My boyfriend is living with me for 4 months, bu he doesn't help me financially. How can I ask him to pay for rent? (Page 2)

Question

Would you ask your boyfriend/girlfriend for paying the rent if he/she is living in your house? I don't know how to tell him but I want him to pay at least the half of the rent :(

Crmolon · Answer

Absolutely, when living together everything is shared. Including tasks/chores and costs

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Why wouln't you just say those exact words? Y'all are in an intimate relationship.

LovingJo · Answer

Call his ass out, or ask him to leave.. What are you doing?

nudetru · Answer

By forwarding this post to him incogneto.. or let him know im moving into im willing to go easily a 100 bucks more than he's paying

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

My girlfriend usually ask for money while I’m inside of her it’s very hard to say no when all the blood is flowing somewhere else

Den1971 · Answer

Make him pay from now forward. Actually get rid of him. That's bullshit not paying rent. Actually that's your fault. You allowed it

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

This should have been done before he moved in. Make a discussion, now. Tell him what you're going through and ask him to contribute.

Samhanks · Answer

Ask him indirectly : Are you in a position to share our house rent? Most probably he will agree to pay his share !

TallAnon · Answer

At your age, just start a general chat about responsibilities and finances. Then mention cost of living along the way.

OddBeMe · Answer

He would have immediately if he were worth anything to you. He’s not, so dump him. He’s a tick living off your money.

Stevefiveo · Answer

Umm, just tell him like you did here. Dude, you need to be a man and pay rent or GTFO.

Shamalien · Answer

The fact that he hasn’t offered is a really bad sign tbh…

msc545 · Answer

Simple - you say "I need you to pay half the rent, please".

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Be honest with him tell him he either has to contribute to the household bills or he has to find someplace else to live

helbigarthur · Answer

Let them know relationships are equal and everyone should pay there fair share

Alex8736 · Answer

it's time to send him packing before things get worse off for you.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

It’s not that hard just give him a friendly personal eviction notice.

JesseP1nk · Answer

"If you elect a clown, don't be surprised if you get a circus" Dump him

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Tell him he needs to help with expenses if not then he has to leave.

Lunatic1 · Answer

If they live there, they should absolutely pay rent

longShlong1 · Answer

Well I would polity say. Well now that we are living together. Do you think you can pitch in with the rent and bills etc.

riverrat3 · Answer

tell him he has 30 days to start paying his share or he has to leave, you are not his sugar momma

ilovefeet007 · Answer

Talk to him nicely and just ask him…it’s all in presentation. He should be helping anyway living with you.

Arabianght · Answer

Hi yes u can just ask him if u can help me out with the rent u should be ok don't be scared to ask it's your rights

findanusername · Answer

Lol. Men are already a pain in the ass and you're allowing this parasite to squat your house? Buy yourself some dignity and kick him out.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Kick him out

krin_m · Answer

If he is permanently living with you, he should pay half. Absolutely!

Anonymous · Answer

I think when you live together it's fair that both have jobs (whether it be online or onsite) and split the bills.

Anonymous · Answer

so he's a freeloading bum. the woman i love is in the same situation with a freeloading bum who mooches and leeches off her

Celticwolf78 · Answer

You should have done that before he moved in and then it would have been easier

_Ashley__ · Answer

Well umm it is kinda late to discuss that, don't u think?

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Should have been decided before moving to your partner house

Anonymous · Answer

So he’s acting like most women do… and you are not ok with it…

Adam1978 · Answer

Yes but he should have done that from day 1.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Don't ask him. Tell him.

Chris_u006 · Answer

Just kindly ask, not a big deal...

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Well, he's giving you hot D as payment.

imfreeze95 · Answer

I would just kick him out

In_Trance · Answer

how did this even happen?

noohair · Answer

Sounds like a pimp whore relationship.

ItsMykolaJenkins · Answer

Just be direct Its normal

Brownsuga360 · Answer

Girl he’s using you!

Tonyblony5150 · Answer

I would say you have to pay too play

jimmy2 · Answer

Really that means he never will bye dude

baseball_del_tuono · Answer

Just ask him

1User12345 · Answer

why he's intolerant

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I would

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