Most people use ultimatums to get their way or to take control over someone , example if you don’t do what I tell you , I will leave you , I won’t give you sex until you do the chores like I told you to do? My ex use to pull this shit with me , that’s why she is my ex. Most people get confused with Ultimatums with Boundaries , A Boundary is something that is agreed upon with both partners an Ultimatum is a manipulative control tactic , So if your partner gives you an Ultimatum how do you respond? My advice is to leave them because when someone actually loves you they don’t give you Ultimatums , They are giving you Ultimatums because they are either screwing someone else or planning on screwing someone else, they are to much of a coward to be honest with you, they are trying to play victim , Don’t fall for this nonsense in your relationship , walk away from them and tell them to Go fuck themselves. When someone can point fingers at you before pointing fingers at themselves they are a toxic person that needs mental help , they see no wrong on their doing they only see what is best for them. Again how do you handle Ultimatums?
Do you tolerate Ultimatums in a relationship?
