He said that either of us might go to another country for higher education so we don't have a future together because he doesn't want long distance relationship. But we really like each other. He also said he doesn't know what he is looking for. He is my first boyfriend so I really want this to work but I want long term relationnship I don't know what to do
You should politely say, "thank you for your honesty and candor. I will always respect you for it. I accept your assessment." And then, I would Block and Ghost him.
I also would make him live up to his word by the no contact rule WHEN his back-up Plan eventually falls through and he comes back with apologies seeking your "attention". He is likely planning Valentine's Day with another. He is likely not a quality boyfriend. This is from my experience as a male and having lots of stud-muffin magazine looking friends. Hold him to his words !!!
He doesn't know what he wants? Yet he thinks he will move to another city? Like what? Maybe you should end if and move on. Find a better man for you , and who has your values.
He's already not placing you as a priority. He's choosing the other country and his freedom, his own needs and time over you. What more explanation do you need?
Don't waste your time and years into a long-term relationship. Dating for years isn't to our advantage. You don't want to be dating forever.
Girl, those words alone are enough to convince me that he just broke up with you.
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Well he already told you he doesn't love you by saying he would prioritize leaving the country over keeping you, so just dump him and date a better guy.
u Nothing u can do if he is making that statement
Find another boyfriend.
Listen to him
