Is It A Red Flag If Your SO Flexes About Being A Cheater In The Past?

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Like, they call their exes dumb for not seeing through their lies or blame society for having monogamous standards or show zero signs of remorse for their previous behavior and instead feel smart

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

Maybe the biggest of all possible red-flags. ... if you don't see this as a red-flag... you do not understand what red-flags are. This is almost an over-the-top exaggeration of what a red-flag is. It's so extreme it's almost unbelievable. Also, for the record, if your SO flexes about how he swindles old-ladies out of their pension money... that's also a red-flag.

This is literally more obvious a red-flag that even that... because you aren't a little old-lady he might swindle. You are however a girlfriend... exactly the same as these girls he cheated on and is now calling dumb.

He literally might as well say the words: "I'm a terrible guy, and you would have to be an idiot to get involved with me. I don't give a shit about women, even the ones I pretend to care about. You should stop talking to me now, because I'm a terrible guy and I am going to hurt you"

It doesn't get any clearer or any more obvious than this, when it comes to red-flags. YES this is a GIANT HUGE red-flag. Like picture the biggest flag you can imagine. It's bigger than that. Dump this asshole. C'mon, what are you doing. I hope this question is hypothetical.

razelove · Accepted Answer

No, it'll probably be fine. Like letting someone who wrecks cars constantly borrow yours. It'll come back in even better shape if you do so over an extended period of time! lol

Faith18letsgo · Accepted Answer

Yeah that’s a RED FLAG. It seems like they’re letting themselves off the hook and it doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll cheat on you but it definitely means their morals are not ok and they’re likely to do something really shitty to you even if it isn’t infidelity.

IveGotNoName · Accepted Answer

I don't know if it could get redder than that 🚩 (other than if they were bragging about their murder victims ofc😅)

Surely · Answer

Why is he your SO in the first place?  Or should I say that you have found God’s gift to women. You better hold on to him!

SnowedIn · Answer

HELL. YEAH. Big red flag accompanied by flashing red lights and blaring red sirens.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

I would have dumped their ass. They brag about cheating on previous partners, they're easily going to do it to you.

KimmyKimchi · Answer

One a cheater always a cheater. I'd dump him now or he'll be bragging to his next girlfriend about how he cheated on you too.

Luffy1990 · Answer

Yes massive red flag it’s more then likely gonna cheat again if he is bragging about it

petitedollbabee · Answer

Such a big red flag that we wouldn’t even be dating in the first place. YIKES.

BCA6010 · Answer

I think such a person would be fully justified in calling you an idiot for even giving him a chance after a confession like that.

PointTaken · Answer

Yes. I had a girlfriend that told me she was. Her husband at the time was a total loser though. I thought she wouldn't with me. I was wrong.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Its a red flag if he's a cheater period, flex or not

TomMarks · Answer

If they are bragging about it, it clearly shows that they think it’s acceptable behavior. So, they MIGHT also cheat on you, should they be tempted.

RealMarek · Answer

Yes, of course it is. Very risky proposition to be with someone like that because he thinks cheating is okay.

Capricornunicorn92 · Answer

Yes that's a big red flag to get the fuck out of that relationship.

exitseven · Answer

I would see that as a big red flag A leopard does not change its Spots.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

That’s more than a red flag, that’s a complete deal breaker lol

Pete671 · Answer

No I find it a turn on tbh, because what she would be really saying is that she would cheat on me because of the size of my penis lol,,,

AdithyaR · Answer

That's a Red flag that's so red Elon Musk would want to send space missions to it.

shortster · Answer

Definitely. If they are proud of cheating then they are probably going to cheat on you. Assuming that they aren't currently.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Red flag, and a green light to get out of there ASAP.

Sparkie460 · Answer

That red flag is huge. It's like the size of 2 football fields.

LaMiSch · Answer

I would say a big Red Flag 😳

QuietVerbena · Answer

Extreme red flag

tesniolite · Answer

that just seems weird

MsShy87 · Answer

Red flag. Dump and move on.

call_me_scar · Answer

Id definitely say that's a big red flag

loveslongnails · Answer

How is that NOT a red flag? LOL

ColHathi · Answer

Obviously, yes.

douride2 · Answer

The short answer here is YES.

Stevefiveo · Answer

Yup, for sure.

Tim-loves-it · Answer

Not one bit.. its not cheating if Im there!

hahahahalolol · Answer

yes it is a massive red flag lol

MementoMori777 · Answer

Clearly

dreamstar72 · Answer

Most likely

LovingJo · Answer

💯 Yes

MysticDevice · Answer

Yup. Red flag

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes.

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