Because the more agreeable you are the more likely you are to make sacrifices without compensation. You have to differ being nice from simply being polite. Even shitty people who think less of others and never would make on effort for anyone elses sake could very well appear nice but is just being polite.
Also, people who have been nice very often find that nothing good ever comes their way from overexcerting themselves for others and become bitter instead before they start to actually achieve anything. The truly nice people who think of other before themselves always... They never finish.
Nice and pleasant people, no. I have seen it with my own two eyes.
When you are respectful and a pleasant and kind person most people will like you a lot and willing to look out for you and bless you, rather if you are a b*&$# and jerk to them.
Now, being a push over in this life will definitely screw you over in the long run because people are inherently selfish and most will look to exploit you.
Yup they fuckin do. The only time anyone dates a nice person is when they fucked all the hot people they are old and ugly and. now they need to settle for someone with their shit together. They wanna be taken care of.
This shouldn't be true, but unfortunately it usually is :| Not always, but more often than not.
I remember a guy telling me in college I'm the type of girl guys go to when they're ready to "settle down" aka, the nice girl. Which yes, should be a compliment, but it's also a backhanded insultt because it implies they rather be wild and have fun before dating someone that's decent and good for them.
You can google nice guys finish last trope, it explains nicely there. People who whine about that are usually not really nice, myself I prefer to follow the a knight in sour armor trope.
As recently she broke up with me i was too nice to her that she became to rude to me and i was just a option for her not important to her. The power changes , if I'm good to her that doesn't mean that everything bad she does is oki to me , i really had a bad experience with her , at last when I removed my glasses of love to know what's happening with me actually, then i realised it's not love and when I confronted this things with her the person who we share things she broke up things within a week So from my experience it's yes decent guys finish last.
among other things, I am nice and I am kind... but I am also, at least two dozens of other good and great things... and all of those combined have made me come up first at many things, many times...
"nice people always finish last" is just a simplistic expression and it is about being cynical, self-defeating and into sabotage
I am neither of those myself... those usually make you quit or not even try, which is even worse than finishing last
Cuhz the majority of humans suck and take advantage of each other , you give someone a foot they take a mile... But personally i don't care when i finish! as long as i do.. You can have your 1st place trophy, im happy with just my piece off mind
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Nice girls don't finish late. Although I don't like the term "nice". Good girls have more options than good guys at least in their 20s. In the '20s both good and bad girls only liked bad guys. Bad girls like as they share similar interests and good girls wanna date them to change them.
Now women start looking for good guys in their 30s but most good guys tend to change themselves by then after being alone and treated badly by the opposite gender. Even if you are a good guy being alone for such long is hard, I don't blame those guys.
No. I don't agree if we take this literally. Actual nice people get rewarded. The bitter ones or the ones who expect something in return everytime get left behind, and those are the ones who finish last.
Because it seems you have to step on or over people and not care who gets in the way to get ahead in this world unfortunately, so being nice doesn’t really get you anywhere, I haven’t met or seen any nice successful people
In Western society, absolutely! Because we're an incentivized culture. We don't incentivized morals, values and work ethic. That's crapped on now, BIG TIME.😂😂
I think there's some truth to the idea that nice guys often aren't as successful in their relationships with women, and they probably don't have sex as much as other guys.
I'm 29 years of age and am still single since puberty! Haven't had a relationship and don't know how it feels to be in one. Would love to be in a relationship but all these years I have facer nothing but rejection! 😆
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Because the more agreeable you are the more likely you are to make sacrifices without compensation. You have to differ being nice from simply being polite. Even shitty people who think less of others and never would make on effort for anyone elses sake could very well appear nice but is just being polite.
Also, people who have been nice very often find that nothing good ever comes their way from overexcerting themselves for others and become bitter instead before they start to actually achieve anything. The truly nice people who think of other before themselves always... They never finish.
Nice and pleasant people, no. I have seen it with my own two eyes.
When you are respectful and a pleasant and kind person most people will like you a lot and willing to look out for you and bless you, rather if you are a b*&$# and jerk to them.
Now, being a push over in this life will definitely screw you over in the long run because people are inherently selfish and most will look to exploit you.
Yup they fuckin do. The only time anyone dates a nice person is when they fucked all the hot people they are old and ugly and. now they need to settle for someone with their shit together. They wanna be taken care of.
This shouldn't be true, but unfortunately it usually is :|
Not always, but more often than not.
I remember a guy telling me in college I'm the type of girl guys go to when they're ready to "settle down" aka, the nice girl. Which yes, should be a compliment, but it's also a backhanded insultt because it implies they rather be wild and have fun before dating someone that's decent and good for them.
Hey! I screw you and forget about you!
You can google nice guys finish last trope, it explains nicely there. People who whine about that are usually not really nice, myself I prefer to follow the a knight in sour armor trope.
As recently she broke up with me i was too nice to her that she became to rude to me and i was just a option for her not important to her. The power changes , if I'm good to her that doesn't mean that everything bad she does is oki to me , i really had a bad experience with her , at last when I removed my glasses of love to know what's happening with me actually, then i realised it's not love and when I confronted this things with her the person who we share things she broke up things within a week
So from my experience it's yes decent guys finish last.
among other things, I am nice and I am kind... but I am also, at least two dozens of other good and great things... and all of those combined have made me come up first at many things, many times...
"nice people always finish last" is just a simplistic expression and it is about being cynical, self-defeating and into sabotage
I am neither of those myself... those usually make you quit or not even try, which is even worse than finishing last
Cuhz the majority of humans suck and take advantage of each other , you give someone a foot they take a mile... But personally i don't care when i finish! as long as i do.. You can have your 1st place trophy, im happy with just my piece off mind
Nice girls don't finish late. Although I don't like the term "nice". Good girls have more options than good guys at least in their 20s. In the '20s both good and bad girls only liked bad guys. Bad girls like as they share similar interests and good girls wanna date them to change them.
Now women start looking for good guys in their 30s but most good guys tend to change themselves by then after being alone and treated badly by the opposite gender. Even if you are a good guy being alone for such long is hard, I don't blame those guys.
No. I don't agree if we take this literally. Actual nice people get rewarded. The bitter ones or the ones who expect something in return everytime get left behind, and those are the ones who finish last.
Because it seems you have to step on or over people and not care who gets in the way to get ahead in this world unfortunately, so being nice doesn’t really get you anywhere, I haven’t met or seen any nice successful people
From my experience, Im often picking up what other people have used and abused.
Me too man, me too. It really makes you wonder why bother sometimes, lol
No, they don't. I work with a lot of nice people who are doing very well.
Buy a truck and find out how many new friends you've made that want you to help them haul shit.
In Western society, absolutely! Because we're an incentivized culture. We don't incentivized morals, values and work ethic. That's crapped on now, BIG TIME.😂😂
I think there's some truth to the idea that nice guys often aren't as successful in their relationships with women, and they probably don't have sex as much as other guys.
You get to live with what they don't, a clean conscience.
No. Mean people often bully and intimidate others to let them finish last.
Yes, that is usually true. People usually take advantage.
I'm 29 years of age and am still single since puberty! Haven't had a relationship and don't know how it feels to be in one. Would love to be in a relationship but all these years I have facer nothing but rejection! 😆
It's a jungle out there... Most nice people be a target yes... Depends on how they handle it...