It seems as though it is acceptable for women to look cute/girlish. But unacceptable for men to look cute/boyish. Yet alone act lol. Am I right/wrong?

[Anonymous]

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By "unacceptable" I meant "unattractive". Is it still just as attractive for men to look cute/boyish as it is for women to look cute/girlish?

[Rosexøxø]

I personally like cute boys, but if they’re bratty…

then that’s just a little boy. Not too fond of immature boys and girls. I do tolerate.

So it’s really no issue for people to be themselves and strive for better.

[Rosexøxø]

Right for society
Wrong for me

I voted wrong

[Asker]

So by "society" you mean most women like the stereotypically tall, manly, strong look? I don't know. They might even like all types of guys, but are too insecure to be seen in public with a short, cute, boyish looking male lol.

[Ghostykill3r]

Yeah, not sure why that is exactly, but women acting "childish" is much more acceptable than men. It's the same with intimacy, women can be physically and emotionally intimate with their friends, but it's seen weird if men are with their friends.

[Asker]

In many ways I'm happy life is short. Life is short for a reason lol. We have to try to keep our heads up and accept certain realities and be grateful for the good.

[In_Trance]

The reality is, you can do whatever you want. Nobody gives a shit

[Asker]

You sound upset at something. Are you referring to something negative in society? Or something you think is wrong with society? I feel that way too.

[bkcutie11]

Unfortunately it's kinda of a gross realization that men like girls where as most women of a certain age are attracted to men their own age

[Asker]

Yes the reality is that women find men of all types "physically" attractive. Whether they admit it or not. Just like men do.

There's this other idea I've heard, that the average guy is less attractive than the average girl. Probably due to the opportunity available to women with the makeup, expressions, fashion, etc. Something men can't get away with lol 😢

[bkcutie11]

I wouldn't date someone if I thought they were 18 or younger. I don't find it attractive. They look like children snd I don't find children attractive. Your correct in the sense women don't find men as attractive women. I don't it has anything to do with makeup. Also that doesn't I date the hottest guy I can get because he's the hottest. Personality is way more important

[Asker]

I never said that to be the case. I really believe women find just as many men attractive as vice versa. It's just that many women are reluctant to admit for some reason. Especially on this site. Probably a power game.

Many women I've met especially overseas find many men and boys attractive.

[AmyHew1tt]

The thing is, there's a difference between being cute/boyish and being immature.

[Rosexøxø]

Yes.. well said…

[Asker]

Yes I think immaturity is far more despised in men than in women. Men are in a leadership role and much is expected of them. They are raised to higher standards and this we should be proud.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

You talking about normal stuff right? No femboy Torosaurus sh*t?

[Asker]

Yes normal stuff. And what's a femboy?

[Dinosaursandanime65]

A boy who thinks he’s a girl. Basically a FFF

[Dinosaursandanime65]

They kind of originate from anime, in there they’re basically super flat girls with a Pingas. An absolute disgrace, especially in the Thicc Kingdom

[Asker]

That's different yes. I was referring to "boyish". And I think it's sexist how boyish and soft can be perceived by society as "feminine". But no one calls any woman "masculine"

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Yeah, that’s very reasonable.