Now we’re married and I’m pregnant, but I discovered infidelity of him back in the time when we were dating, what should I do? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2022-12-04T11:53:01Z

I met my boyfriend (at the time) online, i was in Brazil and he was in Miami, after talking for one month i decided to come here stay with him for 3 months, since i was doing home office. He was recently divorced and started talking with me as soon as he divorced, the ex wife cheated on him after 20 years of marriage. When i went back to Brazil after spending some time together, we decided, after 2 months apart, that i was going to quit my job and move in 100% with him. We got married and now I’m currently pregnant, but I discovered that at the time we were apart, when we were dating, he got back to dating apps and was talking with plenty of women, sending them money and videos saying he was developing feelings for them, days after i quit my job to move in with him. When i had my tickets in hand already, he open the door of our house to 2 stranger very vulgar women that he met in the lobby of our building claiming they didn’t have where to sleep and they were foreigners and poor, that he likes to help and he was already in a similar situation and nobody helped him, he said he never did anything with those ladies and didn’t have second intentions at all, he cried looking into my eyes and swore for the life of his mother and daughters. I checked his phone and there was a picture of one of the ladies laying in our bed in her back, fully dressed, but I thought it was really sensual. I talked with him, he said he was confused, and did that to make sure i was the one, because everything moved so fast. I knew he was the one, that’s why i took all the risks, this made me so frustrated, to know he was unsure of me when i was so sure about him. I was so safe in our relationship, but now I’m feeling really insecure, specially with the pregnancy hormones all over the place. We already talked about that… He said i’m going to damage our relationship for something silly if i keep reminding that, that he loves me, now we’re married and having a baby. What should i do about that?

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You need to have a discussion about this.

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Break up, abort and move on

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Talk with with about it.

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  How should i touch in the subject when he thinks I’m already over it?
  
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  Do you believe he changed and won't do that again?
  
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  Ok, but keep an eye on him.
  
  First and foremost. If you're pregnant - try not to get stressed too much. It's bad for you and your baby.
  
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  Thank you so much! ❤️
  
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Is it too late for ab0rtiom

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Get the truth and quit having sex until you do

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wait to see if it's over if not then get out asap

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