He should work out, dress and eat well.
What if she should too?
"It's hot when a man is fit"
No misandry 🤐
"It's hot when a woman is fit"
Misogynyyyyyyyyyyy 😡
He should work out, dress and eat well.
What if she should too?
"It's hot when a man is fit"
No misandry 🤐
"It's hot when a woman is fit"
Misogynyyyyyyyyyyy 😡
Is it misogyny to say that about women? I don't think so. See inorder to answer this question I have to accept the premise that its not okay to say women should work out and be healthy and take care of their appearance.
So here's the real truth, genetics and natural looks play a huge part. Honestly, if you are a natural beauty then you can get by until time and age catch up to you.
If you're an average looking person, healthy lifestyle and fitness can really up your physical attractiveness. Even if your not naturally blessed.
If you're ugly, with a tight body because you work out and really put effort into looking your best... you'll be fine.
If you want to act like you don't give a shit, get fat, lazy and do nothing and then pretend everyone should still love you for who you are... well you can self identify as a super model, but if you don't look it then you ain't.
Nobody will tell you that you're fat and ugly, and they will pretend it's all about what's on the inside... but they are just being polite because everyone knows you don't call a fat ugly person, fat or ugly. Its just not nice.
But regardless if you a natural beauty, ugly or fat... there's never anything wrong with telling someone that they could put out more effort... be it in the gym, combing your hair differently, or just exercising and diet. Recommending healthy lifestyle choices is just good advice. If they want get all bent out of shape over it, we'll fuck'em. They know what and who they are and want to be.
Hypocrisy & entitlement
That's literally all it is. This is a big thing why so many men choose to opt-out of dating or dealing with women in their daily lives. We have created a society where feminism has made sure that women are raised arrogantly and that they should get all the good in life without having to work for it. For no other reason than because they are born with a vagina. This is why often you find in-shape, hardworking women with traditional family values stay away from the feminist ideology.
Thankfully, not all women are like this of course, but a handful are. You'll find them most especially in feminist and liberal spaces.
The only good thing these women do: Is make me appreciate my girlfriend more. Because the is exactly the opposite of what they are.
Thats literally the same thing if its about men or women. "he/she SHOULD work out" thats something a doctor could say to you when its unhealthy or close friends. Other than that dont tell people what they should do with their life.
Second: "I think its hot when he/she is fit" thats personal taste and is completly fine in both cases. Just dont call out every women or men, that they look sexy because they work out, Thats catcalling. Some may like it but for others its just weird and they could feel sexualised.
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It’s so nice to see a woman say that. It’s true, women can put all the standards they want on men and it’s totally okay in societies eyes, but once a guy says that he won’t date a fat women, or ugly women, everyone loses their fucking mind. Or it’s okay for a woman to say a man’s penis is small, but as soon as you say a woman is fat, it’s a horrible thing.
It is because of the American feminist society, full of beta men, women are more offended when they are judged by their appearance because they know that their value depends solely on their beauty and youth. In my country I judge the appearance of women on a daily basis and I practice body shaming at my university and I have not had any negative repercussions.
It's not misogyny to say a woman looks hot when she's fit. That's a preference and it's fine.
The problem however is that the guys who are misogynistic will often reduce to the woman just her looks while also having unrealistic expectations.
Additionally, having a preference is fine, the only problem is when you intentionally act rude or demean people who don't fall under that category.
Hypergamy, many women think that they deserve a man that is way above their league.
Because women are considered a minority group. You can't criticize minority groups without it coming off as being a bully. That's just the way it is. And it's night bad. Because might should not make right. This how the playing field is leveled so to speak.
Women should always maintain their appearance. Men should try too. It’s not complicated. 🤷🏻♂️
Everyone should take care of their looks and health, and not get upset when someone suggests that to them... it's a sign of caring.
If woman is fit really really attractive and sexy to me.
My girlfriend always keep maintain her body and looks and gym is her religious duty as well as swimming once a week.
Never heard that ish in my life.
No rational person thinks is misogynistic for someone to take care of their appearance.
Exactly
Huh? LOL Who claims that saying "it's hot when a woman is fit" makes a man a misogynist? Nonsense. LOL
That's not an answer, and ALL bodies are functional, but they're certainly NOT all beautiful to look at. LOL Don't pretend they are.
So... it's "feminists" who say that "if a man says it's hot when a woman is fit, he's a misogynist", but the SAME feminists do NOT say the reverse about men?
And do you think you should be told by men that "you're too fat, you need to work out"?
You didn't answer the question. Is it ok for a man to say to a woman, "I would want to date you, but you're too fat, you need to work out"?
Answer the question> IS IT OK for a man to say to a woman, "I would want to date you, but you're too fat, you need to work out"? Is that ok, or is that misogyny?
No, but it is fucking rude.
I've seen plenty of feminists and insecure girls claim this. Because they strongly belief in the notion that men should find ALL women in ALL their shapes attractive, even the overweight ones. Otherwise these men are "misogynistic" and "fat shaming". So when you say that you want a woman who is in shape, they see that as a standard coming from the "patriarchy". And any woman who shares the sentiment of staying fit is also speaking from the "patriarchy".
The only nonsense is their illogical thinking that having a preference for a woman's appearance makes a man "misogynistic". In reality, that's just their inferiority complex screaming because they feel inadequate as they don't have the drive to stay in shape themselves.
And yes, while they scream "misogyny" when a man wants a fit/hot woman, they don't believe its misandry when they feel the same thing for wanting a man. So in other words, they want to have their cake and eat it too. This is one of many reasons why so many people (including women) cannot take feminists seriously nowadays. Way too much hypocrisy and double standards.
@TruthBringer I agree with this. I will also add that women do NOT understand the difference between "fat shaming" or "skinny shaming" and a man's preference.
And who's issue is that? It's hers, not the man, and if she's fat and insecure about it, then she's feeling her OWN shame and she herself doesn't feel attractive. Why should a man feel any different towards her?
@loveslongnails You're not getting the point. The point is that even though if the overweight woman is insecure in her own body, she falsely accuse other people for "fat shaming" simply because they are not attracted to her due to her weight. So in other words, she shames people for not feeling attracted to her. This stems not only from insecurity, but misplaced entitlement that the world owes her something no matter how bad her lifestyle choices are. For no other reason than her being a woman. That's why the "body positivity" movement has gotten out of hand.
Nobody is entitled to other people's feeling of attraction. The sad thing is, there are so many of these women out there, who are like "how dare you not feeling attracted to my fat rolls!" (not literally but that's what it comes down to) instead of accepting that their weight places a role in people not feeling attracted, and actually do something about it. Instead of actively working on their insecurities (going to the gym for example), they demand the world bends over backwards and applauds them for their bad lifestyle choices.
@TruthBringer I completely get that point. In fact, that was my point. LOL
@loveslongnails My bad, I misread a line. Good we're on the same page. Sadly, too many people nowadays are out there who need an actual explanation. An explanation of common sense, sadly.
@TruthBringer LOL no worries, mate.
I believe that thought is shared by a very small yet very outspoken minority of society. Most girls I've met are not like that
Because the fat , ugly feminists are in the drivers seat and we are going over a cliff.
It's ok for either one to be said. if they are offended, that's on them.
Because women are a protected class and easily offended.
Agreed
Is it? I like my women looking good, no shame there.
Good point.
You are wise.
never heard this stuff to be honest...
3 words
body positivity movement
Hypocrisy and double standards.
That is not OK at all.
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