Some people insist on the idea that calling someone by their name shows affection? I don't think they are related. What do you think about it?
Do you believe that calling someone by their name shows affection?
Superb Opinion
- 524 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
No they aren't related. It's a technique some people use, (and that they'll teach in sales seminars and shit). For some people it becomes a habit. But I don't think that it's true of anyone that calling someone by their name shows affection. I think that's simply an incorrect read of the situation. It's... wishful thinking if someone believes this.
In fact... those I've had the strongest affection for, I rarely called by their name. I'd have my own nickname or made-up-name to call them.
I think there is absolutely nothing whatsoever in this theory.
Most Helpful Opinions
- 792 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
This question is popping up a lot recently. I'll share my perspective, both from a professional and personal application.
Short answer, yes. When I say someone's name, either in writing or verbally; it is a conscious effort to establish a connection with that person.
People like hearing their names. It makes them FEEL valued and FEEL important.
In the professional environment, employees like when a coworker or manager remembers their name. It establishes a sense of trust and companionship.
In romantic relationships, it too creates a sense of companionship and belonging. Saying or writing a woman's name- with tact and grace- captures her attention and makes her FEEL connected to you. And if she FEELS connected, well, that's 90% of the battle.
No, I don't think it's true. In a way it puts some distance between the two, depends on on the situation ofc.
The person who calls the waiter by his name is not affectionate.
I have seen a yt video recently. Tiktok compilation "call your husband/boyfriend by his first name. All of them were offended.
-
It is definitely different if you want to have an affect on someone or eant them to focus with you or when you want to state something call by the name it will make such a difference
What Girls & Guys Said
7
Opinion
24Opinion
-
You probably call your boss by their first name.
You probably call your coworkers by their first name.
You probably call your friends by their first name.
You probably refer to people you just met by their first name.
I don’t think calling someone by their first name is a show of affection. I don’t think too many people are deeply in love with their boss, coworkers, friends, or random strangers. If they are, that’s kind a messed up that they would be in love with all those people, absolutely crazy.
So yeah, in my opinion, pet names are a show of affection, not their first or last name. -
I’m not sure affection is the right word. But I personally think it’s nice in moderation. Obviously doing it with everything you say is overkill. But overall, I think it shows that you’re engaged with your conversation with that person. To me, it’s just nice.
I don’t think affection is the right word tho because I definitely do it sometimes with friends who I don’t feel any romantic affection for. - 451 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
There is an old saying that is often used in reference to a relationship with a subordinate individual to an a person ranking higher than them in the established hierarchy of rank or professional leadership administrative position where first names are used instead of formal designations of rank or appropriate honorific titles, that being-- "FAMILIARITY BREEDS C🤬NTEMPT!"
-
Yes, calling someone by their name shows that you’re paying attention to them and caring about them. It also helps to build a relationship of trust and respect. When you call someone by their name, you give them a little piece of your heart. And that’s why it feels good when someone calls us by name because it shows that we matter to them.
-
I’d say it depends on the individual.
for me, yes. I have noticed couple of months ago that the woman i liked, when messaging her, i used to say “Hello (name)” instead of just “hello”. But that’s just me, and I’m in the minority very likely. Most people wouldn't think its affection.
- 500 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
I don't think they are related. Often people develop pet names for each other, based on their history together, I think this has more meaning/affection than calling the person by their actual name.
- 664 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
It would depend on the relationship with that individual. I think calling someone by their name just shows familiarity most of the time.
- 988 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
No it's unrelated. Everything we love has multiple names, so nicknames are more likely to be a person with passion/affection for you.
- 631 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
I think it shows respect for the individual. A lot depends on the situation.
- 864 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
it makes me feel like i'm in trouble lol or they hate me
- 1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
No, I've mentioned people names when I can't stand them. Mentioning a person by name has nothing to do with having or not having affection for them.
-
I think saying their name is just normal. It is their name. How else will you get that person's attention?
-
Yes, calling someone by their name can show affection, but not necessarily. Sometimes, it's a way of adding emphasis to your words or feelings. For example, I can use it when I am exasperated or angry at someone.
- 386 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
In my experience, the people who used my name a lot were manipulating me.
- 688 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
What am I supposed to call them if not by their name? I would think dear or honey would be more affectionate than Sue or Debbie.
-
No. But her wanting to be called by her name shows how egotistical she is. There was a scientific study that was done that showed the single word women like hearing most is thier own name... te me women don't have big ego's😆😆😆
-
I am not very social, and one of the things I try to do is to call people by their names to remember their names, so for me it's not affection.
-
When used in moderation, I believe it can be. But always calling someone by their name in conversation can be a bit much.
-
Not necessarily. But in my experience it is a sign of profound respect and admiration.
-
What else would you call someone? This sounds like the belief put forward by a deeply autistic person...
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
