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I am in the same position as you are, right now. I just had it out with my girl saying she either needs to change the attitude or we are done.
Even though, my daughter turns 20 this year, I still want someone that can get along with her, so there is no friction when my daughter comes home.
I would never want my daughter to feel uncomfortable in her own home.
Your child comes first ALWAYS, until she is an adult,
And you girlfriend has said that she doesn't like kids and she doesn’t want to be a step-mom, This is a read flag and with that statement you have to ask yourself why are you dating her are you seriously considering a long term relationship or is it just recreation?
Well sorry to break it to ya mate.
Move on to the next girl.
Your girlfriend "knows" that you're crazy about her. She's actually being a spoiled brat.
Drop her and move on. There are ENOUUUUGH women out there that would die for a guy who is showing the responsibility of caring for a child on his own.
Seriously. Move on.
Your child should come first. The fact remains, that your girlfriend doesn't like kids and doesn't want to be a step mom or anything. To me, that's a red flag that things are not going to work out. Put aside your own feelings and choose your daughter. Find someone else. The relationship is quite young, not worth having a household where your daughter feels bad just for existing.
The obvious solution is to find a new girlfriend as you can't find a new daughter as simple as that.
But if she is above 18 you have a choice to make but better find someone else to date and get separated by mutual understanding your girlfriend will understand why you need to do this.
It's All About Family !!!
I don't consider this to be the problem. I consider the problem that you're OK with a girlfriend that doesn't like kids. Because you divorce partners, not kids. Your daughter even still grown will ALWAYS be your daughter. You may be done raising them at some point but you never stop caring about them. So what concerns me us that you're OK with being with a woman that rejects such a big part of you.
Why the hell are you even asking this question? You need to get rid of that girlfriend because she doesn't want your daughter to be part of her life, which means she's not wife material. Get rid of her now before things get more complicated. You are dumb as a bag of hammers if you like a woman very much who doesn't like your daughter. You're just infatuated by her vagina.
She said she’d never want to be a parent to your kid. What are you still considering? The pu$$y can't be that good
Are you seriously asking this? Your girlfriend just admitted she doesn’t like kids and doesn’t want any. You need to find someone opposite of that. Unless, you don’t care about your daughter and how your girlfriend might treat her badly 🤷♀️
Okay, even if you stay in a relationship with that woman, don't wonder later when she becomes adult that why she isn't visiting you or giving you a call.
She sounds like the wrong one if that is her idiotic attitude. A man and his child are a package deal, just like a woman and her child. If she can't handle that you need to move on, droop the bitch, and find someone who will actually reapect, appreciate, and love you both.
Sadly this kind of attitude is far more common among women than men.
You HAVE TO choose your child and end things with this woman. Your responsibility to create a safe environment for your child should be a priority. It's okay if the girlfriend doesn't want children but then you need to make it clear to her that she's in the wrong relationship.
Your child is your first and only priority. If this woman doesn’t want to be a parent.. she shouldn’t date someone with a kid for the long term because there can’t be a future without your child in it. Get rid of her and find a new woman.
Realise you're with someone who doesn't see a future with you. You and your daughter are a package deal. You need to find someone who is happy to take on that step mom role and treat your daughter as if she was her own.
Get rid of the girlfriend, she will only cause problems between you and your daughter. Men are different than woman in that we are capable of putting our kids first, whereas single mothers still have to get dick, no matter the harm to their kids.
she's mean for saying that to your daughter , who says I don't want to be your mom (step mom) to a child
The woman already told you where she stands, which is very helpful on her part. She isn’t it for you.
the problem is with her, 100%. why date a dad if you don't want to be a possible stepmom one day? I don't know what she was thinking. i'd stick to your daughter and date someone that would be good to her.
Your a father first and a man second. Own up to your previous choices in life and dump that hoe and find someone who is a good fit your family.
First of all why women that don’t like kids get a man with a child and I want kids and don’t find men that want& like children lol it’s not fair.