I love my boyfriend but can't see a future with him?

[Anonymous]

Everything is fine except I can't see a future with him. With my ex I could and with people before but with him I see nothing. It worries because I do like him. Should I just let my worry go?

Worry

Dont

:x

[ccp16]

That is not love then... I know the feeling of love and seeing my future with someone, hell me and ex had it all planned out even. But I recently broke up with a girl who I never once saw being with for more than a year or two... I could not explain why, she was very attractive, smart, funny, we clicked instantly and never stopped being great together. But for whatever reason, I just knew it was not meant to be... sometimes you can't use words to explain it...

[Anonymous]

I suppose it depends on how long you have been together, but your inability to see a future together is a huge issue. Unless you barely started this relationship and are just getting to know each other, you're wasting his time -- and yours -- by staying with him. You're looking for the guy who makes you feel so in love that you start naming the kids you're going to have together. This isn't the guy.

[Ezzzza]

I wouldn't worry it looks like you're 18-24 and who in that age range is looking for marriage? Dating in at this age should be a fun adventure not a race against the clock to get a husband and think about a mortgage with him

[Anonymous]

You are just in love with the thought of being in love. Obviously you had no future with your exes because if you saw it then you would still be with him. Learn from your past failed relationships

[Sara413]

How long have you been dating? Honestly, if you can't see a future together, you've got to ask yourself what the point is in dating him further...

[Anonymous]

This is random... but would you ever go back to your ex? you said you could see having a future with him.. I'm not sure why you guys broke up

[Asker]

No I wouldn't. I can see us growing old but he fucked me up beyond bad.

[Opinion Owner]

Damn, so it was a bad reason... I have a random question.. say if you broke up with a guy because he was getting too needy/clingy.. Would you consider giving him another chance in the future?

[Asker]

You didn't answer my question so I am not answering yours.

[Anonymous]

what a silly generic question. explain the situation properly first and then you'll get your answers. what does "i dont see a future with him" consist of? also why you could with your exes?

[R3d_Anonymous]

Why don't you see a future with him?

[Anonymous]

You'd be settling if you stayed