How much space should I give him and does it seem like he is not interested in friendship?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy and we had a once off friends with benefits fling. It didn’t really go to plan and he was embarrassed. I wasn’t going to contact him after that but he seemed like a really nice guy and I have a lot in common with him.
He replied to my texts a few times after but then said I’m sorry for now I’m not available with friends with benefits but happy to chat as fiends. How can I make him comfortable to know I’m not judgmental and think he is a great guy? How much space should I give him or does it seem like he isn’t interested in friendship?

[Guy13]

You could reply that simply friends is good for you. And then go right into conversation about life. Tell him what you have been up too and ask him about his life. Tell him about your plans or something you are doing. There are plenty of friendship like things to do and talk about.

[kylee2437]

I would just let go of the idea. Seems like maybe he just didn’t enjoy it more so than being embarrassed

[AndrewHeavey]

I am a scholar and am going to need some more info. Why was he embarrassed. Does he have a small penis