Did he buy these condoms sooner than what he told me?

[Cass510]

Okay y’all so boyfriend and I been together for 4 years, in 2020-2021 we had a bit of a rough patch but we overcame it and FROM WHAT I KNOW he’s been faithful and honest about things. We use to have car sex a lot in the beginning of our relationship 2019 and we bought condoms a lot. Towards the end of 2019 and beginning of 2020 we were on and off condoms, I remember him buying a 3 pack Trojan from a gas station and us using one and then stop. He put the pack in his back seat pocket and we didn’t use them again. As time went on I remember him moving it around but never tossing it. I remember that the glove compartment had them in I think I’m not sure. So in 2022 I grabbed them because well I figured they were expired and was gonna throw them since we don’t use them and then I seen they expire 6-01-2024 and I’m like wait are these from us? He said ofcourse, I said they don’t expire for two years, it had one gone and that was about it. I've been obsessing over whether he bought some in 2021 and used one with someone else and threw it in his car, ( which he knows I go through) anyways I seen in the store that the kind he had (Trojan ultra ribbed) had a 3-4 year expiration because some stores don’t alternate much so now I’m thinking he cheated

[MrOracle]

in my opinion, that's a stretch, and you are LOOKING for trouble and a reason to be angry at him. If that's the case, just break up with him, because he doesn't deserve that. No one does.

This already happened last year, and you're STILL going on about it. I promise you that if he was going to bang some other girl, and he used those condoms, he'd have just thrown everything away. There's no way he would have gotten new ones, torn one off, and put the rest back in the box - guys just can't be bothered with that level of deception - we don't care that much. The fact that you found them exactly where he put them a year or more earlier means they sat there untouched all that time.

Again, this is just your own flaming insecurities and you LOOKING to be offended so that you can be the victim of something. That's INCREDIBLY toxic and unhealthy, and if that's how you're going to be in this relationship, you'd be doing him a HUGE favor by just breaking up with him.

But, hopefully, you can realize that what I've said is true, and that he's done nothing wrong here - because, again, no guy would bother to make all that effort on the incredibly rare chance that you'd find them, and then that you'd even bother to look at the dates on them - because no guy is going to care enough to do the work required to deceive you that way, especially given that it probably wouldn't work anyway, as you've proven.

I hope you recognize that you are insecure, and that you stop LOOKING for trouble and for things to offend you, and start being a POSITIVE influence on him and he on you, so that you can build a real life together. As things are going now, you guys have no chance to survive long-term.

[spartan55]

Good lord you sound like an insecure nagging pain in the ass. You look through his car? Tf is that, you are crazy.

[msc545]

Your boyfriend needs a NEW girlfriend. You must be a complete pain in the ass to be with given this kind of bullshit.

[Alex8736]

hell yeah