Why does the girl I like treat me as if I’m unworthy to be part of her life. Does she not know that it hurts?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

It not a matter if she knows or not, it's a matter of if she cares or not. SO obviously she does not care and is not sending any mixed signals about it. So, you should take note and move on. Last thing she wants or let me say the worst thing she could do, is give a guy hope when she knows that she should have none with her.

So, she's being honest and transparent... maybe she is being a little too mean about it. But the better question is why are tolerating it, or putting up with it? Move on man, cut her out of your life.

[Guy13]

She obviously does not care and probably wants you to move on.

[Jane1964]

Hi darling, not everyone can be for everyone. You just need to move on and find someone who you enjoy and who enjoys you as well.

[Agape93]

Why should she care? She doesn't want you in her life, naturally your feelings are not a concern.

[ShadezMcgee]

If she isn't toxic, you probably pedastalized her and come off as a pushover. She has no respect for you because you have enabled behavior that is detrimental to the way she treats you which has given her the perception that you are not worthy of respect or sexual value.

This is of course she is a well adjusted woman and not one with daddy issues or has no level morals and empathy.

[Anonymous]

Because she might believe you *are* unworthy to be in her life. She might know it hurts, but your feelings aren't her responsibility. Sometimes people won't like you and they don't have to like you. None of us are entitled to affection. That's life. My suggestion? Look elsewhere.

[Vegasrunner]

Lol. I'm going to give you a piece of advice that may save your dating career. Women do not care how much YOU like them it only matters that they like YOU.

[ShadezMcgee]

This, 100%. They don't give a fuck if you like them. They care how you make them feel. You either do it for them or you don't.

[Vegasrunner]

@ShadezMcgee Correct, fortunately for guys like us most men dont understandthis concept at all.

[User3191989]

I'm kind of in the same boat. I've liked this girl for ever. and she just doesn't seem to want me. I think she knows too. But, it's whatever. I guess I just like the attention

[CallmeTheKnight]

She don't want you dude. You know that and everyone else. it doesn't need to sink in. Leave her alone because you are unworthy for her at this point

[MysteriousDarkness]

Not everyone will treat you in a positive way. Some people don't realize they are hurting others and some enjoy hurting others.

[Twalli]

I don't think she cares. If she truly believes you don't deserve to be part of her life, your feelings on that matter don't matter to her.

[Cedman]

If the girl doesn't like you, then she is going to try to get rid of you. That is not nice but that is how it is.

[Tina19]

She doesn't care if you are hurt because of this

[jayhams]

People aren't obligated to care about you.

[Papabubbles]

Probably because she doesn't want to be.