my boyfriend changed his Fb password and I asked him why he changed it and he asked me how I know and what was I doing with his password how did I get it and why was I logging in to his facebook and I told him this is not the issue I want to know why you changed it what are you hiding and he keeps going back to I shouldn't be going through his stuff what do I say?
So it’s clear that you have trust issues, probably some insecurity too, but the question is why? Has he specifically done something to warrant your suspicions? Or is this the result of a bad relationship in the past?
What you don’t want to do is make him pay for what another man did, because that is the quickest way to ruin your relationship. If he cheated or did wrong at some point, then by being with him now, you’ve made the conscious decision to move past that indiscretion as a couple and leave his wrongdoing in the past. can't hold it over his head anymore and should’ve broke up long ago.
However if this is what I suspect and some man did you wrong before, then you’ve got some healing and internal work to do. What you’re doing now will only push him away because he will get sick of being monitored like some criminal and tired of reassuring you he’s not going to hurt you. If you love him and want things to work then make a personal commitment to being a better partner. Besides, if he’s (or any man) is going to cheat, there’s nothing you can do to stop it, so don’t waste time anticipating something happening that you have no control over.
It’s his personal, private stuff, and you shouldn’t be going through it if he hasn’t given you his permission. Same way he shouldn’t go through your personal, private stuff unless you allow him.
Maybe address some of your insecurities and trust issues?
It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your concerns and feelings. If you feel like your boyfriend is hiding something from you or not being transparent, it's important to address those concerns and have a conversation about trust and honesty in your relationship. However, it's also important to respect your partner's privacy and boundaries. If your boyfriend doesn't feel comfortable sharing his Facebook password with you, it's important to accept that and find other ways to build trust and intimacy in your relationship. Ultimately, it's up to both of you to work together to establish clear boundaries and expectations for your relationship, and to communicate openly and respectfully with each other.
Its a security concern, never give anyone your passwords. Even if you trust the person to whom you give your password, they may not store it in a secure location or they might keep it on a compromised device, opening it up to potential theft and thus putting you, your accounts and your private information at risk.
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u What do you say? "I'm sorry. I was wrong. I should have respected your privacy."
He’s right. You shouldn’t have his pw unless he wants you to have it. Grownups don’t snoop.
You are in the wrong and have crossed boundaries that shouldn't be crossed. If it were me we would no longer be together. Trust is very important in a relationship and you messed that up bigtime...
Get this through your head, he is entitled to his privacy.. You are not entitled to his passwords.. End of story, end of discussion. If you cannot accept that, you're not mature enough to be in an adult relationship...
Yeah, usually, guys don’t like when you go behind their backs and do things like that. Your best bet would’ve been to just play dumb like “what password? What Facebook? What internet?”
Either trust him or move on.
Everyone lives three lives.
A public life.
A private life.
And a secret life.
Grow up. No one should share passwords, period.
He is mad for a reason.
Why do you need it? Are you stalking him?
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