How could I return to my old life?

[Anonymous]

I was in a 7 year relationship.. he left me on our wedding for another girl younger it has been 8 months ago

.. i am 30 .. i am a doctor.. I lost passion in life
I could no longer leave my house
I feel safe here
And I feel very afraid when I go out
My attachment to my family and my fear of losing them increased
I want to practice my profession, but I can no longer do it. I am wasting my life !

[Guy13]

Sometimes, one has to let go of the past and get on living in the present

[Anonymous]

This is why you should never give your entire life over to another person, but everyone does in pursuit of this romantic vision that's only in the movies. You are in control of your life and no one else.

[ShiftingMonke]

What exactly are you afraid of? By leaving the house, I mean. What are you risking by doing so?

[Asker]

I feel broken and weak in front of people
I no longer trust anyone

[ShiftingMonke]

Okay.. and you've got every reason to feel broken. But not everyone knows what happened, and even fewer will judge you for it. A lot of people can relate to your loss in one way or another and almost no one will judge you harshly for it. You might even find some folks to be supportive and helpful in this. You'll never know if you stay locked away from the world.

[Zandoval]

Focus on what you can do for now. You don't have to trust people until you feel comfortable again. Just know everyone is not like that dude.

[riverrat3]

Do you need someone to talk with

[boggboss]

Have u tried therapy

[In_Trance]

you can't