u keep saying its proven who has proven this smh.anyways your having sex with him but he says your to young lol why are you having sex with him?
second maybe its not your age that's to young maybe its your mind because you can be 17 and act like a 12 year old
third this might not make any sense but you see when you hit to 20 and older mark you tend to want to keep your partners in the 20s to like say your 17 now and he is 20 he may think your to young because your in your teens still but if you were 20 and he was 23 I bet he wouldn't have a problem dating u.
am 21 and my boyfriend is 27 that's a big difference but then again everyone tells me I carry myself as if am like 25 so it has to do with maturity to
I think he just thinks you are too young. He might have an internal "code of honor" that he follows and age is in it. I don't think you should try to change his mind, just respect his decision.
As for the age difference in relationships - I can't see how it could be proven "logically" what is best. Everyone has different ideas of what works for them - a lot of time logic has nothing to do with it.
it might be that he is trying to let you down easy or it could be that he thinks he could get in trouble with the law. Wait until January and you'll be able to tell. Don't keep pressuring him or you'll end up looking desparate.
maybe it's the fact that he's in college [or at least college-age] and you're in high school [or at least high school age.]
or because you're a minor right now it's illegal to do anything sexually.
Who knows. I am 23, and just left a relationship with a 20-yr old and I can definately say she was too young.
In my case, it was more of a maturity matter, but it could be as simple as an excuse as to why he doesn't want to date you.
And 'logically proven' that a two year gap makes no sense at all. I know couples that are anwhere from 0 to 10 years apart and are happy.
believe it or not there is a HUGE maturity change and responsibility change from still in HS to graduated. I tthink he means that you aren't as experienced in life as what he would prefer at the moment. its not quite but almost like the change in personality between middle school and highschool
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I fell for a guy who is 33 and i will be 23 in dec. He liked tonplay video games, colect nintendo figures and just was kinda kid like. When we would hang out he was very touchy. But when i would talk about being boyfriend and girlfriend he would just say can't. And I've known him since i was 18 and liked him all the time and eventualy fell in love but my dumb ass told him and a few days later he goes out with and ugly fat older chick. Men fucking suck.
It's an excuse 'cuz 'he's just not that into you' move on and find someone who likes you at the age you are.
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