Should I be her 2nd option if I believe her relationship won't work?

[Anonymous]

She knows I love her though I didn't tell her and is trying to keep me in her life while being with her boyfriend. They broke up and got back together like 3 times in the past. Once she even had a new boyfriend before they broke up and she came back to this guy. She never mentions her boyfriend with me. If I think they won't last long should I stay as her 2nd option?

Updates

+1 y

She met her 2nd boyfriend and broke up with him before she met me

[inhua]

no you shouldn't. find someone else who is willing to have you as their 1st option.

this boyfriend of hers is clearly her 1st option. don't get it twisted. it won't be you. the evidence speaks for itself.

it is absolutely crucial for a woman to see you as her 1st option for a relationship to succeed. if she ain't your 1st option, well you'll just have to learn to love her somehow and make her your 1st option.

[Guy13]

That’s a risk. She probably won’t respect or trust you if break-up

[boggboss]

She won't pick you mare she found a northern guy one time when they broke up you are bot a option to her ur just a friend

[Asker]

She met and broke up with the 2nd guy before she met me. Sorry for the confusion

[boggboss]

I dont think that matters here tho all I'm seeing is her knowing u have feelings and u being emotional support 4 her

[melanieeeB]

Hell nooo! Leave. She will never choose you