My boyfriend and I have been through a lot and I mean a lot for the last 3 years (we been together for three years). Recently my boyfriend told me he will be doing a alcohol selling business (I wasn't asked, I was told). Now he wanted to take the business under my name with half of my financial support so a discussion with me should have been something to consider. I told him I will not be supporting him with selling alcohol as I work for harm reduction I prevent alcohol use not promote it (just my pov) and cor religious purposes. I will support him with any other business. He knew my beliefs since beginning and did not think about me once. Yet he talks about marriage & what not. Once I told him I will not be supporting him he said it was his dream since the beginning. I asked him why he didn't tell me in the beginning before I got close to him, if he did we would have chosen other paths. I've fought for this man with my family. I've given all my effort & respect only to feel unwanted and disrespected. When I told him I won't support him he I can leave then. Which I did. He chose his so called dream over me! I'm so hurt cuz everytime I told him I don't like something he said im controlling him. I mean this for everything cuz I believe we have likes & dislikes and we should be able to feel comfortable to open up & compromise. I do the same for him. He always put himself. Eveytime i ask him to compromise he tells me he's gonna do what he wants and if i want to leave i can. So i did. He left me for his so called business which isn't even in process right now. He doesn't have the money or credit score for it, he was relying on me. Yet he didn't even discuss it with me! I have no importance in his life so i stepped back. . I can't make sense I guess I'm venting but whats ur thoughts? Could it be a way to get rid of me? He even removed our pic from his room & when I expressed im hurt he didn't acknowledge it. He said he didn't feel like it. Yet he talks about marriage?
He chose his career over me- career not even in process? I don't understand him at all?
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You're responses to his questions made it seem like you were probably indifferent about the relationship so he pulled the anchor and left rather than drag it.
What do you mean?
Your answers probably sounded unsure and didn't come off supportive so he figured probably to just cut his losses and go.
Most likely because I told him I will help with another business and he can get it under my name. But I will not support this type of business. So yeah ur right
Well that then just makes you competition.
I left my parents cuz they wouldn't accept our relationship and he left me for his career- I don't want anything in return for that but how easy was it for him to leave.. I thought we really were meant to be
Thanks for ur insight I appreciate it