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He chose his career over me- career not even in process? I don't understand him at all?

My boyfriend and I have been through a lot and I mean a lot for the last 3 years (we been together for three years). Recently my boyfriend told me he will be doing a alcohol selling business (I wasn't asked, I was told). Now he wanted to take the business under my name with half of my financial support so a discussion with me should have been something to consider. I told him I will not be supporting him with selling alcohol as I work for harm reduction I prevent alcohol use not promote it (just my pov) and cor religious purposes. I will support him with any other business. He knew my beliefs since beginning and did not think about me once. Yet he talks about marriage & what not. Once I told him I will not be supporting him he said it was his dream since the beginning. I asked him why he didn't tell me in the beginning before I got close to him, if he did we would have chosen other paths. I've fought for this man with my family. I've given all my effort & respect only to feel unwanted and disrespected. When I told him I won't support him he I can leave then. Which I did. He chose his so called dream over me! I'm so hurt cuz everytime I told him I don't like something he said im controlling him. I mean this for everything cuz I believe we have likes & dislikes and we should be able to feel comfortable to open up & compromise. I do the same for him. He always put himself. Eveytime i ask him to compromise he tells me he's gonna do what he wants and if i want to leave i can. So i did. He left me for his so called business which isn't even in process right now. He doesn't have the money or credit score for it, he was relying on me. Yet he didn't even discuss it with me! I have no importance in his life so i stepped back. . I can't make sense I guess I'm venting but whats ur thoughts? Could it be a way to get rid of me? He even removed our pic from his room & when I expressed im hurt he didn't acknowledge it. He said he didn't feel like it. Yet he talks about marriage?
He chose his career over me- career not even in process? I don't understand him at all?
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