Have I cheated if a guy kissed me unexpectedly and I pulled away?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and everything is amazing between us. However this weekend I went on a work Christmas party which didn’t finish til about 4am so one of my male colleagues walked me home. Once he’d walked me back he started asking me to go home with him to which I of course said no, but then he kissed me. I pulled away and then asked him to leave which he did. I told my boyfriend the day after straight away and he was absolutely fine with it. I just feel really awkward at work and I’m getting knots in my stomach about it. Do you think this counts as cheating?

[Lowiu]

No cheating is not the act of doing something but the descision to do something so because you didn't want to and didn't do the descision its not cheating

[karley55]

Not cheating because you refused and he still did it. If you feel uncomfortable at work just ignore him or ask him to apologize

[Lexi_87]

If you pulled away then no

[goaded]

Of course not. @Lowiu has it right.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No. You didn't want to do that.

[Nomina]

No, you didn't.