Ladies: Does the new trend of a "Strong independent man who doesn't need a woman" have the same validity as a "Strong independent woman who doesn't need a man?

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Datboi65 · Accepted Answer

Sissifed, bitch-made beta male. That's what I think of anyone who says some dumb shit like that. Men aren't supposed to parrot the same bs that women say, we ACT upon what we believe. If you have reached a conclusion that dating just doesn't work for you, then give up on it and do not turn back. There's no need to let everyone know your intentions, it's just a waste of time. It's like you're trying to prove a point when others don't really care what you want to do with your life.

Now don't get me wrong, I believe feminism is a huge problem. However, talking about it and being petty won't solve anything, if you really want to get to the core of the problem like I had mentioned in another answer tuen goddammit we all have to DO MORE and TALK LESS. The only way you can do something is if you change these laws, and the only way you can change these laws is if you leave the women alone and focus on them rich dudes wearing suits promoting this bullshit, because feminism cannot exist without powerful men allowing it to happen. If you learn how to lobby your vote to those who look serious, or even run for office if you have to and put that at the forefront of your agenda, then you would be contributing to the solution and not the problem but you need to be prepared for all the "isms" and cancelation attempts that will be thrown your way in the process.

Feminism is a thing because it's profitable. Which is better for business, one income or two? Women are the biggest consumers in society, so the businesses and politicians (women are also more likely to vote) wanna make sure to keep it even if that comes at the detriment of families. Men are naturally more frugal than women. If you want to dismantle the whole system, you will have to figure out how to work with it to your advantage (get men to spend more so we are seen as more of a target) or walk away from it entirely and build a new one. What I learned is that in an open market society there are absolutely no rules and anything goes as long as it's profitable. They fund wars overseas and make the money back from selling weapons. They make billions from the pharmaceutical industry, and they even got on the business of making private prisons. Hell, if cannibalism became a profitable business, they would probably get into that as well. This money-worshipping society with no morals is absolutely disgusting.

To conclude, talking won't get you anywhere. Study the problem better and write down potential outcomes that can occur if we allow this to continue further. Write down potential solutions and explore them further. Try to connect with people in your immediate community who share the same mindset and let them know of your goals, and then try to expand further to those who are in the position and willingness to do something about it.

blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

Men never “needed” women to survive. Yes we want companionship, sex and have an innate desire to reproduce. But men do not look to women to provide and protect for them.

But we do need respect. We need it even more than sex. Men who get successful relationships with viable women are usually given more respect in society. Like we have something going for us so we a viable women found us desirable. It’s respect from other men and women.

So some men are choosing the path of self respect. They are bending over backwards and kissing women’s asses when these women had no respect or appreciation for them to begin with.

Modern society just can’t keep on bashing on average men and expect there to be no negative consequences. Sure dating takes risks but when there is seemingly more drawbacks than rewards many guys just eventually give up. They don’t know what the hell to give women because too many women don’t even know what they want in the first place.

LittleSally · Accepted Answer

Wow, never heard of that before. But yes, same validity, but for very different reasons.

Women could not have made it on their own just 50 years ago (sexism), men couldn't make it on their own because they're always looking for someone else to take care of them (dependency).

If we could break both curses - we would all be much happier.

ElGato31 · Accepted Answer

It depends why both of them would say that. There are strong, independent men and women who don't need a woman or a man but most of the time they are just covering up their unsuccessful dating life and frustrations. Saying this is to save their ego. So, yes, it has the same validity regardless of gender.

Guy13 · Answer

Yeah, it is shattering their “holier than thou” attitude a bit. It’s true for those who have been around.
The unexpectedly awesome thing is if they can find a “good one” it’s like being a king and catered too.-Like even their Mother etc…

slatyb · Answer

That's not a trend. It's the same old thing. There have always been socially backward men who have trouble finding a partner. The only thing new is that they are about to connect with each other via internet sites so they are a lot more visible.

Adam1978 · Answer

It's not the same thing because it's completely different reasons they choose to do that. Many would have a partner if society was more reasonable.

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

Haven't heard about his before but if a guy says that I would assume he making fun of the women who say this

Pohjolan · Answer

That would make the guy a MGTOW. Incels specifically want to date people but fail at it.

annabananna · Answer

We all need other people. I think it’s always better to spend your life with others.

AdithyaR · Answer

Anyone is allowed to feel empowered about not needing a partner and being independent regardless of gender.

Sasha0426 · Answer

Sure. If a lot of men don’t want to date, more power to them.

Anonymous · Answer

This site is filling up with bitter losers doubling down on bitter hate-filled advice...

Christoff92 · Answer

It's not necessary. The most important thing is us as the individuals.

Sasha2004 · Answer

It is bullshit. Both women and men need each other.

SaoirseS · Answer

I don’t use no double negatives.

MzAsh · Answer

There’s a new trend?

serious_miss419 · Answer

It’s fine if they wanna do that. No biggie really.

Kessia99 · Answer

I dont care

Anonymous · Answer

What are you even talking about?

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