not impossible to imagine, however we biologically are inclined to materialize our empire.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[sassy_receptor]

*woman

not “female”

[DoctorSex]

@sassy_receptor I'm quite happy using the term female. He doesn't need a woman. He needs a female.

[sassy_receptor]

well i’ve corrected it for you :) it’s woman like i said. you’re welcome.

[Berethor]

If she don't want child then it's female/child, not woman, true women want children. :)

[sassy_receptor]

you’re not even a true man so you wouldn’t know

[DoctorSex]

@sassy_receptor I really couldn't care what you said. Woman is a societal construct. Female is more accurate. Find someone else to dominate, you've come to the wrong place.

[sassy_receptor]

then the word “man” is also a societal construct. use the word male then since you want to be accurate right? exactly

[DoctorSex]

@sassy_receptor that's my right to do so. I'll use what word when and how I choose to. Have a good day.

[sassy_receptor]

perfect response from a retard like yourself. anyways like i said previously it’s “women”. you’re dismissed!

[DoctorSex]

@sassy_receptor someone hurt you, they were clearly justified. Keep burning in hell. 🔥

[sassy_receptor]

nope you’re just a retard and i’m calling you out for how retarded you sound. you’re literally 34. you’re about to kick the bucket soon. worry about that lol.

[Malgaran]

I don't want children, so certainly exist men who don't, but I know what you mean. Seen it myself how crazy society and people are about everyone having babies. Most of them don't even have their crap together to even be a good parent. I think it's kinda sad and ironic, the people who should not have kids, have kids and people that should, don't.

Either way, you do you, you don't have to convert to any society "standard".

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Yeah, the irony is huge in this world. Not only in that example, but in the world in general.

[Malgaran]

@YourFavoriteFriend Yeah indeed, a word I use too much, but I see it everywhere.

[CubsterShura]

It's just that regardless of gender most people want children. And men want children more than women because they aren't the ones going through pregnancy and childbirth and postpartum physical and mental challenges and breastfeeding and toddlerhood... It's very easy to want children when you know someone else will take care of them for you.

Good luck in finding a child-free man. They are hard to find but they are out there.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

As someone who doesn't want children (tho I don't know about you but I'm willing to adopt), I feel you. Also shows that people don't really want you about YOU to begin with. I would suggest that you make this clear as soon as possible. Maybe even in the first date. Good luck!

[Phoenix98]

Because I want a family I want to leave something behind, a legacy I also don’t want my family name to die with me. I want to raise kids I want that joy and I could never be with someone who’d expect me to give up my desire and dream.

thats extremely manipulative.

[Berethor]

Yea having heritage is important, childless people don't pass the natural selection.

[NathanDavis]

if you see women as "baby incubators" that alone is going to give you more trouble than the fact that you personally don't want to start a family

that does bring all kinds of negative vibes and connotations

[Sasha0426]

Ok, I need one of you to point where she said women are incubators.

[NathanDavis]

@Sasha0426 okay... if you are going to play the "literal" game, I do got you

I never claimed that she SAID that women are incubators

to see and to say, are not the same thing

[NathanDavis]

@Sasha0426 it is just about the perceptions implied... reading between words for those

it is about the mindset sometimes

[Angelo75]

Well I've heard about women who at a later age would start getting an intense feeling to still have kids. Some of them even land in depression because now that they DO want kids, they don't have a partner who wants kids... or they have difficulties to have kids.

[Berethor]

My biological clock is ticking trope, last minute panic, yea it happen to many women.

[FilmGuy93]

Well, if the guy wants kids, dating who you are as a person is compromising on a really huge part of something that would make him happy in life. Going beyond whether you are a “baby incubator” for the guy, the fact you describe motherhood that way is kind of the whole point of why men aren’t interested in sacrificing their dream of having kids in order to be with you.

[Sasha0426]

Where in the hell did she say women are baby incubators? I like to know where y’all are seeing that in her post.

[FilmGuy93]

@Sasha0426 It's at the bottom of the second paragraph of her question details. She writes "And not just me as their future baby incubator. It's wearing me down."

[Sasha0426]

Yeah, I just saw it 🤦‍♀️

[BlueScorpio]

She doesn't want to be a baby incubator, that's not saying other women are. But I agree about reducing pregnancy and motherhood to that is terrible thinking. However I don't think she's trying to say that's what other women are.

[FilmGuy93]

@BlueScorpio she’s making the case that her capacity to carry children is what men care about more than who she is as a person. And what I’m trying to explain is that her comment says a lot about the rest of who she is a person. The men are rejecting her, precisely because of who she is as a person, not just her lack of desire for children

[annabananna]

Giving you having kids is a HUGE thing to expect of someone just to be with you. It makes sense that someone would want to be with someone that shared the desire to want kids. You just need to find someone that wants to share your lifestyle of being child free.