Are you a reliable person to lean on/cry to/call when times of crisis? Why/why not?

[Pinay_ako]

I am unless I’m sleeping 😴. I turn my phone off when it’s bedtime. So don’t call me 🤙 after 10pm until the next business day 😂. How about you?

[BeeNee]

I feel like I've had to deal with a lot in my life just because of the nature of my former job. I've also had to deal with real life and death situations on multiple occasions, so I've learned to be calm, assess the situation, work through problems, allocate people/resources to those who need them, and then you mentally deal with what you've compartmentalized to get through those crisis situations. I've also had a lot of friends going through divorces, so I've had a lot of 4 hour conversations with lots of crying and advice given.

[Rebel-Angel]

I usually am, but i have a life too, so if i dont answer immediately dont spam me.

[Rebel-Angel]

Thanks for MHO!

[MrOracle]

I am... but I keep my circle of close friends small, because otherwise I'd spend my whole life dealing with their problems. I spend 4-6 hours a week on average helping the ones I do have as it is. Whether they need a ride, have a leaky sink, a problem with their car or their computer, or whether it's a personal issue they are struggling with, I'm usually the one they go to for help.

[bolverk]

For my family I'm always available, my phone is programmed to accept their calls 24/7, any others are rejected.

[Guy13]

Reliability, as related to human factors, is not a “I think or feel” questions. The proofs are quantifiable.

People trust me with their Money and hard asset retirement. I get retired parents needing one-levels from the kids that I rented too. That’s their sometimes ill, house sold, and can’t afford nursing/retirement center parents entrusted too me. All my Business is referred and backed by numbers as related to Revenues. Much of these are whole families within same class and status which means large sums, high expectations, and profoundly awesome margins.

I sleep well when I do sleep 😎 so I’m good with self-definition as “reliable enough”

[melanieeeB]

My phone is always on and I'm always reachable.
This is something that is really important to me and I think that everyone knows that I'm there if needed.

Once an old classmate, who I was thinking hated me, even reached out to me cause he needed someone to talk to.. that was pretty sweet! He still ignored me again afterwards but yeah it was still sweet.

[CubsterShura]

I am, and knowing that the world lacks compassionate people I'd listen to even a stranger.

I know I'm good as a person, but on top of that I'm also qualified in the sense that I'm mental health first aid certified. So I'm also trained to deal with people having certain mental health issues and help them find the support and help that they need.

[ChiTown33]

I'm as reliable as it gets. In a crisis? I'm not sure. It depends on the crisis. Cry to? Well that depends. If you let me know up front you just need to vent I'm a good listener. But it's in my nature to try to solve problems. If you tell me you got a problem, I listen, and then give you solutions and you blow them off then I'm probably going to get annoyed.

[douride2]

The comment at the bottom of your post nails it for me. I to turn my phone off when I go to bed. Don't call after 9-10 unless someone is dead. You can call anytime after 7 am. in the morning though. I'm up then.

[Red-Blaze]

I am pretty open, and ready to hear sometimes may get delay to reply as may be working
Only day friends know my phone is off is Saturday, as its my disconnected day, but they also know they are welcome to drop by and cry to all they need

[Quackthulu2]

It depends on who is calling. There are a hand full of people who can always get in touch with me. And I will get up at any time of day to go help out, armed if necessary.

[Freyke]

If you are close to me you can live with me if your house burnt down.

[Pinay_ako]

Wow really?

[Freyke]

By my rules, but yes.

[Pinay_ako]

You’re awesome

[MLGbreezy]

I am but I don’t allow it anymore like if you need some simple advice sure. But if you need a shoulder to cry on you can just leave cause I don’t got time for that nonsense. And I’m dependable if we are very very very very close.

[Adam1978]

Yes if you want a kick in the ass and want to get going and working on the next thing. I provide solutions not dwellings in whatever went bad.

[Heterosketero]

Yes. And it is because I am a creature of solitude with a comfortable place and an open mind when needed. I always saw this being my future and it came true, the lone shaman of my tribe.

[Fireguy17]

Yeppers.
All of the years in the fire service there isn't much that phases me anymore.
I haven't seen it all, but I have seen and been through a lot.

[iron_ninjs]

If it's something that happened to me too, then yes definitely. Why? Because I can relate, and give advice based on my experience.
If didn't happen to me, maybe if there's no one else.

[CreatingWonders]

My phone is constantly on do not disturb I can’t be doing with all the pings and dings, so if you call me you’re buggered till I sort out my phone and see the missed call, so don’t call me in an emergency as you won’t get anywhere.

[JDAC092299]

Not anymore, done it too many times for others now I look after me mentally physically and emotionally. I expect others to do the same

[mandyfire98]

I feel I have always been good about being there for my friends when they need me.

[exitseven]

All my life I have been the one everyone looks to what the shit hits the fan. I don't know why.

[ObscuredBeyond]

I don't always get to the phone in time, but I usually call back if I miss a call.

[msc545]

I do things like this professionally. I am absolutely the right person to call because I will make sure you get what you need to feel better.

[exitseven]

What would you suggest I do if i was horny?

[FunkyMonkee]

Usually. I've actually saved the lives of two people, so far.

[DancingQueen16]

I try my best to always be there for my friends when they need me

[LiamJHayden]

Yes, but I am a problem solver so if the person just wants to complain another person might be a better option.

[DarkLegacy]

Im the same to be fair, i don't cope well with sleep loss

[Jennz6]

I’m usually available except for when I’m working

[d_e141]

Sometimes I don't even answer family calls because of such a mental and physical pressure going with me but most of the times I'm the go to guy.

[Dnice1]

Yeah I try to be there for others in there time of need

[Still-alive]

Ill be cranky af and falling over myself but if its truly an emergency i can do it

[dragoblack]

Of course. All of my friends are able to come to me to vent or get their minds off of stuff

[Guardian45]

To my closest friends, I am ALWAYS available... if I hear you! I'm a deep sleeper!🤣

[Guanfei]

Usually yes. If I can be there, I'll be. Sometimes more than I should.

[Fuentes]

No I don't complain so I don't wanna hear your complaints.

[Amur8711]

I think I am, however being so really messed up my sleeping schedule. Lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

Im too fuckin reliable I think people take advantage of that

[Fabiloso]

I would try but tbh never had someone call me for that kinda thing except my mom

[201910203]

Yes and no Yes for my close friends no for people I don't know

[Elenafairchild20]

Same here although I have to work early so can't turn it off completly

[SnowedIn]

I am. I will be there if you call for me.

[MementoMori777]

That all depends, you get what you give

[RavVid]

I do support calls.

[Agape93]

If I offer or we are friends, yes

[Ms_Facesitter]

I am :) I give free hugs too!

[LavLavLuv]

Depends on who they are to me

[clampfan101]

As far as shy people go, yes.

[serious]

This is a very good question.

[Pinay_ako]

And your answer is?

[serious]

@Pinay_ako

My answer is Yes.

[legalboxers]

If I see you call I will answer

[Lucy68]

Yes I can be

[AimeeKyle]

Yes I am.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Yeah.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Nope.

[Nominal]

No, i am not relieble person.

[Nominal]

Except if u very crazy women and your behavior will lead to sex.